Chapter 180 What Do You Think and Do
It is said that husband and wife are originally birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster strikes.
He was in a car accident, the man who hit him ran away, and he was taken to the hospital, where he needed a lot of money for surgery. Although Lao Ding didn't abandon him at that time, what was the difference between what Lao Ding did at that time and abandoning him? Isn't it also chilling?
When he thought that he was short of money to be sent to the operating room, his wife would just sit on the ground crying and patting her thigh saying that she had no money, Qiao Dongliang felt cold and even chilled.
What is the difference between Ding Jiayi's approach and leaving directly?
No, there is still a difference.
If Ding Jiayi took Zijin away, at least Ding Jiayi would not be able to see how he died in the hospital, and Ding Jiayi stayed in the hospital that day and would only cry, shout and make trouble, at least he could watch him die.
Thinking of the past ten years, even if Ding Jiayi didn't give birth to a son, both of them were daughters, he never treated Ding Jiayi badly, as long as he earned any money, he didn't put it at home and hand it over to Ding Jiayi for safekeeping.
Is Ding Jiayi worthy of him?
During the first half month of staying in the hospital, I saw how considerate Zhou Bing’s sister-in-law was, and also saw that every time Ding Jiayi came to the hospital to take care of her, she didn’t even have a smile on her face. Looking into his eyes, there was always resentment , complaining that he can't make money, complaining that he is not good enough for Zijin, complaining that he is partial to Nannan.
Qiao Dongliang said that he was tired.
It's really meaningless to be a husband and wife to do this.
Looking at the relationship between husband and wife, and looking at himself, Qiao Dongliang had such an idea for the first time.
It's just that Qiao Dongliang is still an old Chinese traditional thought, unless it's really hard to survive, he usually won't say the word divorce.
Secondly, Qiao Dongliang is also worried that he wants to divorce Ding Jiayi because of these reasons. Will the two daughters, especially the youngest daughter, not understand or not?
When Qiao Dongliang was at work, he would sometimes hear that a couple in the factory had such a quarrel that they couldn't live on and were about to divorce, but the children in the family were noisy and even played truant, so they refused to let their parents divorce.
Qiao Dongliang is not afraid of anything else, but he is afraid that he will hurt Qiao Nan's heart and force a good child of Qiao Nan to be like that.
So just said one word, Qiao Dongliang shut up.
"Dad, no matter what you think, as long as you are happy, I will support you." After thinking about it, Qiao Nan looked at Qiao Dongliang firmly.
"Nannan, do you know what you're talking about, or do you really understand what I'm talking about?"
"I know." Qiao Nan took a deep breath and said with certainty.
Although she doesn't have any feelings for her mother, she is still a mother. There is no way for her to erase the kinship. After all, she owes her mother the gift of giving birth.
So after returning from rebirth, apart from Qiao Nan's firm belief in completing her studies, Qiao Nan never intervened in the affairs between Qiao Dongliang and Ding Jiayi.
In the previous life, Qiao Dongliang and Ding Jiayi often had quarrels, but the married life is just daily necessities, bickering and quarreling, which is very common in every household. Until the day she was hit and killed by a car, at least her father had never quarreled with her mother to the point of divorce.
Qiao Nan can't encourage his parents to divorce just because he doesn't like Ding Jiayi, Qiao Nan can't do this.
However, if Qiao Dongliang himself has such thoughts, Qiao Nan is not really only sixteen years old, and he still has thoughts and feelings for Ding Jiayi's mother in his heart. He feels that no matter how partial his mother is to him, it is also for his own mother's good.
What if my father divorced my mother and found a stepmother for myself?
In the previous life, Qiao Nan really felt that she would rather be bullied by her mother than see her parents divorce.
In this life, Qiao Nan's heart is much calmer.
Her father didn't want to divorce her mother, she would never speak up, and even induced her father to have such an idea, but her father had such an idea himself,
She would definitely support her dad in doing this.
"Nan Nan, you..." Qiao Dongliang showed a smile that was uglier than crying. It seems that Nan Nan usually doesn't talk much, but Nan Nan actually remembers what Lao Ding did.
Having seen so many children, this is the first time Qiao Dongliang has seen a child who understands that his parents want a divorce, does not cry or make trouble, and supports him so simply.
"Dad, don't think too much. The reason for my agreement is different from what you think. Dad, you are living the life, so whether it is good or bad, bitter or sweet, you know, my sister and I don't know. You If you feel that your life is going well, I won’t say anything. Do you think I have said anything before? But Dad, now that you have such thoughts, I hope you can live a little more comfortably. At least I don’t want to be The reason why you wronged yourself. Dad, I am also afraid of being wronged, I don't need you to go around this family for me. "
Qiao Nan had heard enough, the parents put up with the excuse of not divorcing for the sake of their children.
In her previous life, every time her mother used this excuse, it meant that no matter how much her mother asked her, she had to agree.
Qiao Dongliang wanted to leave, but Qiao Nan did not object, and Qiao Dongliang wanted to get along with Ding Jiayi, and Qiao Nan would not object.
Qiao Nan really didn't want to live her own life, but also had to bear the burden of the marriage of the other two.
Really, what she was afraid of was not her father and mother being wronged, but she was really afraid of herself being wronged again.
No need, no need!
"Dad, whether you can leave or not, you have to think clearly. I just want to say that you don't have to think about me at all." In order not to affect Qiao Dongliang's judgment, Qiao Nan even said the sentence "For me, it is better for you to leave than for me." It’s better not to leave” I endured the words.
"Nan Nan, you have been wronged a lot. You have such a mother, it's really..." The calmer Qiao Nan is, the more he cleans up the relationship, the more Qiao Dongliang can understand Qiao Nan's love for Ding Jiayi. Disappointment and despair.
Nan Nan's affection for Lao Ding is so weak that she can look at the issue of whether he and Lao Ding should divorce so calmly and rationally.
Doing evil, really doing evil.
"Just as I owed my mother for a few lifetimes, so I came to pay the debt, but what should be paid, I have enough." Her mother gave her a life, and she had already given her whole life, a life to her. She's fucked.
She was hit to death by a car, and her body organs are probably still usable, but her mother and Qiao Zijin hoped for her kidneys.
There is an ancient myth that Nezha cuts the bones to return to his father, and the flesh to return to his mother.
She gave her life back to her mother and her kidney to Qiao Zijin. No matter how much she owed, it should be enough.
"Dad, I don't complain, life is made by people. No matter how bad-tempered my mother is, as long as I am upright, my back is straight, and my ears are soft, I can live a good life."
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