Chapter 318 Analysis
"Brother Mei was married?" Chu Xia looked surprised, "I thought he liked Ye Meiru and was single all the time."
Since the last time Mei Yitong helped her set Xiao Yuwen up and beat Xiao Yuwen up with all kinds of injuries, she changed the name of Mr. Mei from a bucket of coal to Brother Mei.
"Not long after Ye Meiru was kicked out of the country by Grandpa Ye, Mei Yitong married Yun Duo from the Yun family. Yun Duo and we also grew up together, and we have always liked Mei Yitong.
During the years when Zhou Mikang and Ye Meiru were studying abroad, Mei Yitong was very unhappy. A quiet and introverted girl like Yunduo often called everyone to get together, and a fool could see her thoughts.
It's just that she has a too passive personality, and she really cares about face. Although she has done so much for Mei Yitong, she never admits that she likes Mei Yitong.
Later, Zhou Mikang and Ye Meiru broke up, and Mei Yitong was with Ye Meiru. The shocked Yunduo packed his luggage and went to the Northwest without saying a word.
Not long after, Ye Meiru's foreigner boyfriend came over, Mei Yitong was kicked out by Ye Meiru again, Yun Duo got the news and ran back immediately, this time, she didn't hide her thoughts, and stayed with Mei Yitong every day side.
The Mei family and the Yun family had been on good terms from the beginning, except for Yun Duo's mother, who was not worth it for her daughter, the other elders were optimistic that the two juniors would get together.
It didn't take long for them to get married. They thought that the two who had gone through so many twists and turns to be together would cherish this hard-won happiness.
However, Zhongguo couldn't go on after being together for a year. The parents of both sides firmly disagreed with their divorce, so the two had to choose to separate first. After the separation, the relationship between the two not only did not improve at all, but they often did not say a word for a month.
See such a situation. The parents of both parties can't force it anymore, so they can only agree to a peaceful breakup between the two. In fact, separately, Mei Yitong is a good man with a sense of responsibility, and Yun Duo is also a gentle and virtuous woman. No matter how suitable the two are, they cannot be a husband and wife by birth. The two who are friends now have a very good relationship.
So, from Mei Yitong's marriage, I really understand a lot of things. Two really good people may not be able to be a real couple.
The relationship between my sister and Yun Duo is good, and the relationship between me and Mei Yitong is also good. Based on what the two of them said, they are very tolerant and kind to outsiders. But when it was my turn, it was always easy to get into a dead end, and I was unwilling to explain when conflicts occurred. The Cold War gradually developed from the first few days to more than ten days, and it took longer and longer. The more the relationship wears down, the more we really can't be together anymore.
early summer,
I'm telling you this to tell you that Zhou Mikang's character is more direct and rude than Mei Yitong. As for you, you were so stubborn that you didn't want to say a word. If you want to be together well, you'd better change your personality.
It is impossible to change Zhou Mikang's stubborn head. To change, only you can change. He's not that hard on his family, you just tell him what's on your mind. Don't beat around the bush, otherwise, in the end, you will be disappointed and he will be angry and break up. "
At first, Chu Xia just listened to Jing Zhe's story as a story, but later, he finally figured out that Jing Zhe was using Mei Yitong's marriage as an example to teach her!
By the way, is this the same thing? Although Jing Zhe only gave a rough description, she was coherent and understood the root cause of the failure of this marriage.
Complementary personalities are indeed very important, and the most taboo thing in marriage is indeed the cold war, but the biggest sticking point between Mei Yitong and Yun Duo is that Mei Yitong doesn't love Yun Duo, but Yun Duo loves Mei Yitong deeply.
In this regard, she and Zhou Mikang are completely different. The fundamental reason why Zhou Mikang forced her to marry her was not because of her deep love for her, but because of her character and appearance. Although Zhou Mikang refused to admit the problem of appearance, she firmly Will not put this aside, if she is like Zhao Qiyan, short, fat and ordinary-looking, will she really leave such a deep impression on him?
People often say that the most important thing for a girl is the beauty of the heart, but the appearance is not that important. After dating for a long time, this law is indeed like this, but if it is the first time to meet, or just a few acquaintances, it is definitely the appearance that dominates.
First of all, the appearance and appearance are what you like, so you will have the desire to understand, and then through in-depth understanding, you will know the character and conduct of the other party.
Zhou Mikang only met her two or three times and asked her to be his wife. What he said had nothing to do with her appearance, so go ahead and lie!
Well, she dragged the question far away, and got down to business, because the basis of her feelings is different, which determines that she is not so suspicious of Zhou Mikang, so naturally she will not always have a cold war with Zhou Mikang. Moreover, her character can Can you bear it? She could go up and beat Zhou Mikang regardless of life and death, and she couldn't hold back her grievances and cry. She wouldn't do stupid things that hurt herself.
As soon as Zhou Mikang came back in the evening, she told Jing Zhe about Mei Yitong that she had told her during the day, and sneered at him with her mouth curled up: "I'm still worried that I will also have a cold war with you. Tell me, it's just you who robbed me." Desperate, am I worthy of a cold war with you?"
Zhou Mikang looked her up and down for a while, and a smile appeared on the corner of his mouth: "Can I understand that when you heard Jing Zhe tell me about my past, you felt a little sour, so you wanted to belittle me to make yourself feel better? ?”
"Yes!" Chu Xia crawled out of the quilt, knelt and took a few steps forward, grabbing him by the collar: "Anyway, you owe me everything in this life. Before you, I didn't have any emotional experience. What about you? Emotional experience, and cohabitation, hmph, I'm a big loser!"
Zhou Mikang: "..." It's not that he didn't want to talk to her, the white tenderness that caught his eyes completely stunned him...
Chu Xia didn't know what time Zhou Mikang would come back. He didn't change into his pajamas after taking a bath, so he got into the quilt wrapped in a fat bathrobe. The strap of the bathrobe loosened a lot after the movement just now, and he grabbed Zhou Mikang again. With such an effort from Kang's collar, wouldn't all the glory be unleashed?
A certain person was proud of his queen style, and he didn't feel cold at all. When he realized something was wrong, the bathrobe was completely open, without any cover...
"Ah!" She exclaimed, and quickly jumped under the quilt, covering herself tightly, humming and muttering, "Rogue!"
"Hey!" Come to his senses, Zhou Mikang closed his eyes and took a few deep breaths, then walked out without saying a word.
"Where are you going?" Chu Xia, who had been paying attention to the movement outside, quickly lifted the quilt and glared at Zhou Mikang angrily, "Are you trying to be irresponsible?"
"Chu Xia..." Zhou Mikang's voice was hoarse, "Of course I don't want to leave, but I can't be so selfish."
"What do you mean?" Chu Xia tied up her robe slowly, got out of bed and pulled on the cotton slippers, went straight to the table and sat down, "Come here, let's talk."
Seeing her serious and calm face, Zhou Mikang couldn't help laughing: "You don't need to pretend in front of me, I won't laugh at you."
"Who is smiling with you?" Chu Xia's big eyes showed some annoyance, "Hurry up and sit down, I want to talk to you."
After hesitating for a while, Zhou Mikang walked to the table and sat opposite her: "What do you want to talk about?"
"Can I understand what you said just now? You are worried that you won't come back, so you want to leave me a way out?" Chu Xia snorted bitterly, "Don't talk about him , I want to be honest, I hope we can have a frank and honest talk tonight, if you don't want us to be Mei Yitong and Yun Duo, then don't hide!"
"It even rhymes..." Zhou Mikang straightened his expression as he said, "I told you before that I will do my best to keep myself alive. Since I married you, I want to protect you for the rest of my life. I can't accept it." If you are with another man again, even for this possibility, I will do my best to keep myself alive!
However, there are some things that cannot be done by humans. After going to the battlefield, the guns have no eyes. If you try your best and can't survive, won't it kill you? We have discussed this issue before, so I will not repeat it here.
Chu Xia, you understand what I'm thinking, I'm all for your own good, I don't know why your reaction tonight is so big, did something happen to you? Tell me, believe me, no matter how difficult things are, I will find a way to help you solve them. "
"I'm a girl who grew up in the countryside, but my words and deeds and some things I know don't match my identity at all. Have you ever had any doubts?" Chu Xia looked at her seriously. He, "I repeat, I want to listen to the truth."
The smile on Zhou Mikang's face disappeared little by little, and he became more serious: "You really make me have a lot of doubts, but, so what? You were like this when I met you, and you are exactly this The way you look attracts me, no matter what causes you to change like this, it's a good thing.
Besides, it's normal for a person's personality to change dramatically from before when he grows up. In Chu Xia, did someone spread rumors about this to bother you? Don't worry, I will solve this matter for you before leaving. Some people just don't like others! "
Chu Xia had a black thread: "No, you misunderstood, no one spread rumors about this matter, but I am worried that rumors about this will spread in the future, what should I do if you are not here?"
"Chu Xia..." Zhou Mikang scratched his head in confusion, "If I refuse to take the mission now, it's impossible. I've been raising soldiers for a lifetime, and I'm a soldier. I really can't escape."
"Who told you to refuse the mission?" Chu Xia rolled his eyes at him, "Zhou Mikang, what I'm going to tell you next may exceed your understanding, or you may not believe it, but I want to tell you, Do you want to listen?"