The Days of Being a Spiritual Mentor in Meiman

Chapter 1097 Father and Son (Twenty-Six)

Howard was silent. After waiting for dozens of seconds, Schiller asked, "Is this all the conclusions you have drawn?"

Howard thought carefully again, and then said, "I am not a person who pays much attention to my emotions, so I am sorry that I can't provide more reference factors."

"It doesn't matter." Schiller didn't mind. He said, "Most people do not have the ability to clearly analyze the causes of each of their emotions and the consequences that may result."

"Most people always feel inexplicable when they feel uncomfortable. Perhaps they know some rough reasons, such as being annoyed by something or hating someone, but they can't analyze the cause and effect in detail, and they can't guess what consequences their emotions will lead to."

"If everyone If we can analyze our emotions in detail, there won't be so many people suffering from mental illness in this world. Most mental illnesses are actually the result of unnoticed or unprocessed emotions accumulating in our hearts. "

"So, it is normal for you to suddenly feel inexplicable negative emotions filling your heart at a certain time, but you can't find the source of it."

Schiller didn't look at Howard, but picked up the wine glass, looked at the water in the glass and said:

"Many people regard human psychology as something like magic or mysticism. Whenever they suddenly feel sad, they always wonder if there is any mysterious factor affecting them now?"

"But in fact, emotional logic is a relatively rigorous logic in logic. , it is like a precision transmission system, in which the rotation of each part will drive other parts. ”

Schiller used Howard’s easiest way to explain this matter, and he continued:

“It’s just that the composition of each person’s emotional logic transmission system is different.”

“For some people, the entire system has only five parts. When the first part moves, the fifth part will move immediately. At this time, when he focuses on the last moving part, it is easy to analyze why this part moves. ”

“6 There are only five parts in the beginning. Even if you use the exhaustive method and check them one by one, you can guess roughly. ”

“However, some people’s transmission systems may have 50,000 parts, and they have to be divided into several parts, nested together. , in addition to physical bite collision, there may also be remote signal control. "

"At this time, after one of the parts moves, the final result may be that another part moves half a year later."

"And when the last part moves, he looks back to find the reason why this part moves, and all he gets is a blank. "

"Because. Even the most talented people, without professional training, have no way to reversely deduce the cause of tens of thousands of parts through the results. "

"And the cause of many mental illnesses is actually that people with sensitive emotions and tens of thousands of parts suddenly find that they have a lot of negative emotional parts one day, and start working non-stop, but they can't find anything when they look forward along the negative emotional parts. "

"On the one hand, they suffer from negative emotions, and on the other hand, they feel confused because they can't find the cause of negative emotions. "

Howard listened very carefully and looked into Schiller's eyes. But for him, the examples Schiller gave were straightforward and simple, and they were too easy to understand.

Finally, Schiller stopped looking at the wine glass and looked directly into Howard's eyes and said, "You think that the negative emotions you suddenly felt that night were due to the information you received during the day, but it is probably not the case."

Howard's eyebrows gradually wrinkled. Schiller looked into his eyes and said seriously, "This is probably the result of tens of thousands of parts moving. The process of moving may be more complicated than you think, and the time when the first part moves may be much earlier than you think."

"How did you come to this conclusion? "

Howard's fingers tapped on the armrest, and the atmosphere in the room began to become a little anxious. Obviously, the disagreement between the two on a certain conclusion changed their relationship from doctor and patient to the relationship of debaters.

Howard felt that he felt sad that night because of the sudden rebirth, which made him feel guilty, but Schiller pointed out that Howard's negative emotions that night may not come from what happened during the day, and the cause may be earlier.

"I believe you also have your own understanding of logic." Schiller remained gentle, without any impatience to prove his point. He first affirmed Howard's level, and then said:

"In this case, you can listen to my inference. If there is any link in it that you think is illogical, you can interrupt me immediately to refute it, and I won't be angry. "

Howard blinked and said, "So, psychologists can accept patients' doubts? I thought you were talking and I was listening. I couldn't speak until you finished the diagnosis. "

"Mr. Howard, I think you overestimate the quality of the patients I have met. In fact, the patients who can listen to me quietly are rare."

Schiller looked helpless, and he continued: "Among the patients I have met, you are among the best in terms of IQ, patience and mental stability."

Howard nodded. Looking at Schiller's expression, he knew that he must have many stories. However, he was more concerned about his own problems, so he said: "Go ahead, doctor. I will listen carefully."

Schiller nodded and began his own inference.

"Let's start with the results. First of all, you think the source of your emotions is guilt towards your family and children. So, if you want to analyze this emotion, you can't do without the situation of your family and children."

"The situation of the Stark family is not complicated. The parents died early, leaving behind an only son. These few words can roughly summarize your situation."

"You think that because you died early, you missed a certain stage of Tony Stark's life, causing him to fall into pain and decadence, and making him spend a very sad time. But now, you have returned intact. You think this is unfair to Tony."

Howard nodded. This inference is correct, and basically summarizes the logic of his negative emotions.

"Then, next, please answer my questions. You can tell the truth or hide something, but please answer according to your first reaction." Schiller took out the medical record book and began to record.

"The first question is, before you died, you should have been addicted to alcohol for quite a long time. If I'm not mistaken, you were alive during that time, but you didn't accompany Tony Stark at all. So, during that time, did you have any negative emotions like the above?"

Howard narrowed his eyes and began to recall, but after a while, he shook his head and said, "Alcohol destroyed my sanity and made me almost incomplete. So, I really don't remember whether I have had any negative emotions like the above."

What he didn't expect was that Schiller didn't ask again, but asked another question: "Going back to the timeline, before you started drinking, did you have similar negative emotions?"

"Howard turned his eyes to one side and recalled. He said: Probably not."

Schiller nodded again. Howard felt that if he followed this logic, his inference was correct. He didn't have this feeling when he was with Tony. Then, wasn't the negative emotion just the guilt he felt for missing the company?

However, Schiller did not mean to confirm him at all, but continued to ask: "So, when you were with Tony, did you have other negative emotions?"

Howard's expression suddenly stiffened, but then he shook his head and said: "No, there were almost no negative emotions, those were very good memories."

"Almost no, that is to say, there were still some?" Schiller asked again.

"I am a person, I can't just be happy, even when I am with my son, I will definitely have all kinds of troubles." Howard spread his hands and explained.

"For example?"

66For example, difficult business opponents, pressure from scientific research and innovation, and disagreements with Maria over some trivial matters. "Howard gave some examples intermittently, all of which are very common things."

"So. Please tell me, when you are with your son, doing something, how long do you concentrate on it without thinking about these troubles?" Schiller asked again.

Now, Howard had a hard time recalling. It was obvious that he seemed to have thought of some answers, but he didn't know whether to say them. After a while, he almost gritted his teeth and said, "A few minutes."

"Okay, let's push the timeline forward. When Stark Industries was at its peak and Tony was very young, how long did you focus on playing with him?"

This time. Howard was silent for a long time, about five or six minutes, and his expression gradually became serious. Obviously, he found that the answer was different from what he imagined.

Howard didn't come back to his senses until Schiller tapped the table gently. He looked into Schiller's eyes and said:

"When Tony was very young and not very sensible, I could even play with him for five or six hours, forgetting all my worries and not thinking of any troubles. That was the happiest time of my life."

Schiller nodded again and said, "Then, please compare how the number of troubles you faced when Tony was young and after he grew up changed? Is it increasing?"

Howard fell into a long silence again. After a few minutes, he said, "No, it's completely the opposite."

"When Tony was still very young, Stark Industries was just in its infancy. At that time, I faced a lot of pressure and didn't even know where the future was..."

"Before I was entangled by the military, Stark Industries was at its peak and I was in high spirits. At that time, I had almost no rivals and even my work was not so busy."

"Howard's expression became more serious as he spoke, and in the end he even became solemn. He asked softly: "Why?"

"Why, when Tony was very young, I loved him so much that the time I spent playing with him became my spiritual sustenance for a painful day, but after he grew up, every time we started a topic, we would talk for less than five or six minutes before I thought of those annoying jobs again?"

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