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Time flies by like a fleeting moment, and it will be March of the second year in the blink of an eye.
Qihao's enthronement ceremony is on March 16th, and Zaozao is about to leave for Beijing to attend the enthronement ceremony.
After Changsheng knew about it, he also followed suit: "Mother, I want to go to Beijing to visit my grandparents and uncle."
Zao Zao didn't stop Chang Sheng from going, but said: "It doesn't matter if you want to go to the capital, but this time you can't come back with me, you have to stay in the capital."
Hearing this, Chang Sheng didn't want to: "Mother, when will you come back?" The capital city was fun, but he didn't want to stay in the capital city alone.
"After attending your uncle's enthronement ceremony, I'll be back." Guizhou only had the governor and the chief soldier. The governor is responsible for government affairs, and the general is responsible for military affairs. During the time she was away, the military affairs had to be handed over to the deputy chief soldier. When I came back, I was afraid that I would be too busy again. But Qihao's ascension to the throne is a major event, and it is only once in a lifetime, she cannot miss it.
When Changsheng heard this, he didn't bother to go to the capital anymore. .
Zaozao worried that Changsheng's children would be too skinny, so she deliberately kept Yin Zhaofeng behind. Although Yin Zhaofeng is big and thick, but he is the most careful. With him protecting Wu Jinyu and the three children, Zao Zao is at ease.
After ten days, Zao Zao arrived in the capital. She didn't go back to the princess mansion, and went directly to the palace.
Qihao's enthronement ceremony had a lot of things to do, so Yuxi didn't go out during this period, and was planning Qihao's enthronement ceremony.
Seeing Zaozao, Yuxi said with relief: "I have grown." Zaozao used to have a sharp edge, but now it is like a sword in a scabbard, restraining its edge. Being local is more experienced than staying in the army, and this is also Yuxi's goal.
Zaozao hugged Yuxi and said with a smile: "Mother, I haven't seen you for three years, and you still look the same and haven't aged at all." Her mother is forty-two years old, but she looks younger than her.
"People who are all grandmothers are not old." After finishing speaking, Yuxi sat down and asked, "Tell me about how you feel in Guizhou in the past three years?"
"What touched me the most was that some Yi women had a higher status than men." She was really shocked at the time. In the Central Plains, women are regarded as vassals by men, and people like her belong to the same category. But in some tribes of the Yi nationality, men have to listen to women.
Zaozao didn't pause, and continued: "It's like a Miao girl can live in her mother's house for a few years after she gets married. The girl will only go back to her husband's house during the Chinese New Year or during busy farming seasons. The Miao people call this sitting home. If you have a child, you generally don’t sit at home.” In the Central Plains, the water thrown by a married daughter. After getting married, you will become a guest when you go home. Moreover, you have to ask your parents-in-law and husband for instructions when you go back to your natal home, and you can only go back to your natal home with their consent. It's okay, you can't go back to your mother's house.
Yuxi knew that Miao women had a higher status, but she didn't know this custom. It is good to have such a custom, so that women can suffer less friction.
"Not only that, but if a man treats the girl badly, the girl can go home with Li. The girl's family also welcomes her back." In the Central Plains, if a woman reconciles with her, she will be criticized for ten or eight years. It may even affect the marriage of the next generation. In order not to become the object of ridicule and ridicule by everyone, even if they knew that their daughter was being abused, these parents would not allow their children to reconcile. Even if they reconcile and leave, most of them are not allowed to return to their mother's house.
Seeing that Yuxi just nodded and didn't speak, Zaozao became a little anxious: "Mother, if our Central Plains women can be like the Miao women, then many women won't be abused and mutilated by their husbands."
Yuxi felt that Zaozao was too naive, and said: "Male superiority and female inferiority have lasted for thousands of years in the Central Plains, and it is something engraved in the bones of many people. Wanting to change is not something that happens overnight." Yuxi runs a school to encourage girls to learn a skill, hoping to be able to Change the status quo and slowly improve the status of women. I don't expect equality between men and women, I just want to give those women who are brave enough to fight for it a choice. As for those who are content with the status quo and would rather be abused than change or appoint, there is nothing she can do.
Zao Zao said without even thinking about it: "Mother, if women can become officials, their status will definitely be greatly improved.
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Yuxi shook her head and said: "If you go out like this, the women's school will not be able to continue." When running a women's school, her slogan is to let women be sensible. Therefore, it was only resisted by some stubborn and pedantic elements who advocated that women's ignorance is virtue. But if it is said that women who study can be admitted to the imperial examination, it will be resisted by all scholars.
After finishing speaking, Yuxi smiled lightly and said: "Jujube, you have to eat every bite, and you have to take things step by step. If you want to reach the sky step by step, you will not only fall to the ground, but also achieve nothing." Over the years, Yuxi has also done many things. For example, in the past, most women married after they reached the age of ji, but Yuxi revised the law to stipulate that women must be married at the age of seventeen. In addition, if a woman establishes a female household, she must have an estate and double the tax. This rule has been revised. In addition, before a woman was divorced, the man did not have to return the dowry, but now the law has been amended, and the woman has to return the dowry even if she is divorced.
Yuxi changed slowly bit by bit, not overnight. Although the method of boiling frogs in warm water is slower, the resistance encountered is much smaller.
Zao Zao thought for a while and said, "Mother, I also want to run a school in Lincheng. It's just that I have no experience and no manpower. Mother, I want to borrow some staff from you."
Yuxi smiled and said: "When I have selected the candidates, I will let them go to Guizhou." There are many schools open, and these women are all educated and sensible. Generation after generation has been affected, and it can always change the situation of women's low status.
Zao Zao recalled some of the news she had heard, and asked: "Mother, the problem in Fujian should be resolved. If this continues, the people in Fujian will only know the Qiu family and not the court."
"Qihao will solve this matter this year." Qihao's thinking is the same as Yuxi's, and he wants to solve the problem in Fujian peacefully.
Zao Zao immediately understood: "Qihao wants to use Qiu's family to establish his prestige?" The new official took office three fires, and it's the same when he just ascended the throne and became the emperor. After solving the Fujian matter, Qihao's throne is also secure.
Yuxi nodded.
Zao Zao couldn't help laughing and said: "This kid, he can bear it." In order to gain his prestige, he forcibly endured it for three years.
Seeing Yuxi looking at her, Zaozao hurriedly said: "Mother, I know, after Qihao ascends the throne, he will be the king and I will be the minister, and I will never be as open-mouthed as I am now."
Seeing Zao Zao's solemn appearance, Yu Xi smiled and said: "You must be respectful and obedient in front of outsiders, and you can get along as before in private."
Zao Zao hesitated: "Is this okay?"
"You have to be respectful to him in private, but it will affect the relationship between siblings." After finishing speaking, Zaozao said earnestly; "Zaozao, you don't need to tell me or your father about official affairs in the future, but you can tell Qi Hao can't hide anything."
Zao Zao didn't think about the meaning of these words, anyway, she knew that Yu Xi would not harm her: "I know mother."
According to historical records, in the eleventh year of Zhiyuan, Emperor Zhiyuan took the Zen throne. Prince Yun Qihao succeeded to the throne, and changed his year name to Xuande in May of the same year.
Zao Zao participated in Qi Hao's enthronement ceremony as the second-rank general soldier.
Liu'er looked at the python robe embroidered with a five-clawed golden dragon that Zao Zao was wearing, and said with a smile: "Eldest sister, you are going to take a walk in the street, what are the four great talents?" Fascinated those girls so dizzy that they couldn't tell the difference between south, east and north.
"What kind of talent, but an embroidered pillow that is not useful." The reason why he said this is because Brother Xuan ranks first among the four talents.
After hearing this, Liu Er immediately said: "Eldest sister, what you said is biased. The four great talents are not just fancy or useless. Aside from other things, Ah Xuan is still worthy of the name."
Zao Zao snorted when he heard this: "People in their twenties, who spend their days in Baitan Academy every day without receiving errands, are worthy of their name."
"Ah Xuan has published a book." Seeing Zao Zao's puzzled look, Liu'er explained: "Mother forbids him to publish a book under his real name, so very few people know about it."
Zao Zao has hated Brother Xuan to death since Lu Xiaoxiao's affair happened, "The books he wrote are all about romance."
Liu Er shook her head and said, "Then you underestimate Brother Xuan too much. I have read that book, and it is very good. But because of the pseudonym used, it is not well-known, and very few people buy it."
This book written by Brother Xuan is really good, and there are many places worthy of praise. But Yuxi wanted Brother Xuan to use a pseudonym instead of his real name to prevent Brother Xuan from being so popular.
Zao Zao knew that Liu'er would not make up these words to comfort her: "If he can really learn in a down-to-earth manner, that would be a good thing."
After talking about it, Liu'er asked Zao Zao: "Why didn't you bring Changsheng this time?"
"He wanted to come, but I didn't let him."
Thinking of what happened last time, Liu'er couldn't help laughing: "This kid is only six years old and has been thinking about marrying a wife, and told Qi Hao that he wants to marry sister Shu." Xi's previous words come first, and they all have scruples. At least Liu'er didn't want to marry her brothers and sisters as in-laws.
Zao Zao twitched his eyebrows, and said with a smile, "Why didn't you write to me about this?" Chang Sheng said it nicely, and didn't reveal a single word about the embarrassing or bad things he did.
"I didn't know Brother Yu didn't tell you." After finishing speaking, Liu'er smiled: "But it's true, Changsheng is the little lucky star of their husband and wife, how could he tell you these things."
Zao Zao smiled and said: "Before I said it, I was also worried about this matter, but fortunately, the fourth sibling is finally pregnant, so I am relieved."
"Who says it's not! I even searched for a few prescriptions for Siling, but unfortunately they didn't work." After finishing speaking, Liu Er chuckled and said, "After the younger brother and sister were pregnant, many people asked her for the secret recipe. Brother and sister Some people even sighed for the good luck brought to her by Changsheng!" With the status of Changsheng, most people would not dare to mention that he would be taken home to live for a period of time.
Zao Zao smiled, it was just a coincidence, she really thought of Changsheng as a golden boy!
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