Chapter 697 You Are The One Who Knows Me Best

Ning Youguang looked at Shi Mochiyue's dejected look and said, "Then let's make an agreement first, all our arguments in the future are for the sake of us being together better in the future, not for anything else."

"Of course." Shi Mochizuki nodded, "It's impossible to have anything else."

Ning Youguang said, "Professor Albert from Stanford University is working on a new project and needs new personnel to join him. He has a good relationship with the teacher, so..."

Shi Mochizuki stopped breathing.

Professor Albert of Stanford University.

He knows that today's leading figures in the field of international psychology.

Since Ning Youguang met him at the International Psychology Summit held in Boston that year, he has always admired her.

The two also exchange emails from time to time.

"Professor Yu recommended you to his laboratory?"

Ning Youguang shook his head, "No, because of Professor Albert's recommendation, Stanford University wants to invite me to join."

Shi Mochizuki's heart sank rapidly for a moment, and at the same time, his mind suddenly became chaotic.

He knew that most professors from domestic universities would inevitably accept "discounted sales" when they went abroad to work, but this definitely did not include Ning Youguang.

Not to mention, she has been working hard with academician Yu to do research in psychology since she was in college in China. Secondly, because of her excellent language skills, her academic papers have been published in top foreign journals over the years. .

Therefore, it can be said that Ning Youguang's popularity in foreign academic circles is not lower than that in China, and she also maintains in-depth cooperation with many foreign universities.

And, she was able to gain insight into where the psychology profession is headed around the world.

It can be said that no matter how far Huaguo's psychology major lags behind Europe and the United States.

Ning Youguang, a professor of psychology at the National University of Science and Technology, is an expert in the field of psychology in the world today. If she wants to go out, she will not be discriminated against, and she will wander around like a crane in the clouds.

If it is true as she said, going to Stanford can also get the treatment of a professor at the same level, which can be regarded as a step forward for her career development.

When she comes back after going abroad for a few more years, whether she wants to lead a scientific research team independently or become a scientist, it will be a matter of course, with no shortage of resources or connections.

Toki Mochizuki knew how good this opportunity was for her, but——

He asked knowingly, "Peer level?"

Ning Youguang smiled confidently, "If I go, I will definitely get the same grade."

Moreover, he was confident that he would be able to obtain the qualification of a tenured professor in a short time.

But that's not her purpose.

Shi Mochizuki's mind went blank, but his heart gradually calmed down.

He knew that with her ability, it would be like this.

"You..." To go or not to go?

He suddenly didn't dare to ask.

But Ning Youguang knew what he wanted to know.

"I dont go."

"Is it because of me?" Shi Mochizuki lowered his head and asked at a slower pace.

"You are a big factor." Ning Youguang chose to tell the truth.

Her psychological enlightenment started at Stanford University, and her grandmother and great-grandmother both studied at Stanford.

Therefore, she has different feelings about going to Stanford, whether it is to study or to apply for a job.

If in this life, she is still the same as in her last life, alone, she might take over the olive branch that Professor Albert handed over this time and go.

It's true that even if she goes, it's not like she won't come all the time. She just wants to come back as a more professional self.

But there are no ifs in life.

"Isn't this a pity?"

Even if he knew that Ning Youguang did not go to Stanford, it was not all because of himself, Shi Mochiyue felt very happy.

But while I was happy, I also felt that it would be a pity if I gave up such a good opportunity.

After all, she has always admired the academic atmosphere of psychology research at Stanford University.

"I won't work there." Of course Ning Youguang knew what Shi Wangyue meant, so he said frankly, "But I think I can join Professor Albert's laboratory and complete this project with him. What do you think?"

Shi Mochizuki's heart became restless again, "This kind of thing... I can't give you any advice. You may ask Teacher Yu or other friends who can give you more professional advice."

Ning Youguang said, "The teacher suggested that I go. She felt that although the project of Professor Albert was too cutting-edge, it was very suitable for me. No matter whether it was successful or not, I went and always received a lot of things."

Shi Mochizuki felt that her happiness was weak.

He lowered his eyes slightly, "What about your decision?"

"Mochizuki, I know that the previous time I asked you to move home for work and career, and our brief separation has already made you very uncomfortable. If I propose to go out again this time, or go to such a far place, you must be more uncomfortable."

Shi Mochizuki pursed her lips, and said in a hoarse voice, "You're right, in a foreign country, so close to each other, I've had enough of the pain of lovesickness between the two places."

"Watching the moon." Ning Youguang's heart tightened slightly.

When Mochizuki raised her head, a wry smile appeared on Qingjuan's face, "Sister, you have never experienced a secret love as hard as mine, so you probably don't understand."

"I..." Ning Youguang really didn't understand, and couldn't empathize with him, but she could figure out a thing or two from the content of his Weibo.

Shi Mochizuki gently put down the chopsticks in his hand, and asked slowly, "What's your decision?"

Ning Youguang couldn't answer immediately.

There was silence between the two.

At this time, the waiter came over with a plate of curry shrimp and a plate of grilled lamb chops from northern Thailand.

Putting down the two dishes, the waiter's eyes fell on the cup in front of Ning Youguang, which had not much water left, "Beauty, do you need some water for you?"

From the corner of his eye, he glanced at Ning Youguang from time to time.

Shi Mochizuki immediately said coldly, "No need."

With just three words, the waiter felt a chill down his spine, "Okay, please continue, both of you, and you can call me anytime you need."

Wait for the waiter to leave with the plate.

Shi Wangyue picked up the teapot at hand and slowly poured water into Ning Youguang's cup, "Let's eat first."

Putting down the teapot, he first picked up the serving chopsticks at hand and picked up a curry prawn for Ning Youguang.

Then, he picked up a piece of grilled lamb chops for himself.

This Thai food, because it is close to home, tastes pretty good.

The two have been here several times, and the tastes are familiar to each other, and there is no stepping on the pit.

Ning Youguang was not in a hurry to eat food.

She knew that some things, if not made clear in time, would cause a lot of trouble to people.

"Mochizuki, I want to go to Professor Albert's laboratory and complete this scientific research project with him. I know this is very selfish. For my own career, I have wronged you again and again."

Moreover, Professor Albert invited her to this project. In her previous life, she did not see any relevant scientific research results or related news.

So she guessed that the project either failed or died on the way.

But this project is really in line with the direction of her future research and the field she is committed to developing.

If this life, because of her participation, the project in Professor Albert's laboratory can have a different result.

She feels that it is a very meaningful thing, whether it is for her or for more people.

"You're not selfish." Shi Mochizuki ate the lamb chops with a calm expression, "You just didn't give up on yourself for me."

After thinking about it, he added, "Or, you didn't compromise with me for your own mission."

"You're right." Ning Youguang nodded.

She did not give up herself for him.

Moreover, she once discussed this issue with Zhuang Yijing: "Is there a day when you will give up yourself for love or marriage?"

Her answer to the other party was——

"I can give up myself for Mochizuki, but I will not give up my mission for anything."

Zhuang Yijing asked somewhat incomprehensibly, "Why?"

Ning Youguang said, "Because the self is only about myself, but the mission is about more people. I have no reason to give up the purpose of my life on earth for myself."

Zhuang Yijing asked again, "What if one day someone in your family asks you to choose between him and your mission?"

Ning Youguang was silent for a while, "Although he will be very sad, he is probably willing to bear the pain and support me."

"Why?"

"Because he is a person with a big picture."

Shi Mochizuki looked at Ning Youguang's calm face, "Let's eat, I'm hungry after waiting for so long."

There are many people in the mall tonight, and there are many people in this restaurant.

The two were so busy talking just now that they forgot the time.

After Shi Mochizuki waited for the waiter to serve the dishes, he took a special look at the time pointed by the hands of the watch on his hand. It was already past eight o'clock.

Ning Youguang just ate the bottom of the skewers, but he was not hungry.

But she knew that when Mochizuki let her eat, it was also to ease each other's emotions.

When the two get along, Shi Mochizuki has always been the one who avoids emotional conflicts with each other.

In other words, he has been paying attention to maintaining a good emotional state in front of her.

It's not that he doesn't have bad moods, it's just that his bad moods are always given to others, never to himself.

As for myself, because I have practiced it, I can achieve real emotional stability.

On the contrary, when there is a little emotional instability, it is here at Shi Mochizuki.

Friends often ask her, "Why do I always like to give the worst emotions to family members or close people around me?"

Ning Youguang replied, "Because you know that they will tolerate you, even if you give them bad emotions, they will not really blame you, stay away from you, in front of them, you are safe and can be forgiven. understand the loved."

Her ability of self-awareness is not very strong, but it is also acceptable.

Every time she has emotions about Shi Mochizuki, she basically observes it when she arises in her heart, and then digests it herself.

It would not be said that it was particularly obvious to him.

But she knew clearly that she was different in front of others than in front of Shi Mochizuki.

Many times, she knew that she was tolerant of him, too. 1314