Chapter 1460 Tree Hole
"I can't tell her and I, and it's not easy to tell. What do you think?"
Faced with Susie's rather straightforward question, Lin Nian was not so easy to answer. He returned to the psychology department, and it was as painful as being chased by Masashi Toyama and asking when was the last time he masturbated. At the same time, he glanced at Susie suspiciously, wanting to see if this girl was hypnotized by Masashi Toyama. The psychology department forced her to do anything.
"What do I think?" Susie shook her head, "I think anyone with a discerning eye can see that there is a problem between you and her. Many people think that you are having a conflict, but they don't know the reason, but it seems that the reason is nothing. important."
"Why isn't it important?" Lin Nian asked.
"Because most people only care about whether there is any problem between you and her."
"What does it have to do with them whether she and I have problems?"
Su Qian stared at Lin Nian for a while and said calmly, "There is a reason why you can be good friends with Chu Zihang."
After all, Lin Nian was actually much better than Chu Zihang in some aspects. Su Qian made a sarcastic comment, but he immediately came to his senses and sighed, "No. Even if it was, I wouldn't have that intention." , they think too much.”
"You can't control what they think." Susie said, "As long as everyone thinks that's the case. So you still haven't said what happened between you and her."
"I'm not sure either," Lin Nian said.
"You don't know what it means?" Susie asked strangely, "The atmosphere and the way you get along with her have changed. Basically anyone with eyes can see that she came after Cassel for you. College, you went to China for a personal interview for her. It was impossible for your relationship to be like this in the beginning. To be honest, I wouldn’t be surprised if you suddenly announced your engagement or marriage to her half a year ago. After all, In the eyes of many people, this will happen sooner or later.”
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Su Qian glanced at Lin Nian, who was silent, and said, "But after you came back from Bei'an, your relationship with her seems to have changed a lot. You basically don't appear in the same place at the same time, and you don't communicate much, except when you are together." Those necessary conversations when we meet in Lionheart Club or in class, but other than that, you are just like familiar strangers.”
"I don't want this either." Lin Nian shook his head.
Susie raised her head and asked, "You don't want this, do you mean she wants this? Is she the one who led the impasse in your relationship with her?"
Faced with such questioning, Lin Nian couldn't just bite him off.
"Cold wars and deadlocks between lovers are mostly caused by both parties. I don't know what happened between you in Bei'an, but the situation of a cold war has been formed. I might as well make it clearer. Now It's because you don't look for her, and she doesn't look for you, and if you just drag it on like this, sooner or later we will break up." Susie's words finalized the situation.
On another occasion, the person who was judged would have knelt down and shouted, "Master Qingtang, Pizza Heart, Namo Goose Rice Tofu, I Buddha Ciba." But after listening to Susie's words, Lin Nian was quiet for a moment and then said, "I have looked for her and wanted to speak more clearly, but she always found ways to avoid me."
"She took the initiative to avoid you?" Su Qian looked up at Lin Nian after hearing this, thinking that the other party was joking.
Su Xiaoqiang took the initiative to avoid Lin Nian? Will this kind of thing actually happen in reality? It sounds like Fingel took the initiative to avoid pig knuckles, Chu Zihang took the initiative to avoid the basketball court, and the vice principal avoided the women's swimming assessment.
"Yes." Lin Nian said, "I tried to speak clearly to her several times, but she avoided me."
"Have you tried to be stronger? If your attitude is too soft, the other party will always try to avoid those sharp and contradictory points, causing the relationship to further deteriorate." Susie gave reasonable suggestions.
Lin Nian shook his head. He was not someone who would force Su Xiaoqiang. He respected Su Xiaoqiang's opinion. If the other party didn't want to talk, he wouldn't force it. He will wait until the other person is willing to talk to him before settling the matter.
"I respect her thoughts and will talk to her when she wants to."
"Then you are totally wrong to think so." Susie commented.
"Ah?" Lin Nian raised his head and looked at Su Qian doubtfully. He thought that respecting his girlfriend was the most correct thing to do.
"Usual times are ordinary times, quarrels are quarrels, and cold wars are cold wars. Every situation is different and needs to be handled in different ways. During the Cold War, blind silence and concession were the original sins that worsened the relationship. There always needs to be one party Stand up forcefully, talk things out, and make things clear, so that you can resolve the core conflict and repair this deteriorating relationship," Susie said.
Lin Nian was stunned for a while. He had never talked to anyone about relationship-related issues. Even if he had, it would be someone who would talk to him and then he would give him advice (such as Lu Mingfei). This was also the first time he knew that when he was confused, it felt so good to find a strategist to give him advice. It immediately pointed out the mistakes he had been making and avoided the consequences of going his own way.
"I think I know what to do." Lin Nian hesitated, but decided to believe what the military advisor said, "I will make it clear to her next time."
"That's good." Susie nodded.
"I really don't have much experience in this area. If I still have any questions, can I still come to you?" Lin Nian looked at Su Qian and asked.
"You can do it at any time." Susie calmly pushed up her rimless glasses and said (Sister, sister, you are so experienced, you must have caught up with your boyfriend, right?), "But before this topic ends, I still want to I want to ask, what is the conflict between the two of you, or what is the difference between you two? You two have always been a model couple in the college, and you have never even had a fight. Why this time? The cold war has reached the point where it looks like we’re about to break up.”
"Things here may be complicated." Lin Young said in a low voice.
It's not that he was perfunctory or didn't want to say it, but it was really complicated. Lin Nian actually guessed a little bit about the reason why Su Xiaoqiang didn't want to see him. He didn't go to Su Xiaoqiang forcefully. On the one hand, he was reflecting on the matter. It also leaves room for both of them to think and avoid saying anything excessive or making regretful decisions during the showdown.
In fact, they are all afraid of the decisions they will have to make after certain things are revealed, and based on their understanding of the other person's character, they can infer the decision the other person may make. They are all afraid of that moment coming, so they run away and avoid it, leading to the "Cold War" atmosphere that everyone sees today.
But just like what Su Qian said, some things cannot be postponed. No matter how much you think about it, no matter how much space you reserve for each other, three months should be enough. Lin Nian actually has an answer in his heart. He hopes that Su Xiaoqiang Now that we have the answer, we should know what to say and what answer to give when the right time comes next time.
"Since it's hard to say and you don't want to say it, then don't say it. I'm not the kind of person who likes to pry into other people's privacy." Su Qian saw Lin Nian's thoughts and took the initiative to take a step back and put away her curiosity. She has always been very measured in this regard.
But at the end, after she lowered her head for a moment, she still raised her eyes and asked Lin Nian one more question, "Lin Nian, you should know that my relationship with Su Xiaoqiang has always been pretty good. After all, we are both friends of the Lion Heart Club, and now we are She is a colleague. I like her character very much. She is the straight-talking type. There are not many girls like this, so I also cherish her. As her best friend, I want to ask you something privately. You can do it. You can choose to refuse to answer, or you can lie, because you know that no matter what you say, I may share the answer to this question privately with Su Xiaoqiang.”
"Tell me first." Lin Nian paused.
"Mandy Gonzalez, your senior sister, we all know her." Susie said, "I want to ask, what do you think of her?"
Lin Nian looked up at Su Qian, a little stunned.
"I know that you have always had a good relationship with her. You were both students of Professor Manstein in the early days. She also lived with you for a period of time. You are also her junior brother and the junior under her care. I heard that She was the one who came to inspect you even when you entered school. She also played a very important role in this incident between the Earth and the Mountain King. It can be said that without her, we would probably lose everything."
"The situation between Su Xiaoqiang and I has nothing to do with Mandy." Lin Nian said.
"Even if it has nothing to do with it, I just want to talk about this person." Susie said.
"Then what do you want to ask?" Lin Nian rubbed his eyebrows.
"Oh, it's nothing, I just want to say, you should be able to tell that Mandy Gonzalez is interested in you, right?" Susie asked, looking directly into Lin Nian's eyes, "You don't look like a person like Chu Zihang , you should be able to feel the special emotions of the people around you like a normal person."
"Well, I know about it." Lin Nian answered the question simply without being perfunctory.
"Then what do you think of this matter?" Susie tilted her head and looked at Lin Nian, "I have met Mandy Gonzalez. Although I don't know much about her, I have chatted with her a few times before. She is a very charming person. , she is also a very interesting woman. Let me put it bluntly. If they were competing on the same stage, Su Xiaoqiang would not be able to compete with her. If the incident in Carmel Town had not caused her to drop out of school, I am afraid that the model couple in the school should be replaced now. Bar?"
Lin Nian wanted to say, is Su Xiaoqiang really your best friend? Or are you saying that you are so cruel when you are best friends in private?
"How do you think about this?" Lin Nian decided to ask Susie what she meant.
"I mean, if possible, would you accept Mandy Gonzalez and choose her instead of Su Xiaoqiang?" Susie asked seriously.
Lin Nian paused and replied, "No."
"If I understand correctly, this will not happen. It is based on the situation that you and Su Xiaoqiang have not broken up. What if you and Su Xiaoqiang break up? Will you consider Mandy Gonzalez?" Susie said Like a sharp knife.