Chapter 160, True and False Green Plum 21

Jian Yi didn't know the psychology of Jian's father. He only thought that he was honest when he came to his house, so he was so quiet.

But Shuyan Shangshen could see the old man's regret.

So she smiled without saying anything. After pouring him a cup of tea, she gestured with her eyes to let him sit closer to Jane's mother.

Jian's father looked at the girl's gesture of winking at him, and couldn't help but shook his head angrily and amusedly, secretly thinking that this girl was also a ghost.

If his son had been so clever back then, I'm afraid the couple could have reconciled a little better, but his son had the same moral character as his mother, he looked soft on the surface, but had the toughest temper.

Now he also realizes that he was indeed too pedantic back then and did look down on women, so he also regrets it today.

As for the marriage of his son, naturally he has no idea about it.

Otherwise, he wouldn't have followed Jing's family.

But since they are all here, he should make a statement to reassure the Jing family.

"Don't worry, everyone. Although my family is not an educated family, our upbringing is also very strict. Jian Yi is not the kind of person who changes his mind when he thinks of things differently. He must be in love with your daughter for the purpose of getting married."

"If Jian Yi treats Beibei badly in the future, we parents will be the first to refuse to agree."

Mother Jane nodded and also agreed. "I'm not that evil mother-in-law. From now on, Beibei can live with us or live alone with Jian Yi. I will listen to them. I promise to be a good mother-in-law."

Jian Yi expressed his attitude to them with the same serious attitude, "Uncle, aunt, and four elders, I really want to date Beibei, and I hope you can make it happen."

After hearing this, the Jing family was not unmoved.

Seeing as what others said was so sincere, it didn't seem like he was being fake.

And this is not even a marriage, it is just so solemn. If there is a real marriage in the future, it will not be too bad for Beibei to marry into the Jian family.

So several elders of the Jing family were a little shaken.

Seeing how sincere his family was, Jing's mother didn't object so much.

He always cared a lot about his daughter when he was young. Now that the child is older, she doesn't want to have any quarrel with her daughter, so she naturally agreed.

It's just a relationship, not getting married right away.

It's also because their family is too strict, so they have to come here so solemnly.

Dad Jing is actually the most civilized one in the family.

It's just that when it comes to his daughter, he has to be more serious, lest people think his family is casual.

So the mentality of raising a son is different from raising a daughter.

One is afraid of being bullied, and the other is afraid of bullying others, but they both have the same heart to love and protect their children.

So the mother took the lead and nodded, "Then let them try it. When the children are older, they always like to fall in love."

Jian Yi was overjoyed when he heard this, as if he had won a prize, and his eyes lit up.

Including Jane's mother, she was very happy, as if the marriage proposal was successful.

After the two families had a brief chat, several old people invited them to eat.

Jing's father had no choice but to serve the meal.

Jian’s father sees him as a grown man, but he actually washes his hands and cooks?

Even serving rice? For a moment, I was a little surprised how could such a man exist?

Originally, according to his understanding, men should go out to work, while women should stay at home, wash, cook and take care of children.

But the Jing family doesn’t seem to be like this.

Their family seems to have a very upright family tradition, but the men also do housework, and the women also help out.

The couple talked and laughed together, and they seemed to have a good time working together.

Seeing how sweet the interaction between their husband and wife was, Jane's father couldn't help but think of the time when he was young and would only go to the sofa every time he came home.

If Jian Yi's mother is late for cooking, he will lose his temper. Even walked away.

Thinking about it now, Jian Yi's mother probably insisted on divorcing him because he was disappointed again and again in this kind of ignorance and incomprehension.

Jane's father couldn't help but look at Jane's mother frequently, as if he had something to say.

Upon seeing this, Lord Shuyan proposed to take them for a walk around the area after dinner.

Jane's mother smiled and said yes, and Jane's father was even more grateful, thinking that this girl is really going to become a spirit, a ghost and a ghost.

After they all finished eating, Jing's father went to wash the dishes as usual, Jing's mother also went to help, and the four elders also helped clear the table.

The family looked very harmonious, as if they were used to helping out together.

Jane’s father had all his feelings after reading it. So it turns out that what Jian Yi asked for back then was just his help?

Lord Shuyan knew that the old man was full of doubts and confusion, so he took the couple for a walk after dinner.

Jian Yi held her hand and walked in front, while Jian's father and Jian's mother walked behind.

I still remember that Jian Yi's family lived here more than ten years ago.

When passing by their former community, Jane's father and Jane's mother immediately thought of the past.

Very early on, Jane's father was busy with work and didn't care enough about his family.

He thought that as long as he gave his wife money, she would be satisfied instead of asking for this and that all day long.

But what Jane's mother really wanted was for him to have a meal with them when he was free, but he said it was too demanding and it would be strange not to be sad.

She didn't want him to accompany her every day, she just hoped that he would remember to eat when he was busy and come back to rest when he was free, so that she could make him some soup to replenish his health.

But Jane's father was so focused on work that he had no other thoughts. Moreover, he was a man who grew up under the education of male chauvinism, so he was naturally impatient with Jane's mother's thoughts.

After all, men and women have different thoughts. If they misunderstand too much, they will be disappointed in each other.

During that time, Jane's mother felt that she couldn't survive and wanted to divorce.

At that time, Jane's father felt that she was making trouble unreasonably, so naturally he didn't bother to pay attention.

But as the misunderstanding was not resolved for a day, the contradictions became more and more serious, and in the end the two of them reached the final step.

If Jing's father hadn't persuaded them, saying that the children needed their parents, let them calm down, and don't let the children watch their parents become enemies in the end.

Otherwise, they will just fear that the more trouble they make, the more ugly it becomes.

Thanks to Jing's father's words, he reminded the two of them, so they could jointly raise Jian Yi after their divorce.

After so many years, the two calmed down and gradually realized their mistakes.

At that time, Jane's father was too conceited and thought that everything he did was right. Naturally, I will not apologize to my wife.

Jane's mother thinks that he doesn't love her or this family, he only loves himself. So I feel tired and don’t want to go on.

But now, when they saw Jing Beixin's family living happily, they knew they were all wrong.

In a long marriage, two people need to understand each other, respect each other, and talk to each other.

Instead of just swallowing all your worries, this will only deepen the misunderstanding.

Both Jane's father and Jane's mother seemed to realize their immaturity back then and sighed.

Shuyan Shangshen and Jian Yi turned around and saw that they both realized their mistakes, so they looked at each other and left them space to talk on their own.

Jane's father saw that they were quite clever, so he took Jane's mother to the lake to whisper.

"Back then, it was my fault. I shouldn't have said that to you. It wasn't that you had long hair and short knowledge. It was me who had short hair and short knowledge."

Mother Jian smiled and said, "You do have short hair, but I am also at fault. I should communicate with you properly instead of blaming you for everything. I am also at fault for this."

The two of them talked to each other about their faults, and had a sense of déjà vu.

Shuyan looked pleased and amused. He held Jian Yi's hand and said, "If we get married in the future, we must not be like them. It's best to tell everything. It's best for everyone to discuss it." .”

Jian Yi agreed, "Yes, I will discuss everything with you in the future, and I will share the housework with you."

Shuyan Shangshen nodded with satisfaction, "Let's start dating first. It's still early to get married."

Jian Yi frowned and said jealously, "Why do you say that? I came to your house with the mentality of marrying you..."

His expression was rather resentful.