Chapter 1479: Life Is a Play (8)
There are actually quite a few good men in this society. They don't smoke, drink, or flirt, and go home after work. They are considerate to their wives, responsible for their families, and willing to take care of and raise children. They basically pay their wages. They should be considered good men in the general sense.
However, if his wife is determined not to have children, or if she refuses to have children before certain conditions are met, few men can accept it.
There is a street survey. If you want children or houses after divorce, most women will choose children, but most men will choose houses. But the strange thing is that if you know that your wife can't have children when you get married, most men will choose to divorce. But if the wife knows that her husband can't have children, she will choose to adopt one in most cases.
For men, children are necessary. But whether to raise them after they are born, and how much effort to raise them, is hard to say.
If a husband can understand his wife's decision not to have children without being determined to be a DINK, you have found a treasure without thinking.
However, Bo Yan's attitude is important and unimportant. It is important because they are husband and wife, and it is best if they can communicate well and understand each other. But it doesn't matter, because even if Bo Yan is determined to have this child, Xia Siyu will not be soft-hearted and stay. If the two quarrel and cannot reach a consensus, she would rather choose divorce.
In the issue of career and family, she will undoubtedly choose career. Family is just icing on the cake, and children are even more incidental. Children are the continuation of her life, but not the ladder for her to realize her personal ideals and ambitions. She has to walk her own way and will not be tripped by any difficulties, even her children.
Of course, she also respects other people's choices. If Bo Yan likes children more, it is understandable. It can only be said that their concepts are not in line. She will not blame him, but don't expect her to change her mind for love.
But Bo Yan can understand her and respect her choice. She really feels-very happy.
It is difficult to meet someone who really loves you. And this person can understand and support her. She really feels lucky. Of course, if there is no Bo Yan, she will find fun for herself and live well. But after having him, the colors in her life seem to be richer.
"Actually, I also have the thought of cherishing talent." Bo Yan was held by her, his voice faint.
Li Yiru could see that Xia Siyu's acting skills had improved by leaps and bounds, and Bo Yan was right beside her, so it was impossible for him not to see it.
"If you were still the same as you were two years ago, I would definitely tie you up firmly, even if it meant self-explosion, I would make you keep the child." Two years ago, Xia Siyu had not yet competed with Shang Feier, and she did not have the awe and serious study of acting. The entertainment industry seemed to be her playground, and she was here to play.
But now it is different. Her acting skills have improved by leaps and bounds. Even though her reputation was so bad before and she missed the Golden Phoenix and Golden Olympic Awards, some people still complained for her. Now that she has learned to be restrained, not only has she not concealed her edge, but she has also become more rounded. Bo Yan watched her acting and acted with her every day. He even felt that he could no longer control her at some point.
For such a person, it would be a waste to keep her at home, let her be a good wife and mother to take care of her husband and children, and let her wash her hands and cook soup. She was born to be on the stage.