Qi Hao Extra Episode (9)

Seeing Tan Aoshuang's first shock and then confusion, Yu Xi sighed and said: "You just said that it is your job to take care of the palace affairs and teach the children. This is not true. It is indeed your job to take care of the palace affairs well. It's their own business, but teaching children is a matter for two people. You shouldn't have done what Qi Hao should do." Tan Aoshuang is in charge of the three brothers and sisters' affairs. Qihao, at most, checked Brother Sheng's homework or talked to a few children.

Tan Aoshuang didn't understand what it meant that she did everything the emperor should do.

Yuxi said: "Zaozao and Qihao are siblings, your father has changed their diapers and bathed them, and played with them when they have time. When they grow up, teach them exercises and tell them stories. Qihao Hao, what has he done for Brother Sheng, brother and sister?"

Apart from teasing the children, Qihao checked his homework and did nothing else.

According to Tan Aoshuang's education, the male dominates the outside and the woman dominates the inside. Raising children is what women should do. Tan Aoshuang said: "The emperor has a lot to do every day, I don't want him to disturb him with these trivial matters."

Yuxi smiled and shook her head and said: "How can it be a trivial matter, raising children is the responsibility of parents. Your father often fought outside, and I have to do these things when I go home! Now the world is peaceful, and Qihao is not so busy."

Tan Aoshuang struggled for a long time, then made up her mind and said to Yuxi: "Mother, please teach me!"

If it was the past, Tan Aoshuang would definitely not want to listen to Yuxi's preaching. No one is right or wrong, just different ideas. But now that the relationship between the husband and wife is getting more and more distant, Tan Aoshuang wants to learn from Yuxi. After all, Yuxi has been very successful in this regard.

Yuxi patted Tan Aoshuang's hand lightly and said: "Outside he is the emperor, you should respect him, but in Kunning Palace, you should not treat him as the emperor, you have to treat him as your husband and your child father."

Tan Aoshuang hesitated and asked, "Like ordinary couples in the folk?"

Yuxi nodded and said: "You don't need to be like those couples in the folk, you just need to be like me and your father. Also, you can leave the palace affairs to your confidants and don't need to do everything yourself. You just need to take care of the big picture." Yes. In addition, you can leave it to your mother to take care of you, Brother Chan, and you can set aside time to accompany him every day. In the spare time, pay more attention to the affairs of the next court and read more books."

Tan Aoshuang showed hesitation.

Yuxi asked: "I don't need to say which is more important, palace affairs or husband, you should know."

"Mother, I don't feel relieved to leave the child to the mother." She felt at ease only when she saw it in her own eyes.

Yu Xi laughed and said: "The prince of the previous dynasty was carried away from his mother as soon as he was born.

Wouldn't it be impossible to live if it were you? "The child is by my side, so there is nothing to worry about.

Tan Aoshuang was struggling in her heart.

Seeing this, Yuxi said: "It's still too late for you to change, once a beautiful woman enters the palace and a woman falls into Qi Hao's eyes, it will be too late for you to make changes by then."

These words deeply stimulated Tan Aoshuang, she decided to take a gamble, knelt in front of Yuxi and said firmly: "Mother, I will listen to you. If I did something wrong, please correct me."

It's good if you can figure it out, but I'm afraid that you won't change your temper.

When the two walked out of the house, they saw Jing Shu being amused by Yun Qing and laughing.

It was the first time for Tan Aoshuang to see Jing Shu so happy, and she froze in place for a while.

Seeing Tan Aoshuang, Jing Shu hurriedly stopped laughing, stood up straight and called out: "Mother."

Seeing Jing Shu's nervousness, Yun Qing frowned and glanced at Tan Aoshuang, then hugged Jing Shu: "Come on, let's continue playing."

Jing Shu didn't listen to Yun Qing's words, but still stood there looking at Tan Aoshuang. Tan Aoshuang didn't speak, she didn't dare to play.

Tan Aoshuang showed embarrassment: "Grandfather asked you to accompany him, so you should obediently accompany him."

Taking Jing Shu's hand again, Yun Qing said: "Go, grandfather will take you to play in the garden." With Tan Aoshuang here, it is impossible for the child to let go of playing.

Yuxi smiled and said: "Don't be too strict with your child on weekdays. Otherwise, the child will be very afraid of you. The child who has been raised so hard will not get close to him when he grows up. Think about it, what will it be like then?"

Tan Aoshuang said: "I asked her to learn the rules recently, but I scolded her a few times for failing to learn well."

Yuxi smiled and said: "The most important thing for children in our family is to be sensible. As for the rules and etiquette, there is no problem on the general level, and no one dares to argue about it." No matter how bad it is, it won't go anywhere.

Tan Aoshuang nodded and said: "Okay, listen to the mother."

Qihao was discussing with the minister just now, and he didn't know that Yunqing and Yuxi had returned until the matter was over.

Seeing that Yuxi and Tan Aoshuang had a happy conversation, Qihao was a little surprised. In his impression, Tan Aoshuang was not close to Yuxi.

After calling his mother, Qihao looked around and asked, "Mother, where's dad?"

"Take Jing Shu to play in the yard. The older I get, the more I look like an old urchin." There was a complaint on his lips, but a smile on his face.

Yun Qing happened to come in and heard what Yu Xi said: "As soon as I'm not here, you will arrange me in front of your son"

Yuxi frowned, and asked back: "Am I wrong? Aren't you an old naughty boy now?" When encountering weird things, you have to find out.

The couple started bickering. And Qi Hao on the side just stood aside laughing and didn't interrupt.

At this moment, Tan Aoshuang suddenly envied Yuxi very much. Most of the women in power in history did not end well. The most famous one is Wu Zhao, the last one who was forced to die in the palace by his son. But her mother-in-law is an exception. After taking power, the husband and wife are still loving each other, and even their children are filial and caring. She felt that her choice should be right.

In the evening, Qiyou came over. He came alone, and did not bring Huang Siling and Brother Xu along. As for Qixuan, he was not in the capital when he went out to collect music.

After dinner, Yuxi said to Qihao: "Come with me to the garden for a walk."

"Okay." Knowing about the draft, Yu Xi would definitely be unhappy, and Qi Hao was already ready to be scolded.

Yuxi didn't scold him, but asked bluntly: "Why did you agree to the draft this time?"

Qi Hao was silent for a while and said: "Mom, I just want to find someone who can talk to me."

It's heartbreaking to say this.

Yuxi was stunned for a moment, then sighed and said: "I remember when you first got married, the relationship between husband and wife was very good, and you think you are not responsible for the current result?"

Hearing this, Qihao couldn't help but look up at Yuxi.

"Do you feel that you have no responsibility?" After finishing speaking, Yuxi smiled and said: "A woman's biggest fear is that she will no longer become a yellow-faced woman. And having children will accelerate aging. If you don’t give her enough care, she will think wildly. Ask yourself, have you cared about her in the past few years?” Even she was worried for a long time.

Qi Hao shook his head and said, "In the past few years, I have been busy with government affairs, and I have neglected her and the children. Mother, I will pay attention to it in the future." In the three years after he took the throne, all his energy was devoted to government affairs. That's why Tan Aoshuang didn't get pregnant until such a long time.

Yuxi asked: "I know that Aoshuang gave Yin Tiantian to you, and you are very dissatisfied. But you ask yourself, even if she didn't let you accept Yin Tiantian, would you not be drafted?"

Qi Hao was silent for a while and said: "Mom, I'm not dissatisfied with Ao Shuang, I just want someone who can make me relax when I'm tired." nothing to say.

After all, there was still a problem between the husband and wife. Qihao was at fault, and Aoshuang was also at fault.

Yuxi was also a little distressed, but she still said: "Your father's reputation was too bad back then. If it wasn't for fear of implicating your grandmother and uncle, I would have run away from marriage."

Qihao was very surprised: "Does dad know about this?"

"I don't know. But your father thinks that the girls in Beijing are too delicate, and he is afraid that I can't adapt to the environment in Yucheng, so he didn't want to marry me at that time." After speaking, Yuxi smiled and said: "Back then, your father and I One doesn't want to marry and the other doesn't want to marry. But do you think we are happy now? Between husband and wife, the most important thing is to get along. After passing this hurdle, it will be fine."

Qi Hao shook his head and said: "Mother, you and Dad are in adversity, how can I and Ao Shuang be compared with you." Tan Ao Shuang's feelings for him are not so pure, and it is impossible for him to obey everything like his father Tan Aoshuang.

"You can't compare with me and your father, what about Qiyou and Siling? You see, they are also a good couple."

Qihao smiled and said, "Mother, I am different from Ayou. Ayou can act according to his temper, but I can't." The emperor is the lord of the world with life and death and the power to seize power, but the burden on his shoulders is also very heavy. So he can't do whatever he wants.

Yuxi originally prepared a lot of words, but this time she doesn't want to say any more. Qi Hao knew what he was doing, and no matter how much she said, it would not change anything: "Ah Hao, if you cultivate for a hundred years, you can cross the same boat, and if you cultivate for a thousand years, you can sleep together. You have to cherish the fate between husband and wife."

Qi Hao nodded and said: "Mother, Ao Shuang is my married wife, I will not let anyone pass her by. Brother Sheng is my eldest son, and others will not pass him by."

"It's good to know."

That night, Qihao and Tan Aoshuang apologized: "I'm sorry, I have been busy with government affairs for the past few years and neglected you."

Tan Aoshuang was also reflecting on herself just now: "I also made mistakes. When encountering problems, I should ask you directly instead of thinking wildly." In fact, her biggest mistake was to spend energy and time on children and palace affairs, which led to the growing relationship between husband and wife. Rusty, and eventually the two had nothing to say.

Holding Tan Aoshuang in his arms, Qi Hao said softly: "You are my wife, a wife who lives in the same quilt and dies in the same hole."

Tan Aoshuang nodded with tears in her eyes.