Chapter 7843 Fools Are Blessed

Gu Yiman looked at Xie Hewu in surprise.

She didn't expect that Xie Hewu would have such thoughts, and he would be sad.

Seeing Gu Yiman's surprised look, Xie Hewu smiled and rubbed her hair: "There's nothing surprising. This is a convention that has been passed down for thousands of years. Of course I can not abide by these conventions, or even treat them as nothing, but Where are my brother's future wives?

As a married woman, I boss them around as a master. What do you think they will think? "

"You don't have to be bossy," Gu Yiman said, "Wouldn't it be great if we all coexist peacefully?"

“Yes, peaceful coexistence is fine,” Xie Hewu said, “But there still has to be a degree of tolerance.

For example, when I was not married, I was the master of the family. If there were any occasions in the family where women needed to come forward, I could represent the Xie family.

But if I get married and my brother gets another wife, then when does the Xie family need to show up, do you think it would be me or my brother’s wife who would show up? "

Gu Yiman: "..."

Looking at Gu Yiman's clean eyes, Xie Hewu laughed and rubbed her head again: "Of course you don't have any trouble in this regard, you don't like to be in public.

But what if you have a strong personality?

For example, now, my two younger brothers listen to me.

If, in the future, they get a wife and I get married, I will still have the final say in the Xie family. Do you think they will feel comfortable? "

She sighed: "I don't want to admit that a married daughter is like water thrown away.

However, if a married daughter does not regard herself as a piece of water thrown away, but still regards herself as the master of the family as before, she will easily have conflicts with her sister-in-law and younger siblings.

Therefore, it is important to grasp this degree. Don't treat yourself too much as an outsider, but don't treat yourself too little as an outsider. "

Gu Yiman: "..."

She didn't quite agree with her sister's point of view, but she didn't know how to refute it.

Seeing her troubled face, Xie Hewu smiled and pinched her cheek: "You don't have to be so worried, you don't have such worries.

You said that in your life, you will either never marry or marry Brother Yue.

If you never marry, it goes without saying that you will be the darling of your aunt and uncle for the rest of your life. Your eldest cousin also raised you as his daughter and will definitely pamper you for the rest of your life.

Moreover, your cousins ​​are all smart and can definitely handle the relationship between you and their wives.

If you marry Brother Yue, then you are marrying back from your natal family. You are still the master, not just water thrown out. What do you have to worry about? "

"Sister, I think what you said is wrong," Gu Yiman said, "According to your argument, Brother Yue is still an adopted son!

You know that in the minds of many people, adopted children have little status.

Although our family is different, others may not know it! "

"Are you stupid?" Xie Hewu looked at her like a fool, "Is Brother Yue an ordinary adopted son? Brother Yue is the future head of the Xiang family, right?

Go and ask around, who dares not to take the future head of the Xiang family seriously? "

Gu Yiman: "...Yes, I always forget Brother Yue's last name..."

Xie Hewu knocked on her forehead: "Otherwise, how can I say you are stupid! But...it's good, stupid people have stupid blessings!"

Gu Yiman: "..."

Just think that her sister is complimenting her!