Chapter 1033 Don't Grow up...a ​​Headache

Chapter 1033 Don't grow up...a ​​headache

If you want to truly understand a person, you must truly and thoroughly understand the person's growth environment and all experiences.

Because the soul of the original owner is still there, and all thoughts are still very active, Qingu can easily detect it.

Including some memories that the original owner has forgotten, but actually left a mark on his life.

——Almost all of Tao Yu's childhood memories are related to his grandma. The impression of his mother is very vague, and very... cold.

In this imprint, grandma is his closest, most dependent, and... the person who has the most say in the family.

Mother is a strange, indifferent, and even somewhat hostile pronoun.

When Tao Yu was six years old, his parents divorced, largely due to the influence of his grandmother Ding Xiaoxiao.

Grandma Ding Xiaoxiao has only one son, Tao Hongzhe, who died in a car accident when his son was just entering university.

She herself is a title holder in an enterprise and public institution. Her husband used to run transportation, but after his death, she received a large amount of compensation, and her family is not bad.

Ding Xiaoxiao was quite spoiled with Tao Hongzhe when she was a child, and she was the same when she grew up. Whether it was studying, choosing a school, a major, getting a girlfriend, getting married, buying a house, etc., she made up her mind.

After her husband passed away, she shifted all the focus of her life to her son.

Tao Hongzhe and Qian Hongying met through an acquaintance, and they lived with Ding Xiaoxiao after they got married.

In fact, there have been some contradictions between the two from the beginning, mainly on the issue of mother.

The words that Tao Hongzhe kept on his lips were "my mother said, my mother said XX", but these small frictions in life, whose family has not had any bumps and bumps, didn't they all make do, after all, divorced The price is too high.

But with Tao Yu's birth, the conflict between them escalated.

Ding Xiaoxiao's love for his grandson is beyond ordinary people, no matter what, he is reluctant to beat and scold him.

Even when Qian Hongying went home and wanted to play with the child and cultivate a parent-child relationship, Ding Xiaoxiao also separated the two, thinking that Qian Hongying was too strict with the child. "The child is so young, what do you know? When you grow up, you will know." up". Let Qian Hongying do the housework, and secretly tell the child, "Don't listen to your mother, grandma is the one who loves you the most..." and so on.

As time goes by, Tao Yu's feelings for his mother have become divided, and he doesn't listen to Qian Hongying's words at all, and is even full of resistance and hostility.

As long as Qian Hongying taught him a lesson, he would cry and say he would "tell grandma", and then the family would inevitably have a mess.

Qian Hongying said that the child should not be spoiled blindly, that would harm him.

Every time Tao Hongzhe turned to his mother one-sidedly, he said to her, "My mother took care of my child without you. When you come, you will do all kinds of things."

The conflict between Qian Hongying and Ding Xiaoxiao intensified, and Tao Hongzhe cheated during this period.

In his words: Qian Hongying does not have the gentleness and virtuousness of a woman at all, every day when he comes back, he is full of feathers, she is the one who forced him not to go home, it was she who forced him to seek "comfort" outside.

Qian Hongying looked at her mother-in-law who was always defensive and resistant to her, her son who looked at her with strange and hostile eyes, and her husband who smelled like other women.

She felt that her whole life had been plunged into the darkness with no end in sight. She had worked hard and fought for it, but the reality was so cruel, she couldn't recover, and she was powerless to fight. In the end, she and Tao Hongzhe embarked on the road of divorce.

However, the divorce between the two was also very unsatisfactory, mainly because of the custody of the children and the division of property.

Tao Hongzhe is having an affair, but it does not constitute the evidence on the table.

Because the law expressly stipulates that it is "a long-term husband and wife relationship with a third party", how to prove this? To record every day? candid? That's privacy, I'm afraid I got into the situation before I caught the handle of others.

In other words, it is impossible to sue Tao Hongzhe for being the wrong party in the marriage and get a divorce.

Qian Hongying wanted to take the child alone to reverse the child's habits, but Ding Xiaoxiao and Tao Hongzhe didn't let her get close to the child at all, and the child didn't get close to her at all.

Nor is it possible to get custody of the child.

Ding Xiaoxiao helped pay the down payment for the house, but Qian Hongying and Tao Hongzhe jointly paid for the mortgage and decoration expenses.

Moreover, Tao Hongzhe's salary is not as high as Qian Hongying's, so relatively speaking, her contribution to the family is even greater.

Because she couldn't bear it first, and she filed for divorce first, she would never get a share of the family property.

The mother-in-law, husband, and son have all formed a united front and isolated her alone.

In the end, Qian Hongying was disheartened and was forced to leave the house.

Even so, she pays child support every month until she reaches adulthood.

In the original owner's memory, Tao Yu's memory of his mother is very weak. Before he became an adult, his grandmother helped him collect the monthly support payments. He knew about it, but in his words: this is her mother. What should be given to me, who told her to give birth to me?

Both Qian Hongying and Tao Hongzhe re-established their families after their divorce. Tao Hongzhe, who wanted Qian Hongying to leave the house, did not continue to take Tao Yu with him, but threw it to Ding Xiaoxiao.

So Tao Yu has been living with his grandma since he was six years old. Ding Xiaoxiao can no longer describe him as doting, but doting.

Give what you want, even if you are knocked on the foot by a stone while walking on the road, grandma will step on the stone hard a few times.

This has formed Tao Yu's character that he must get what he wants. Before he was young, those toys, snacks, or some small things, he wanted, no problem, Ding Xiaoxiao could satisfy him.

Although there were some troubles, but the problem is not big, just spend a little money to get it done.

But this time it's different, Tao Yu fell in love with a girl, and he still looks like he won't give up if he can't catch up with her.

This is a person, not a toy snack, just if you want others, you must cater to your ideas? !

The girl's name is Zeng Yuanyuan, from another department in the same grade.

In fact, Tao Yu didn't like Yuanyuan as much as he thought at the beginning, but this Yuanyuan ignored him at all, but it aroused his desire to possess.

So Tao Yu pursued each other in different ways, in classrooms, cafeterias, and even went downstairs to the girls' dormitory and public places to confess his love many times.

Every time Yuanyuan solemnly expresses that she is focusing on her studies now and will not consider having a boyfriend. It can be regarded as declining his pursuit.

Tao Yu's repeated courtship failed, but he was ridiculed by the people around him, saying that he couldn't even handle a country girl.

This Tao Yu didn't know what was wrong in his mind at that time, so he sent a message to the other party, saying that if she didn't show up for the appointment at the appointed time, he would jump off the building.