Chapter 1758: No Marriage, Dating

Zhou Chen's answer made Li Jia very happy, but after being happy, she felt a little breathless when she thought about her family situation and the family burden she had to bear.

"Thank you, Zhuang Tuxi, thank you for telling me this. If possible, I really want to be with you, but I can't be so selfish. Our family situation is very complicated. For my parents and my brother, I must stay in Shanghai after graduation."

"Zhuang Tuxi, I like you, but I don't want to drag you down."

If you don't know the situation of Li Jia's family, you may still be unable to understand what she said.

But Zhou Chen knew what Li Jia's family situation was like, and how much pressure Li Jia was under. Li Jia was also a proud person. It was not easy for her to tell him these things in person.

"Damn it?"

Zhou Chen looked at Li Jia and understood why she said that, because she was now her parents' only hope to return to Shanghai, so she was forced by her parents.

From the plot, we can see that Li Jia's parents may not be as extreme as Zhuang's father and grandmother, but they are definitely not much better. They are serious about favoring boys over girls and want their daughter to pave the way for their son and use their daughter to let their family return to Shanghai.

In order to return to Shanghai, her father directly told her to find a Shanghai local with a house and a household registration after graduation, so that they can benefit from their daughter and move their household registration back to Shanghai.

So they don't care much about whether Li Jia is happy or not. Whether their daughter is happy or not is secondary. What's important is that they can return to Shanghai and pave the way for their son.

In addition, in the plot, Zhuang Tunan went to Li Jia's grandparents' house for dinner, and just let Zhuang Tunan be targeted by his second uncle and aunt. Instead of helping the future son-in-law, they complained to Li Jia about Zhuang Tunan after the meal.

Their meaning is very clear, that is, they want to control Zhuang Tunan, just like the old couple of the Zhuang family want to control Huang Ling.

Zhou Chen had no worries about Li Jia, but he just didn't want such people to be his future father-in-law and mother-in-law. He had everything he wanted, so why did he want to find a father-in-law and mother-in-law who would make things difficult for him?

"Li Jia, I understand your thoughts and the pressure. You are not a selfish person. You value family affection, so you are troubled by your family."

"Family affection and love, which is more important, how to choose, no one can make a decision for you, only yourself can make a decision."

Li Jia explained anxiously: "Zhuang Tuxi, it's not what you think. Family affection is the most important to me, but I really like you and don't want to give up on you, but I can't drag you down. I want to solve my own problems myself."

"I understand that every family has its own problems. Although you didn't tell me in detail, I can probably understand your difficulties."

Zhou Chen paused, then said: "Do you know what kind of family environment I grew up in?"

Next, he briefly told Li Jia about his family situation, especially a "biased" father and a large family of vampires on his father's side.

Li Jia was really dumbfounded after hearing this. In her eyes, Zhou Chen had always been confident and sunny. She always thought that Zhou Chen, with such a personality, must have grown up in a happy family, so she was so shocked after hearing about Zhou Chen's family situation.

At the end, Zhou Chen sighed faintly: "Our family is such a situation, but it cannot be said that my parents did not have love when they were young. They must have loved each other at that time. It was only after marriage that they drifted further and further apart because of family reasons. No matter how beautiful the love is, it cannot withstand such step-by-step destruction."

"Because of my parents' situation, I have become confused about marriage. I have read many books, including books on love. I have also read a lot. The love I yearn for is a matter between two people, so I have an idea in my heart that love does not necessarily have to be equated with marriage."

"I don't want my marriage to be like this. I don't want my marriage to become like my parents, so my idea is, just don't get married. If I meet someone I like, then we can have a passionate love. Who says that people who really love each other must get married? "

"I know that my idea may be very irresponsible in the eyes of others, but this is my truest idea. Instead of getting married and being tortured by family problems on both sides, it is better to give up marriage and treat love as a matter for two people, and love each other vigorously, just for the love of each other."

Li Jia listened to Zhou Chen's words with a look of astonishment, and her delicate eyes revealed obvious confusion.

"Love without marriage?"

She could understand every word Zhou Chen said, but when they were connected, she was a little shocked, because this idea was indeed a bit contrary to common sense.

Her idea was that if she wanted to express her feelings to Zhou Chen, the two of them would keep going until they got married, but she understood the family burden she was carrying, so she didn't want to implicate Zhou Chen, and just wanted to bear it silently by herself.

She came to see Zhou Chen today because she couldn't bear to let him go. She liked Zhou Chen, a very passionate kind of love. If she missed Zhou Chen, she knew that she would never be able to like anyone else the way she liked Zhou Chen.

So when she heard Zhou Chen say that he also had feelings for her and liked her, she was really very happy in her heart. She even wanted to hug Zhou Chen and lean on his arms, but she was rational and restrained herself.

As a result, Zhou Chen suddenly said such a thing to her, which really shocked her.

"Yes, you know, I am a writer, I pursue the love of the two people's minds. I do not oppose marriage, nor is it against marriage. Instead, if I feel that if they get married, the two parties are troubled by family reasons because of family reasons. The quarrel is constant, centrifugal and Germany, such a marriage is not as good as it happens from the beginning. I don't want to stifle love and kill my creative inspiration because of this marriage. "

"A writer, if you want to write a better work, you must have a relatively free living environment."

Zhou Chen said these words very calmly. These words were semi -fake. As a man with rich emotional life, he could say too much about love and marriage.

The point he conveyed to Li Jia is that our love is just a matter between the two of us. There is no need to pull the families of both sides. We can be together. As long as we do not get married, these are not a problem.

This sounds like a scum, but Zhou Chen is sincere, not just wanting to play. As long as Li Jia is willing to follow him, he will definitely be responsible for her.

The marriage certificate that is very important for others is not so important for him. As long as the woman really loves him and is willing to always be with him, his conscience will keep him responsible for her.

It's just that his words have brought a great impact to Li Jia. Most women in this era are still more traditional. Once most women really like a man, if you want to be together, you will go to get married. Yes, Li Jia is the same.

It is precisely because of this that she will be so entangled. Her family problem she knows very well. She likes Zhou Chen, so she does not want Zhou Chen to bear her family with her. She thinks this is unfair to Zhou Chen Simple idea.

Li Jia's heart was messy, and Zhou Chen's heart was messy, and she stood up nervously.

"Zhuangtuxi, I, I, I'm sorry."

Zhou Chen understood what she meant, and she stood up and whispered: "It doesn't matter, no matter what choices you have made, I won't blame you."

Li Jia looked at Zhou Chen, his eyes were red.

"Thanks."

Zhou Chen suddenly reached out to hold her into her arms. The moment Li Jia was hugged by Zhou Chen, her body suddenly became stiff and wanted to break free, but she felt the warmth of Zhou Chen's arms. She could not help but relax her body. Just let Zhou Chen hold her.

"I should stay in school for postgraduate entrance examinations. As for in the future, I will stay in Shanghai. Whether we will be together in the future, if you encounter something that you can't solve in the future, you can come to me Open, I will do my best to help you. "" "" "". "

"Because, Li Jia, I also really like you."

Li Jia's tears couldn't hold down, and his hands tightly tightened Zhou Chen, just leaning on Zhou Chen's shoulder, feeling Zhou Chen's warmth.

"Zhuang Tuxi, why do you say that, what do you let me do in the future?"

The two stayed in the park for a long time. In the end, Zhou Chen sent Li Jia back to the school. During the difference, Li Jia said nothing, but his eyes were full of tangles.

Li Jia’s entanglement was seen by Zhou Chen, and he himself was very stable. He had never seen any big scenes. No matter what kind of decision Li Jia made, he would not have an opinion. It was you who loved it. He still respects women and does not like forced.

For a long time, Li Jia did not write to Zhou Chen, and Zhou Chen didn't think much, and he did not take the initiative to find her, but just hidden this emotion in his heart. Maybe it will change yourself because of this.

It's just a little windy!

..............

The time came in November, the weather has gradually become cold, and Wu Shanshan has also been in college for two months. She has become accustomed to college life and quickly integrates into it.

During this time, she has been studying hard to improve her professional ability, and she has not often met Zhou Chen.

But today she encountered Zhou Chen, and she took the initiative to step forward, showing a bright smile.

There is no mistake, one, one, one, one, one, one, one, one 619, one book, one, one, one, one, one, one, a book!

"Zhuangtuxi, tomorrow is the weekend. You promised me to take me to see the attractions in Shanghai."

Of course, Zhou Chen would not refuse: "No problem. Tomorrow morning, I will take you to visit Shanghai, but I just just bought a motorcycle that I just bought by someone, do you dare to sit?"

Before, he found a local classmate in Shanghai and bought a thousand yuan of Jialing motorcycles. When the motorcycle was just handed, it shocked a lot of people. It's really rare.

However, Zhou Chen is a celebrity of the School of Journalism and a well -known writer. The person familiar with the matter is also shocked Zhou Chen's willingness, but he did not doubt Zhou Chen's strength.

Now reform and opening up, in Shanghai, rich people are gradually increasing. Great writers like Zhou Chen can afford motorcycles, which is not too conspicuous.

Wu Shanshan replied without hesitation: "As long as you drive, I dare to sit."

Wu Shanshan is eighteen years old this year. In this era of lack of clothes and less food, a girl can grow to one meter six or seven. It is really rare, and her figure is very good. The clothes can also see her good figure in front of her.

"Then that's all, tomorrow morning, I am waiting for you at the entrance of the school."

"good."

The next morning, Wu Shanshan put on the clothes she thought were the best, put on her makeup very carefully, and then came to the school gate early to wait.

But when she arrived at the school gate, she found that Zhou Chen was already leaning against the motorcycle, waiting there.

"Zhuang Tuxi, why are you so early?"

"I got up early, and I haven't had breakfast yet. Here, the buns I just bought are still hot."

Wu Shanshan took the buns handed by Zhou Chen and smiled sweetly: "Thank you."

"Do you want to leave after eating, or leave now?"

Wu Shanshan glanced at the school gate where there were not many people, so she said: "Let's go now."

"Okay."

Zhou Chen sat on the motorcycle, and then said to Wu Shanshan: "Get on."

Wu Shanshan's face was slightly red, but her movements were not slow. Like Zhou Chen, she sat on the back seat of the motorcycle, and there was only a little distance between her and Zhou Chen.

Sitting on the back seat, she looked at Zhou Chen in front of her. It's not that she hasn't had such close contact with Zhou Chen before, but now it's different from before.

Zhou Chen started the motorcycle and said, "You eat the buns first, I'll drive slowly, and I'll speed up after you finish eating."

"Okay."

Wu Shanshan responded softly, and the motorcycle drove slowly. She sat behind Zhou Chen and ate the buns in small bites.

Just like the candy Zhou Chen gave her back then, this was the first time in her life that the opposite sex brought her breakfast. For her, this was not just a breakfast, but also a kind of care, the care from the person she liked.

After riding slowly for a few kilometers, Wu Shanshan finished the buns and said, "I'm done, you can speed up."

Zhou Chen responded, "Okay, then I'll speed up now, you hold on tight."

As he said, he pulled the accelerator and accelerated suddenly. Wu Shanshan was not prepared at all, and her body suddenly leaned forward and leaned directly on Zhou Chen's back.

Her face turned red, and she slowly controlled her body so that she was no longer pressed against Zhou Chen's back. She held Zhou Chen's waist with both hands, kept a relative distance, and retained her reserve.

In one day, Zhou Chen took Wu Shanshan to many scenic spots in Shanghai and explained them to her. Along the way, Wu Shanshan smiled brightly and looked at Zhou Chen with admiration.

The journey with Zhou Chen, just the two of them, was the scene she had always longed for. Now it finally came true, and it was so beautiful that she felt like she was in a dream, which was a little unrealistic.

In the evening, Zhou Chen took Wu Shanshan to the Bund.

Wu Shanshan looked at the scenery in front of her and exclaimed: "Is this the Bund? There are so many people."

The Bund has a special beauty. As one of the iconic attractions in Shanghai, many outsiders will choose this place as their first choice when they come to Shanghai.

This is Wu Shanshan's first time here. She had only seen it on TV before, which was far less realistic and artistic.

Especially this time she had Zhou Chen by her side, which added a kind of beauty.