Chapter 3437: Adopt a Child

Chapter 3426 Adopt a child

"Qingqing, do you think I can adopt a child?" Yu Anning suddenly asked.

Ye Qingqing frowned. She felt that Yu Anning was too obsessed with her children. Perhaps her daughter Li Qiqi had given her too much of a blow. On the surface, she looked as if nothing had happened, but how could she really be so calm?

Coupled with the miscarriage of the child, Yu Anning was a little dazed and thought about the child.

"You should discuss this matter with Qi Wenyuan."

"I will definitely discuss it with him. I just want to listen to your opinion."

Yu Anning was very entangled. She had never had such a strong desire to raise a child as she did now. She was very urgent and wished she could go to the orphanage to see the child now. She didn't know what was wrong with her, but she just wanted a child, even if it wasn't her own. Anything raw is fine.

"Since you asked me, I will say it bluntly. I personally do not recommend that you adopt. First of all, your physical condition does not allow it. Raising a child is hard work. In the more than ten years from infancy to adulthood, you have spent every moment. You are worried and tired all the time, are you sure you can handle it?" Ye Qingqing asked back.

Yu Anning was stunned, thought for a moment, and said hesitantly, "I can hire a nanny."

"Children need companionship. Even if you hire ten nannies, they can't replace the mother's role. Why doesn't Li Qiqi kiss you? Isn't it because you didn't accompany her? Do you want to raise another Li Qiqi?"

Yu Anning's complexion changed slightly, and she was a little shaken.

One Li Qiqi has made her still unable to recover, and raising another one may cost her her life.

Ye Qingqing added: "And even if you raise a cat or a dog, you have to be responsible for them. You can't abandon them at will, let alone a child. No matter how angry you are with your biological children, you can tolerate it because they were born by yourself, but if they are adopted My child, you are not related by blood to them, so your tolerance is limited. Are you sure you can tolerate a child who is not related by blood?"

Yu Anning looked thoughtful. She was not sure whether she had such a strong sense of tolerance. If she adopted a child but could not love him or her wholeheartedly, it would be a great harm to the child, right?

"I cannot be infinitely tolerant to children who are not my own. I admit that my love is narrow, so I can donate money to children in impoverished mountainous areas, but it is impossible to take them back and raise them by my side. If I cannot love them wholeheartedly, , it’s better not to bring it back and let them get hurt.”

Ye Qingqing was very calm,

She doesn't think she is selfish. Love is inherently narrow. She can only love a limited number of people. Others forgive her for not having so much love.

Yu Anning smiled bitterly, "I don't know if I can do it."

"You can't try this kind of thing. Since you have adopted it, you have to be responsible to the end. If you find that it is not suitable after a few years of adoption, and then return the child, you cannot do such a thing. It is too immoral." Ye Qingqing joked.

There are many people who do this kind of thing. After adopting a child, they suddenly become pregnant, or for various other reasons, they no longer want to raise the child. They give the child to others to raise, or return it to the orphanage, just like buying something and then returning it to the orphanage. Returns are the same.

But products are emotionless and can be returned a hundred times without any problem, but children are different. Young minds cannot bear such harm, and it is likely to affect the child's growth.

After being persuaded by Ye Qingqing, Yu Anning gave up the idea of ​​adoption. She was not afraid of trouble, but worried that she could not raise her well and her own daughter would become a defective product. She could no longer harm other people's children.