She Is Very Scared
To make her health better, it is actually very simple, just eat more, sleep more, exercise more, think less, worry less, and think less.
The words were very simple, but it was obvious that Si Duomian couldn't do it.
Personality is something that is brought from the mother's womb, or acquired, but no matter how it comes, once it is fixed, it is difficult to change.
How else can we say that the country is easy to change and the nature is hard to change?
She believes that Si Duomian must also think about it a little bit, think less, think less, and live life carelessly.
However, she couldn't do it.
Once her health is better, she will actively prepare for pregnancy, but she has tried to conceive many times, but she has never been able to conceive.
Her narrow-mindedness made a mistake, and she couldn't worry too much. She was always worried that she would not be able to give birth because of her poor health.
She is terrified.
She thought a lot, for example, it would be a pity if she couldn't have her own children for the rest of her life.
For example, if she cannot have children, her husband will divorce her and marry someone else.
There were no shadows, but she frightened herself, worried and anxious.
She said a lot to relieve Si Duomian, but it didn't work at all.
Holding a pile of checklists, Si Duomian worriedly told her and Yue Ya'er that her fallopian tubes were inflamed, and she might not be able to conceive a child.
After reading the checklist, Yue Ya'er said that her fallopian tubes were just a little bit inflamed, and it could be easily cured with active treatment.
She still remembers Si Duomian's suspicious look when Yue Ya'er said these words to Si Duomian.
She didn't believe what Yue Ya'er said at all, and felt that Yue Ya'er was comforting her.
Later, she hadn't conceived a child for several months, so she came to Yue Ya'er again and asked Yue Ya'er why she couldn't conceive a child even though the inflammation of her fallopian tubes had been cured, was it because of her poor health? So there is no way to conceive.
Yue Ya'er told her that there is no rush to get pregnant, just like a sentence: if you want to plant flowers, the flowers will not bloom, but if you don't, you will plant willows to make shade.
As long as there is no problem with the body and the mood is relaxed, you can conceive a child soon.
But if she thinks about it all day long, worrying about it, it will be difficult for her to conceive.
Just like many infertile couples, after many years of treatment, they were unable to conceive a child. When they gave up and adopted a child from outside, they became pregnant instead.
Some people say that the biological one is brought by the adopted child.
Actually not.
It is the couple who are unable to conceive because of anxiety and anxiety. They give up hope, stop thinking about this matter all day long, and put all their minds on raising and adopting their children. They feel relaxed and conceive instead.
Yue Ya'er told Si Duomian everything that should be said, but she felt that it was useless at all.
To put it bluntly, isn't there a saying that good words are hard to persuade, damn it?
She felt that Si Duomian was the kind of person who couldn't be persuaded.
This is her character, even if words of comfort were whispered in her ears for three days and three nights, she would not listen.
Well... She shouldn't have said something so harsh.
Many people have such a personality. They clearly know where their shortcomings are, but they can't correct them.
Or there is a very famous saying... I have read a lot of truths, but I still can't live this life well.
When I read Chicken Soup for the Soul, I was very touched and inspired, but when it was my turn, it was not the same.
She was so depressed, she snuggled into Gu Junzhu's arms, and read a lot of words.
When she came back to her senses, she found that she had been talking alone for more than ten minutes. She was a little embarrassed: "I...I'm not saying that the second sister-in-law is bad..."