Chapter 979: Being Trained
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What Zhou Huakang said is true. Adults cannot handle problems well, so how can children handle them well? However, is it because of this that we should not guide the children?
But, guidance, how to guide?
It's not that she has nothing to worry about now. She will be a mother soon. What she faces is how to educate her children well. Looking at the children of Zhou Mikang's generation in the Zhou family, she feels that this It's a particularly important thing.
Seeing that Chu Xia was silent, Zhou Huakang felt a little guilty. It was very clear that the third brother valued his third sister-in-law. If he knew that he had made the third sister-in-law angry..., thinking about this, he quickly put on a flattering expression. Smile: "Third sister-in-law, I just talked nonsense, don't take it to heart..."
"Am I so petty?" Chu Xia interrupted him funny, "What you said is the truth. What should I be angry about? I'm not talking just because I'm thinking about what you said. After all, I'm going to be a mother soon. Well."
"Sister-in-law, I have a villainous heart..." Zhou Huakang looked embarrassed, "Actually, what I said is not completely correct. If everyone thinks that way, will society still have time to progress?"
"This problem cannot be explained clearly in a few words, nor can we think of a solution immediately. Maybe we all need to explore slowly after becoming parents.
Now, turning back to the question just now, in fact, the reason I asked you about He Tian Tian just now is to remind you that you should discuss it with your elders before making a decision. After all, we have not really stepped into society to face some things independently. Daodaoer is not something we can think of now. It is always beneficial to ask the elders.
If you have no idea about Tian Tian's virgin boyfriend, it would be best to find other ways to help her. After all, breaking up in the future will also have an impact on the girl's reputation.
We can't help someone once and then push them into a pit of fire, right? "
There is certainly some truth to what Chu Xia said. People of this era are quite conservative when it comes to male and female partners. If Zhou Huakang helped Tian Tian and eventually broke up, the rumors would make Tian Tian feel uncomfortable for a period of time. Can't hold my head up.
Even if she has a strong heart, it is impossible for others not to care. When the time comes, it will be even harder to find someone she really likes. The bigger the family, the more they care about this kind of thing. In ordinary families, it is not the case. what's up.
Following Chu Xia's suggestion and returning to the Zhou family, Zhou Huakang immediately went to see Mr. Zhou and Mrs. Zhou, reported Tian Tian's matter to the second elder, and then asked for their opinions.
Mr. Zhou sighed and looked at his grandson: "Xiaohua, it's a good thing that you are kind-hearted, but what you agreed to was really a bit reckless.
For the Tian family, why did they let Tian Tian marry Chen Dajun even though they knew what kind of person Chen Dajun was? Have you ever thought about the root cause of this problem? "
"What's the reason?" Zhou Huakang looked at Mr. Zhou with a confused look, "Isn't it because he doesn't care about Tian Tian and wants to use her to help the family?"
"Do you think that a normal family would let someone like Chen Dajun help? Sooner or later, what he did will make him punished. I believe that the Tian family will not think of this.
However, in this case, they still sent their granddaughter over. Whether they valued it or not, the other party represented the Tian family. Is this a fact?
Everyone knows what Chen Dajun has done over the years, so if my guess is correct, it means that the Tian family has something in Chen Dajun's hands, and they want to calm down the incident in this way.
So, if you propose to have sex with Tian Tian now, the Tian family will not agree to it. Therefore, it is simply impossible for you to help Tian Tian in this way.
He couldn't help her, but he pushed the Zhou family to the opposite side of the Tian family and the Chen family. Do you think this result makes sense? Even if Tian Tian will be grateful to you, her fate will still not change. "
"Then how can I help her?" Zhou Huakang sighed, "Grandpa and grandma, I am a little reckless, but I really pity her. Her brother is also a very kind child. I really don't want to see them go... Dead end, changed character.”
Mr. Zhou reached out and patted him on the shoulder: "As I said just now, you are a kind child, but what you lack is social experience, so you don't know how to adapt. Okay, I understand this. I’ll discuss it with your uncle later, don’t worry, the Chen family won’t succeed.”
"Grandpa, do you already have a solution?" Zhou Huakang immediately became happy, "Can you reveal it to me?" He said with an embarrassed smile, "A gentleman's words are like a whip, I can't follow the original statement Go ahead and give Tian Tian an explanation. Grandpa, you don’t want me to be a dishonest person, right?"
"What does your breaking of promise have to do with me?" Mr. Zhou looked at him with a half-smile, "Solve your own problems by yourself. You didn't use your brain when you promised, but you don't want to use your brain now. Are you living your life too leisurely? Already?"
"Grandpa..." Zhou Huakang turned to look at Grandma Zhou who had been listening with a smile, "Grandma, it's inappropriate for Grandpa to treat me like this. Can you please give me a fair word?"
"No." The old lady shook her head and refused without thinking, "The most taboo thing for parents is for one of them to say go east and the other to go west, so I can't go against your grandfather's wishes.
Moreover, your grandpa’s ideas have always been more upright than grandma’s. Grandma can’t deliberately refute him just because she wants to protect you. That would not help you, but harm you. Do you understand? "
Zhou Huakang looked at the old lady with a black look, not knowing what to say. In fact, the label the old lady gave him was too big, and he would be unable to resist it.
Mr. Zhou waved his hand at him: "Okay, go out if you have nothing to do. We will have dinner soon. In the past two days, you should think of a way to prevent the girl from thinking that you are a broken promise."
Is this his dear and respectable grandpa? At this moment, Zhou Huakang completely doubted his previous judgment, but in his heart, he felt vaguely that the old man did not want to cause trouble to the Zhou family at all, so he refused so completely. Although he felt that this thought was a bit unreliable, However, when this kind of thought comes out, it is completely out of control.
Mr. Zhou has lived to this age and has experienced so many ups and downs. How could he not see the little Jiujiu in his grandson's heart? He felt funny and angry at the same time, so he glared at him fiercely: "Expose those dirty thoughts of yours." Put it away, your grandpa, when have I ever been afraid of disaster? When you have grown up, when have you ever seen grandpa scared?
I don't want to solve the trouble I caused, but I'm here to blame others. If I had the same temper as those years ago, I would have kicked you out! "
"I...I didn't think about it..." After muttering, Zhou Huakang quickly ran out. At this moment, he finally understood that the old man was testing him, but what should he do?
Who to turn to for help?
Big brother?
The idea was rejected by him as soon as it flashed. It was almost foreseeable that he went to ask his elder brother for help, and the result was that the elder brother gave him a scolding, and then he couldn't think of any ideas.
Third brother?
This idea was quickly rejected by him. With the temper of the third brother, he would not dare to go up and stroke the tiger's beard. If the tiger was stroked, he would be in big trouble...
Second sister?
Let's forget it, the second sister has enough troubles of her own, so he shouldn't bother her with this matter.
Fourth sister?
It’s not good either. His belly is so big, he still has a lot of conflicts with his mother-in-law, and if he gets anxious and angry over his affairs, he will definitely regret it in the end...
Fifth Brother and Sixth Sister don’t even think about it...
Since coming back, Chu Xia has been keeping an eye on Zhou Huakang. After all, she and the other party encountered the matter together. She still wants to know how to solve it.
At this moment, seeing Zhou Huakang standing there in a daze with a disheveled look on his face, he guessed that the old man most likely didn't agree with his approach and even gave him a scolding.
"Xia, what are you looking at?" Zhao Yulan noticed her daughter's erratic look, glanced at her line of sight, and gave her a tug, "You are a sister-in-law, you shouldn't stare at your brother-in-law like this."
Chu Xia: "..." Mom, are you thinking too much? Are we the kind of people who don’t know the depth?
"Mom, you are serious. It's one thing for Xiaomi to ask Xiaohua to help you, but you can't get too close. After all, he is a brother-in-law, not a sister-in-law. Do you understand?"
"Mom..." If she didn't speak, I would probably keep lecturing her. There was no other way, so Chu Xia had to explain, "Ying'er encountered some problems during the competition. We agreed that Zhou Huakang would come back to discuss it with his grandparents. I am I'm worried about the result, mother, please, can you stop thinking so much? Originally, nothing happened, but when you say this, it seems like I really did something wrong."
"Mother, don't you notice that you always glance at Xiaohua?" Zhao Yulan smiled coquettishly, "Don't think too much about mother, it's better to pay attention to some things. By the way, Xiaohua encountered something difficult. ?Is it serious? Can your father and I help?"
"Can't help..." Anyway, it wasn't a matter of betrayal. Chu Xia briefly told Zhao Yulan about Tian Tian and Zhou Huakang, emphasizing Tian Tian's life experience.
"He is a poor child, and he should help. However, Uncle Zhou and Aunt Zhou are right to disagree. After all, this is obviously a thankless thing..." After a pause, Zhao Yulan shook her head again. "No, it's definitely not because of this reason that Uncle Zhou and Aunt Zhou don't agree. They are not that kind of people. Xia, you'd better advise Xiaohua. Uncle Zhou has walked more roads than he has crossed bridges, so it won't harm him. of.R1152