Chapter 2256 Family Meeting
Morty is relatively single-minded, after all, he has never been in love except for a crush, but his sister Xia Mo is already a veteran in love, and she never leaves her mobile phone, and she has news all the time.
Xia Mo is very popular. From the last party, it can be seen that she can get along well with marginalized people and pretty girl groups. However, she made a choice. She chose to join the pretty girl group, striving to become the focus of the school and attract more people. How many years have passed since we gave up on marginalized groups?
Her goal is very clear, which is to become the most popular girl and have a satisfying boyfriend. But she hasn't yet realized what kind of group she's trying to fit into.
At the end of the summer, dressing herself up and changing her words and deeds according to the needs of the group can indeed achieve the purpose of integrating, but she forgot that these people are all competitors, and her integration means fighting.
At the same time, in the eyes of many boys, this group of girls is the type to be easily deceived. With a little effort, they can make a few successes without any psychological burden at all, because isn't this group dressing themselves up in all kinds of ways just to promote themselves? How can boys of the same level take this kind of girl to heart?
Beth didn't know about her daughter's condition before, but she only found out after her husband's conversation that her daughter had become like this. The son is a little introverted at best, but he is a boy after all and will not suffer any disadvantages. But the daughter does this when she is only sixteen years old. She really doesn’t know what she wants to do.
Beth was not like this back then. Of course, Beth's taste was different from that of Xia Mo. Xia Mo pursued the mainstream, so he worked hard to dress himself up, accepted mainstream culture, and communicated with the circle all the time. Worry about falling behind. Beth was completely described as a coincidence at that time. She obviously had lofty ideals and wanted to be a heart surgeon, but by accident, she fell in love with Jerry. Jerry was definitely not the kind of outstanding man in the mainstream perception. , not the focus of the school at all.
If anything, Jerry was flattered and really regarded Beth as everything to him. At least in the beginning, he tried every means to fulfill all of Beth's wishes. Beth was also blind, and the two ended up together.
Beth doesn't want her daughter to continue her current lifestyle: "We need to talk."
Xia Mo said there was nothing interesting to talk about. She is now trying to integrate into the mainstream of the school, and her parents should be happy. She is now actively socializing, making friends, and can dress up. She is completely an ideal female high school student.
"What do you want to say?" Xia Mo looked at his mother.
Beth organized her words: "Your current behavior is not worth advocating. Just because you girls have bad behavior at a young age, women are always objectified and looked down upon in society." This is a punch.
Xia Mo didn't expect that her mother would teach her boxing skills: "It can't be so serious. All my sisters are like this."
"You were not like this before. It was only in high school that you started to pay attention to your appearance and consider your own dressing. But this is not your preference. You are just catering to others. You have lost your autonomy. If women are like this, then in the future We can only become the vassals of men.”
"It's not that serious." Xia Mo didn't feel that she had done anything wrong at all. After all, as long as she could attract the attention of boys, she had achieved her goal. Now she just wanted to have a vigorous love affair and touch herself.
"I also come from your age. There used to be many girls around me who liked to dress up. To be honest, they did attract a lot of boys, but this is not love. Today you dressed up beautifully and some boys were attracted to you, then tomorrow... Boys will be attracted to other better-looking girls. If you want to fall in love, you should find boys who don't care about your appearance. If a boy likes you because you are beautiful, then when you are old, he will fall in love with you. He will abandon you," Beth told her daughter seriously, hoping that her daughter would turn around.
But a sixteen-year-old girl would not be so honest: "Mom, I understand what you are saying, but I think everyone has a love for beauty. What does it matter if you like someone's appearance first? Look at Morty, he It’s not just about being a nympho all the time, men are just so superficial, what’s important is how we women can grasp superficial men and make them unable to live without us.”
Sure enough, a newborn calf is not afraid of tigers, and her daughter is really confident. However, Beth knows that her daughter does not have this ability, and it is impossible to control boys. I'm afraid that my daughter will find a playboy as her boyfriend, and she will be the one who gets hurt in the end.
From Beth's point of view, her daughter now spends all her time studying how to dress, and there is no other charm that can attract men, and appearance is the least able thing to withstand the test. If appearance is unreliable, all Beth can think of is a woman's last weapon, which is her body. That is what she least wants to see. She really doesn't want her daughter to become a mother at a young age, and she doesn't want to be thirty-five. Become a grandma at the age of 10.
So she must correct her daughter's attitude, but seeing her daughter like this, Beth didn't know what to say. It seemed that her husband still needed to take action.
Jerry's changes during this period are obvious to all. His husband is no longer the loser he was before, but a loser who understands all kinds of truths. So Jerry is a loser just because his career has not started yet and he is still a small employee. However, his social life is still very successful and he has many more friends.
Jerry was ordered to guide his daughter in a critical moment. Beth had already taught her boxing, but his daughter did not accept it at all.
"Boxing is of course ineffective for girls who have no interest in school." Jerry said his wife used the wrong method: "The essence of boxing is the relationship of interest distribution, but some people cover up the essence and regard boxing as a tool to make money, so it is impossible to educate my daughter with boxing. After all, boxing is just a tool for people with ulterior motives to make money. The real boxing should be a distribution method. Only when women are financially independent can it be the real boxing. Unfortunately, if all women are really financially independent, those who make money will be the first to disagree, because if women are truly independent, they will not be able to make money."
"Then what do you say?"
"Of course, analyze the essence. I will call Moti and Xia Mo down together, and our family will listen to my opinion." Jerry is going to hold a family meeting.
"Xia Mo, today we are mainly talking about your problem."
Xia Mo said that after her mother finished talking, her father said, "I'm listening, go ahead."
"You are still young, but you think of yourself as a participant in a talent show, and the boy you like as a judge. You dress up in a fancy way just to make the judges smile. Do you think this is really good?" Jerry knows what young people like to watch, and talent shows are one of them.
"What's wrong with it? If you don't dress up in a fancy way, you can't participate in the competition, and as long as you make the judges smile, you win the competition." Xia Mo said, isn't this good?
"I'm just making an analogy, taking your current behavior out of it, and it's certainly right to say so. But feelings are not a game, but a more complex system. It doesn't matter if you don't seize the initiative in the game, or even if you lose. But you can't afford to lose in feelings, so you must seize the initiative." Jerry will then analyze why you should seize the initiative.