Chapter 638 Chen Shu's View on Marriage

The group finished their midnight snack with laughter, and Xiao Zhao slowly woke up.

After leaving the restaurant, everyone was a little swaying in the wind.

"Hey, my Captain Chen~" Chen Chuan deliberately called out in a shrill voice, with a teasing look in his eyes.

"Hey, my hero Chen~" Zhu Yiba immediately killed him, and then he and Chen Chuan looked at each other and laughed.

"Have a taxi, hurry up. Zhang Qing, where do you live? Oh, yes, Xiao Zhao, where do you live? I remember you two are on the way?" Chen Shu couldn't stand being insulted, and now he just wanted to send these three people away, so that his brain, which had been mocked all night, could take a break.

"I live in Xincheng."

Xiao Zhao's swaying appearance made Chen Shu dare not let him leave alone. Now he heard that the other party lived in Xincheng and happened to be on the way with Chen Chuan and the others, so he quickly sent the three of them to the taxi.

Since the implementation of the "joint liability for drinking accidents", now after the drinking party is over, the organizer is tacitly responsible for the follow-up handling. Naturally, because everyone needs to be sent to the car safely, the organizer will deliberately stay sober throughout the whole process.

It is a good thing, at least everyone will be more restrained when persuading people to drink. People drinking at a table are easily excited. If something happens, there will be a sober person to solve the problem.

In fact, there is still no clear regulation in China to explain the punishment of drinking to death and the tablemates are responsible. Generally, safety and responsibility are used as a bottom line. The idea is to smooth things over so as not to cry, make a fuss, and hang oneself.

This practice comes from the handling of traffic accidents.

Nowadays, there are actually a considerable number of traffic accidents that cannot be clarified by the "Road Traffic Law" to clarify the responsibility of both parties in the accident. At this time, Article 22 of the law "Motor vehicle drivers shall abide by the provisions of road traffic safety laws and regulations, and drive safely and civilized in accordance with operating specifications" will be used to force interpretation and determination of responsibility.

In essence, this clause is actually a correct nonsense, which can be used in any accident. Its role is to determine a reason for dividing responsibilities. It mainly serves the idea of ​​"smoothing things over". This is not a derogatory term, but the grassroots really need this thing.

After sending the three people away, Chen Shu turned around and asked: "Look at my memory. I was so busy sending people away that I forgot to ask you where you live?"

"It's okay, Chen Da. I'll take the bus back. Calculating the time, I can just catch the last bus." Zhang Qing's face was much relieved, not as red as before when he was drunk in the box.

"You drank today and wore police pants. If something happens on the way, it will be troublesome. Let's go, or take a taxi with me." Chen Shu waved his hand and continued, "I'm going to Jiefang Street, how about it, is it the same direction? Wait, I remember you live on Jiangxin Road, hey, it's really the same direction."

Today is different from the past. No matter whether you are going to work or going home, everyone will not wear police uniforms if they can. Everyone understands the reason and will not explain it here. However, this sentence is limited to the police uniform on the upper body, including shirts and jackets. This kind of top can be taken off immediately without any ambiguity.

Even if you go out to the next store to buy a pack of cigarettes or drinks, everyone would rather go through this process without fear of trouble.

However, compared with the treatment of trousers, there is a world of difference between them. As long as the police have to wear a full set of police uniforms to work on weekdays, they are used to wearing trousers all day long. Anyway, they are the same color, and no one knows how many days they have worn these trousers unless they mention it.

Not only do they wear trousers on duty, they wear trousers for field work, they wear trousers for meals, and they even wear trousers when they go home after get off work. They wish they could wear trousers when they take a shower or sleep, so that the stray dogs on the roadside will be scared and run away when they see the police in plain clothes.

At first, everyone didn't understand, and always attributed the matter to their own awe-inspiring righteousness or the evil spirit of punishing evil. The real reason is that the stray dogs are always uncomfortable with the reflection on the buttocks of their trousers, which is commonly known as blinding the titanium alloy dog ​​eyes.

Trousers are good, but Zhang Qing had drunk alcohol after all, so he had to be more vigilant. As the leader of the group, Chen Shu naturally took full responsibility, so he should try to avoid unnecessary situations.

A black business car stopped on the side of the road.

Chen Shu looked at the license plate and matched it with the license plate in the mobile phone software, and waved his hand and said, "Let's go, the car is here. I've spent a lot of money today and called a special car. If you don't follow me, you will waste the extra fare."

Zhang Qing nodded and got on the special car.

"Chen Da, I'm sorry." As soon as he got in the car, Zhang Qing apologized in a low voice, expressing the unrealistic reasons he had put forward when he stated his marriage partner before.

As a people's policeman, some things should be kept in mind, but he was so selfish in his attitude towards others. After he sobered up a little, he was still a little ashamed.

"What's there to be embarrassed about? Most of the young people in our bureau are similar to you. This doesn't mean that you are definitely wrong. Maybe after a few decades, those who marry for love will envy your life." Chen Shu took the mineral water bottle from the armrest, unscrewed it and drank a few sips, moistening his throat.

"Chen Da, don't comfort me. I have actually thought it through. My family conditions are not good and I am not smart, so I can only sacrifice love to achieve my career." Zhang Qing said with a smile on his face and a calm tone, but such words, after coming out of his mouth, seemed a little pessimistic.

"Zhang Qing, I'm not trying to comfort you. This matter really depends on the future. You have to know that love is a product of hormones, which is only temporary. However, if two people are together for a long time and have children together, then it is family affection. Love and family affection are different. If you ask me to choose, I will definitely choose family affection."

Perhaps because he drank too much, Chen Shu talked a lot tonight.

As a man who has never been in love or married, he didn't know that he could be so talkative on the topic of gender. He didn't know where his confidence and basis were.

After a pause, Chen Shu tried to recall and said slowly: "For my parents' generation, there was no blind date or boyfriend and girlfriend. It was all adults who knew each other well and sat down to chat and decided the matter. Although this is a bit feudal and authoritarian, the problem is that the divorce rate of their generation is much lower than that of our current pursuit of free love."

Zhang Qing nodded as if he understood.

Afterwards, he couldn't help asking Chen Shu what kind of woman was the partner he should marry in his mind.

Thinking of the father who carefully planned his son's life, although Chen Shu only participated in this scene tonight, Chen Shu believed that this was just the tip of the iceberg, and the restaurant owner would definitely worry about his son all the time in his long life.

Then there was the boss lady who came later and met for the first time. She must have thought that her son would drink too much and hurt his body when he was taken by her husband to greet customers, so even if she showed up, she would still come to see her family with worry.

Finally, let's talk about the big boy. As a son, he doesn't have to bear the responsibility of the family at his current age. Although his academic performance is not very good, he still has the right values. As long as others give him a little guidance, he still knows what to do.

Three people, three identities, but they support a complete family.

So, what three views are consistent, the family is well-matched, the mind is mature, and the money is powerful are all right, but from Chen Shu's own perspective, he suddenly feels that marriage cannot be unilaterally based on the individual.

Just like in the workplace, whenever there is right or wrong, he tries to analyze and understand from the position of others. The same should apply to marriage. You can’t say ‘As a police officer, what kind of woman should I look for’, but think ‘Can I and her form a complete family together’. As a police officer, this consideration should be put at the back of the list.

Chen Shu couldn’t help laughing and blurted out: “You have to find a woman you hope can raise your offspring, and she is also willing to give birth to your children.”

“What?”

Click!

The taxi braked suddenly, and the driver turned around and widened his eyes: “Officer, you have been brewing emotions for so long, and the result is just this?”

Chen Shu nodded and smiled calmly: “Well, that’s it.”