Chapter 575 Unwritten Rules

"I'm going to talk to my colleague about something. I'll see you, Ms. Fu."

Yang Yumin changed tables after eating half full. Although he knew that his wife had a good relationship with Fu Yiru, it was normal for him to have a meal with Fu Yiru's mother,

but for some reason, he felt some inexplicable pressure.

This was very strange. Obviously, Ms. Fu had a good temperament and was very kind when she spoke to him, but Yang Yumin felt that he was almost sweating.

After Yang Yumin left, Li Ye frowned slightly and looked at his mother.

"Mom, how did you scare him away?"

"What?"

Fu Guiru was stunned, then recalled carefully, and then asked doubtfully: "Really? No! I didn't dare to ask any questions, so he was scared away?"

"And I think Yumin is okay! Do you have any misunderstandings?"

Li Ye said with a smile: "Mom, do you still need to ask questions? Look at your eyes just now, it's like interrogating a spy. If you don't believe me, ask Xiaoyu and Xiaoruo."

Fu Guiru looked at Fu Yiru and Wen Leyu in surprise, and the two little girls nodded in unison. The main point is a real one.

Fu Guiru couldn't help rubbing her forehead and sighed softly.

Li Ye smiled and teased: "Mom, people say that the more a mother-in-law sees her son-in-law, the more she likes him. You will like him after you see him a few more times.

In fact, Yang Yumin is not bad. Except for his appearance, he is very good. He is a decent person and treats his sister well."

"That's right, our mother is too picky," Fu Yiru immediately accused from the side: "Love is a very selfish thing. Outsiders are not allowed to interfere. If you do this again in the future, you will become an old witch."

"Ha~"

Fu Guiru smiled, and a head slammed into Fu Yiru's head. On the door: "Don't play tricks on me. If you want to find a boyfriend in the future, I think so too. As for that Yao Feng, don't even think about it."

"Don't be unconvinced. A daughter marries into someone else's family and a daughter-in-law marries into her own family. The mother-in-law finds faults with her son-in-law for the good of her daughter."

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Fu Yiruo rolled her eyes. Malay girls mature earlier than mainland girls. Although she also despises that Yao Feng, she is instinctively dissatisfied with her mother's barbaric interference in "free love".

However, after Wen Leyu thought about it for a while, she nodded and agreed: "Auntie, you are right."

Fu Yiruo was so angry that she kicked Wen Leyu's feet under the table.

[We are natural allies. Why did you turn against me to please your mother-in-law? Are we still good sisters in the future? 】

But Fu Yiruo didn't know that Wen Leyu really didn't try to please Fu Guiru, but because Li Ye had been strictly selected by Teacher Ke, and there was no fault in her, so she "became more and more pleasing to the eye".

"Well, what our mother said is all experience. Although it is a new society now, and we value free love, if we can get the blessing of our family, wouldn't life be more fulfilling?"

As for the difference between a daughter-in-law and a son-in-law, unlike these two little girls who are only about 20 years old, Li Ye, who is several dozen years old in his two lives, has a deep understanding of it.

The daughter-in-law is right under his nose, with the parents-in-law watching, and even if the son suffers a little grievance, he has a backstage to support him.

And in this day and age, a daughter-in-law is someone else's person after she marries, which is recognized by society.

Even in the countryside, if there is a dispute or a fight with others, the married girl will not be beaten easily, because beating the married girl is equivalent to bringing in another family of enemies.

Therefore, since ancient times, if the mother-in-law doesn't like her son-in-law and wants to say a few words, she has to be gentle and agreeable.

But the daughter-in-law is different. If she doesn't like him, she will scold him directly. It's not just talk that a daughter-in-law can become a mother-in-law after many years.

It was not until the 1990s that the strong daughter-in-law turned the tide and turned the years of tradition upside down.

The daughter-in-law can't be scolded, but the son-in-law. Alas~

So, if you can satisfy both parents before getting married, you can save a lot of trouble later.

"In fact, Xiaoyue's partner. I just take a look. I have no right to find fault."

Fu Guiru sighed and said: "Xiaoyue told me that Yumin is a good child. Your grandfather, grandmother, and parents also think he is very good. This is actually the blessing of the family that Xiaoye said.

Although I am worried, I just take a look."

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Seeing Fu Guiru suddenly become lonely, Li Ye, Fu Yiru, and Wen Leyu looked at each other for a few times and chose to remain silent at the same time.

Every family has its own problems, and my family has two!

The Li family must be very satisfied with Yang Yumin. He has a good job, a promising future, and a good attitude towards the Li family.

Sister Li Yue never calls Han Chunmei "mother", but Yang Yumin respects Han Chunmei very much. Every time they meet, he buys gifts for Han Chunmei, Li Juan, and Li Ying, and he uses his own salary.

Everyone in the Li family likes Yang Yumin very much.

In comparison, Fu Guiru has missed Li Yue's growth process after all, and has become an "outsider" in a subtle way.

So how should Li Kaijian, Fu Guiru, and Han Chunmei get along with each other in the future?

Li Ye is also very worried.

. . . . . . . . .

Li Ye accompanied his mother to drink a few glasses of red wine. When they finished eating and left, most people in the restaurant had left, leaving only the most important table.

Yang Yumin was also at that table, accompanying his colleague Lao Shao.

Then when Li Ye passed by, Team Leader Zhou at the table called Li Ye.

"By the way, Li Ye, when you go upstairs, go to Room 6022 to find Xiao He to report today's events."

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Li Ye looked at Zhou Ziyuan, whose face was flushed, and asked coldly: "Excuse me, Team Leader Zhou, what do I need to report?"

Zhou Ziyuan frowned and said: "According to the regulations, anyone who contacts people outside our exhibition group needs to be recorded. You just had dinner with these two female comrades, so it needs to be recorded."

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Li Ye was very surprised. He really didn't know there was such a rule. Was it because they were afraid that he was in contact with spies?

"Hehe, Li Ye, don't make such a fuss,"

Old Xie saw Li Ye's displeasure and smiled to smooth things over: "This is an old rule for many years, it's just a formality, Li Ye, you just need to go and say hello to Xiao He."

"Yes, yes! Rules are dead, people are alive, you go up and tell Xiao He, just say you're having dinner with your classmates, it's just a matter of two sentences."

"Hahaha, young man, don't be stubborn, we old guys are all for your own good!"

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Everyone was "kindly" persuading Li Ye, as if a group of experienced people were persuading the newcomer not to be stubborn and to be sensible.

Li Ye glanced over coldly, his eyes disdainful.

He would not write this report today. He had to report a meal with his mother?

And how to report it? A friendly meal with a patriotic businessman?

However, just as Li Ye was about to turn around and leave, Wen Leyu suddenly stepped forward and said in a cold tone: "As far as I know, we don't have any regulations that require reporting to the organization for today's situation. Do you have any documents?"

"If there is no document and no specific regulations, please don't show off your authority in front of so many people."

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Everyone was stunned, even those who were almost drunk were stunned.

A little girl was so bold and accused Zhou Ziyuan of abusing his power.

Old Xie said awkwardly: "Ahem, these are unwritten rules, and everyone is used to abiding by them"

"Old Xie, you don't need to explain to her, why should you explain to her?"

Zhou Ziyuan was stunned for a moment, and his heart was immediately angry, and he opened his mouth and began to scold Wen Leyu.

But Yang Yumin at the table said with all his might: "How can they understand without explanation? They are still students and don't understand these unwritten rules."

"I know what you are worried about, Team Leader Zhou, but as far as I know, Li Ye and Wen Leyu have refused the opportunity to study abroad in school, and more than once."

"Even if everyone will escape, they won't, because Li Ye can study abroad at any time. Lijiaopo National University has invited him."

"In addition, I don't understand why Team Leader Zhou said that unwritten rule in front of the two foreign guests?

When we go abroad, we represent the image of the mainland. Don't you think that what you said just now can easily cause foreign guests to misunderstand us? Or do you just think that doing this is really normal management?"

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Yang Yumin said this in a very calm tone, but after he finished speaking, the whole restaurant was silent, and you could hear a pin drop, as if it was struck by lightning.

If Wen Leyu's behavior just now makes people think that young people are young and frivolous and do not know the height of the world, then Yang Yumin's words are suspected of "making mistakes".

Because he is a public official, he openly sang against the leader in a collective activity and ridiculed Lao Zhou for abusing his power?

You don't pay attention to the impact?

If someone reports this to the unit after returning, he will be accused of being ignorant of the overall situation, undermining foreign affairs work, and having no political wisdom.

To put it more seriously, this will affect his career.

However, Fu Guiru looked at Yang Yumin with a calm face and felt that he was much more pleasing to the eye than before.

Helping relatives instead of helping others is a family!

More than 20 years ago, Fu Guiru received a letter sent from Malaysia to the mainland and was identified as having overseas relations. He was pushed to the bottom by the "unwritten rules" and became a suspect from a militia company commander.

And no one in the family stood up to fight openly.

Li Zhongfa's opinion was to try his best to mediate within the rules, and he complained to Li Kaijian a few times.

Then Fu Guiru was angry and stubbornly went south to Malaysia.

Later, Fu Guiru often recalled that if the people in her family had "helped the relatives but not the people in the family", she would definitely stay and bear all the hardships instead of choosing to escape.