Chapter 1987: Don’t Punish Yourself for Someone Else’s Mistakes
"How can that be? Your beauty is not a sin. It's the bad guys who are wrong. You can't punish yourself for the sins of others." Ye Qingqing persuaded.
She understood Tiya's current mood very well. That night hurt her too much, and she might never get over it.
When many girls are hurt, they actually blame themselves more, blaming themselves for why they have to be pretty. Maybe if they were uglier, they wouldn't be targeted by bad guys.
They also blame themselves for why they wore a short skirt and shorts that day, why they wore a tank top, why they went out at night...
There are countless reasons for girls to blame themselves, even more than they blame the bad guys. Ye Qingqing thinks that the reason for this is still the influence of the environment, because this is a patriarchal society.
And many women are accomplices of patriarchy.
After the girl got into trouble, although some people sympathized with her, many people would also say -
"Why wear such a revealing short skirt in public? It's obviously seducing men to commit a crime!"
"This girl drank in front of the man, which was actually an invitation. Maybe the price couldn't be negotiated, so she called the police and said she was raped."
"Look at that woman's face, she looks like a decent person, she deserved to be raped!"
...
It is these disgusting discussions that are more lethal than violent hands, just like a blunt knife cutting meat, making the injured girls fall into a vicious cycle of self-blame and self-abandonment, and even choose death.
Ye Qingqing sometimes really wants to spit on those bitches.
At any time, any place, under any objective factors, any *relationship that goes against a woman's will is rape.
Why is it stipulated that women cannot wear revealing clothes in public to show their beauty?
Why is it stipulated that women cannot go out at night?
This society should regulate the lower body of some men, not innocent women!
Women should never pay for the impulsive lower body of men!
Since a man's reason cannot control a certain organ of his own,
then just castrate yourself and practice the Sunflower Manual, and don't keep it to harm innocent women.
(I couldn't help but say something off topic, I was really angry about the phenomenon of women being victimized despite repeated prohibitions)
Tiya sighed, "I didn't punish myself, I really don't care about beauty, now I just want to live an ordinary life."
Ye Qingqing hit the nail on the head, "Since you didn't punish yourself, why didn't you refuse to be a bridesmaid?"
Tiya was speechless and had no answer.
After a long while, she laughed at herself and said, "I'm already unclean, being a bridesmaid will bring bad luck to Catherine."
"Nonsense, you are punishing yourself for having this idea, the real damned person is Julie who harmed you, she is going to see God soon, okay, I won't talk nonsense with you, you must come one week before the wedding."
Ye Qingqing kicked Julie on the side angrily, this vicious woman really deserves a beating, just looking at her feet makes her feet itch, and she won't feel relieved if she doesn't kick her.
"Don't worry, I promise she will arrive a week in advance." Edward's voice came over.
"What can you guarantee? I'm free, no... You just said I could buy a plane ticket, but my ID card hasn't been processed yet... You lied to me... Toot, toot..."
Tia found something wrong, and Edward panicked after a series of questions. He grabbed his phone, hung up, and ran away.
"Stop right there, tell me clearly, what's wrong with my ID card!" Tia also ran after him.
Chasing and catching up, the other maids were envious, and even secretly wondered if they were also planting some spots on their faces, it seemed that His Royal Highness liked this!