Chapter 638: Picking Up Girls Method 3
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"Xiao Man... I call you Xiao Man, you don't mind, right?" Zhao Tiezhu said shyly.
"No, of course not." Lu Xiaoman said with a smile, "My family calls me Xiao Man."
"What does Xiao Man's family do?" Zhao Tiezhu asked curiously.
"My father is the chief physician of the Second Hospital of FJ, my mother is a clerk in the Industrial and Commercial Bureau, and the warden of this prison is my uncle. I just graduated from college last year, and there happened to be a shortage of people here, so my uncle arranged for me to come in."
"Oh? Or a relative? Alas, I really envy you for having a good family." Zhao Tiezhu's face was full of envy. But if Lu Xiaoman knew that the guy in front of him who envied her was the fourth generation first-line heir of one of the best families in the country, I wonder if she would use a syringe to stab this pretentious guy to death.
"I envy you for being self-reliant. I was planning to go out and work hard on my own, but my parents were worried about me. They said that it's safer to live in a place with relatives and acquaintances, and I can get more care from others. Humph, I think young people still need to go out and try their luck." Lu Xiaoman wrinkled his nose and said with a little dissatisfaction and regret.
"In fact, you are all living in a blessed life without knowing how to appreciate it~" Zhao Tiezhu sighed, "You rich children are used to a comfortable life, so you naturally need to challenge yourself, but we poor people have always been seeking to have enough food and clothing. The so-called ideal is just a reason for us not to collapse under the pressure of such a life. Although everyone knows that it is self-deception, but...how to say it, sometimes self-deception is better than despair."
"But...isn't it said that people have to challenge themselves to achieve greater success?" Lu Xiaoman asked.
"That's for those of you who have money and can relax. Everyone's living conditions are different. You rich people are used to eating delicacies from land and sea. Occasionally, you will think that wild vegetables and coarse rice are particularly delicious, and then you will envy us for being able to eat these pollution-free, pure and natural foods every day. In fact, if you really eat coarse tea and plain food for a week, no matter how healthy and green it is, I guarantee that your face will turn green. When we were struggling for food and clothing, you were already eating meat every day. When we could eat meat occasionally, you were tired of eating meat. When we could eat meat every day, you were tired of all the delicacies from land and sea, so you went to eat our coarse tea and plain food, always feeling that we couldn't keep up with your pace of life." Zhao Tiezhu sighed, and then glanced at Lu Xiaoman imperceptibly, because according to Zhao Tiezhu's observation, it can be basically concluded that Lu Xiaoman is a young girl who has not experienced much of the world. She is only 24 years old and has only been in society for more than a year. What kind of scheming can she have? So Zhao Tiezhu adopted the opposite tactic against Lu Xiaoman.
What is the counter-strategy? To put it simply, it means to sing the opposite tune from your target from time to time, or to show your side that is different from everyone else, because a woman like Lu Xiaoman must have many suitors, and most suitors are spoiled when they pursue girls, so Zhao Tiezhu plans to do the opposite, but you have to pay attention to a degree, that is, you have to show that you are different from everyone else, and you can't be too opposed to Lu Xiaoman's point of view. If you are completely opposed, it will easily make people feel disgusted.
Zhao Tiezhu observed Lu Xiaoman and was delighted to find that Lu Xiaoman's face showed a thoughtful expression.
From this point, it can be seen that Lu Xiaoman has basically agreed with Zhao Tiezhu's words, and then combined with her previous cognition, she made her own judgment on Zhao Tiezhu's words.
Zhao Tiezhu can't do anything except his mouth. These words really made Lu Xiaoman have some ideas. Zhao Tiezhu's analysis was very correct. Lu Xiaoman had many suitors when she was in college, and they used many different methods to pursue them. However, the same thing remained true: many people just went along with Lu Xiaoman. Even if there were some smart people who wanted to be cold to Lu Xiaoman in the hope of arousing her interest, they couldn't grasp the right degree of coldness, and Lu Xiaoman simply didn't like them at all.
In fact, Zhao Tiezhu had planned to come coldly before, but then he remembered what Lao Shi had said to him back then. He could only deal with one kind of woman coldly, and that was a woman who had some feelings for you. Zhao Tiezhu disagreed at the time, saying that he could come in the cold even if he didn't feel anything. I heard that it would arouse people's curiosity. As a result, Zhao Tiezhu was directly taught a lesson by Lao Shi. Zhao Tiezhu always remembers what Lao Shi said at that time: "You idiot, do you really think that every woman is a stupid heroine like those in third-rate novels? As soon as you ignore her, will she stick her butt up for you? Come on, this is the 21st century. Say To put it bluntly, if a girl has no interest in you, how can you ignore her? If she doesn't say a word to you, doesn't even look at you, and just ignores you, who are you ignoring? It would be even more stupid to pretend to be cold in front of others. Think about it, how would you feel if an inexplicable woman ignored you? You must not feel it at all, because she is an insignificant person, even a sidekick. You are not considered a person. Even if a person like that leaves you in the cold and goes to Siberia, is that none of your business? A serious person is someone who has some feelings for you. When you ignore someone, they will think, are you right? She's not interested, or maybe you have a woman you like, so you can only attack after being ignored, do you understand?"
After Lao Shi's teachings, Zhao Tiezhu changed from a novice in love to a veteran. Although Zhao Tiezhu didn't lose his virginity until Linda, Zhao Tiezhu felt that the theory he learned from Lao Shi could only be transformed into practice. , then no girl can be broken!
Zhao Tiezhu returned his thoughts to Lu Xiaoman. Lu Xiaoman was only friends with him now. If he was still stupid and neglectful, it would only alienate the relationship between the two, but Zhao Tiezhu was doing the opposite now. When it comes to tactics, it's just right. On some things, Lu Xiaoman agrees with him, but on some things, he has his own opinions and opinions, and these opinions and opinions make people sound like they are really what they are. The result is like this , some of Lu Xiaoman's original concepts were assimilated by Zhao Tiezhu, thus creating better conditions for Zhao Tiezhu's subsequent attacks.
"I think what you said makes sense." Lu Xiaoman's eyes slowly became clear, "People who have never suffered suffer occasionally. That is to experience life. Naturally, they cannot feel that others are truly suffering all the time. Human mentality, Tie Zhu, I understand!”
"What do you understand?" Zhao Tiezhu asked curiously.
"We must cherish everything we have now, no matter how it came to be!" Lu Xiaoman said with high spirits, "Live a good life and don't moan unnecessarily."
"Hey, you are moaning for no reason. This is a good word. You are a cultured person, but you are different from a rough guy like me." Zhao Tiezhu said with admiration.
After the reverse tactic is over, the follow tactic begins.