Chapter 747: It’s a Child 12
This time it was Meng Li's turn to wait outside, while Qi's mother and Dr. Li went in to talk.
Dr. Li first learned about Xia Qi’s mother’s education method in detail. The more we talked about it, the more he discovered many problems.
Dr. Li and Qi’s mother were asking and answering questions, and Qi’s mother suddenly found that there were some words that she couldn’t say.
It was a bit hard to say, but Qi Ma immediately realized, was what she was doing wrong?
He instinctively didn't want to say anything.
However, Dr. Li was originally in this field, so it was easy to pry open Qi Ma’s mouth. After understanding everything, Dr. Li said to Qi Ma:
"Sister-in-law, I personally feel that your parents have more problems."
Qi’s mother’s face turned a little red and she couldn’t help but say:
"But this is how I educate my children. I have been doing this for more than ten years. Isn't it because of our contribution that my children have good grades?"
Dr. Li sighed and said:
"Yes, I can't deny your efforts. You also know that your child's grades are good, so why are you never willing to acknowledge her?"
Qi Ma choked and said again:
"There are some words that the child cannot say anymore when he is older."
Dr. Li said:
"You put too much pressure on your children, and you don't give them the recognition they deserve, making them feel that there is no reward for their efforts, and it is easy for them to get burned out. A person needs all kinds of recognition."
"If a child doesn't have any good memories when he grows up, isn't that a pity?"
Qi Ma retorted:
"Everyone has their own way. Do we have to follow a template or a book to treat children?"
Dr. Li shook his head in disapproval.
Mother Qi said again:
"Think about it, isn't everything I do for my child? I'm afraid that she will suffer a disadvantage when she gets bad grades when she grows up, that she will fall in love early and delay her studies or be cheated."
Dr. Li said:
"Actually, it's normal to be ignorant in adolescence."
"Some children can survive on their own, while others need the correct guidance from their parents."
"Well, how about you call Brother Qi over and let's talk about it together?" Dr. Li looked at Qi's mother with a smile.
Qi's mother was silent and looked up at Dr. Li several times. She didn't know what was going on in her mind, but she finally agreed.
Dad Qi knew that he was coming too, so he was quite surprised and said that he couldn't leave because of work.
Qi’s mother cursed on the phone:
"The child belongs to me alone, right? So if something goes wrong now, I should be the one to deal with it, right?"
Facing Dad Qi, Mom Qi has no patience.
She believes that Dr. Li should not criticize her alone, and Qi’s father is also responsible.
Dad Qi saw that his wife was angry, and he didn't want to pester her. She would make trouble if she didn't obey her. He had no choice but to ask for leave and come here.
When he entered the door, he saw Meng Li, who called him daddy.
Dad Qi said yes and went to see Dr. Li.
Then the two of them were successfully given a lecture by Dr. Li.
Both father and mother were speechless.
It was originally intended to help the children understand their psychology, but in the end, it was them themselves who were being criticized.
To be honest, for someone who is already several decades old, it feels very uncomfortable to be criticized all of a sudden.
However, Dr. Li's main purpose was to make Qi's father and Qi's mother realize that they were wrong, so he used a lot of technical talks and even gave them many cases to tell them the importance of children's mental health.
On the contrary, the sudden resentment in the hearts of Qi's father and Qi's mother dissipated.
It was also at that moment that I realized something was wrong with me.
Today's mood has decided to change. Although they don't mind getting along with their children like this, the children's mental health problems seem to be very serious. If they don't pay attention, what if they are like the protagonists in the cases mentioned by Dr. Li?
Those are all tragic and embarrassing endings.
However, based on the principle that a slap will not make a difference, they feel that the child actually has a problem.
Then Meng Li was given psychological counseling by Teacher Li.
Meng Li was helpless, but for the sake of her mother and father's cooperation, she could only accept it.
After all, it is undeniable that the client has more or less problems.
I don’t know if the client has seen this scene now, and I don’t know if the client can listen to Dr. Li’s words.
We talked a lot, and Meng Li was very cooperative.
Force yourself to cooperate, try to regard yourself as the client, and feel the client's thoughts before speaking.
It was already two o'clock in the afternoon when we left Dr. Li's place, and everyone was still hungry.
The three of them walked together, Qi's father walking in the front, Qi's mother in the middle, and Meng Li hanging at the end. The distance between the three people was awkward, not close at all, and the atmosphere was even more awkward.
Meng Li had nothing to be embarrassed about, but Qi's father and Qi's mother seemed embarrassed and awkward.
After all, it is about breaking the inherent pattern of getting along, which undoubtedly requires more attention.
We also need to make things more natural.
When they arrived at the car, Qi's father was driving. Qi's mother originally opened the passenger door, but when she saw Meng Li getting into the back seat, she closed the passenger door again and sat in the back seat with Meng Li.
Meng Li felt that Qi Ma was uncomfortable.
She didn't say anything. Dad Qi started the car and asked:
"Where to go?"
Qi's mother wanted to say go home, but she took the words back. She pretended to be kind but was actually quite awkward and asked Meng Li:
"Happy, where do you want to go?"
Meng Li's childish voice sounded:
"Listen to mom."
Mother Qi awkwardly brushed away her broken hair from her ears and said:
"Then let's go out to eat as a family of three?"
Dad Qi said:
"I think it will work."
"What do you want to eat?" Qi Ma asked Meng Li in as gentle a tone as possible.
Meng Li sighed inwardly. In fact, he might not be able to maintain such caution for a few days, because it would be really tiring.
It is easy to be knocked back to the original shape, and it is difficult to change a person's inherent personality through a session with a psychologist.
But what is gratifying is that the client's parents are willing to change for the client, and they are not completely indifferent.
Now that there are changes now, Meng Li will not resist.
She moved her body, squeezed towards Qi Ma, naturally took Qi Ma's arm and said:
"I want to eat steak."
Qi Ma's body tensed up, but she didn't push Meng Li's arm away. She said:
"That's okay."
"Mom, can I not go to make up classes today?" Meng Li looked at Qi's mother with burning eyes.
"At this point, it's too late to eat."
Qi's mother suddenly felt a little angry. This child was kicking her nose and getting into her face.
"Okay, I'll give you a holiday." Dad Qi said.
Qi Ma suppressed her inner anger, smiled awkwardly at Meng Li, and stretched out her hand to touch Meng Li's head. Meng Li rubbed his head on Qi Ma's arm a few times. It's a good way to act coquettishly. .
Meng Li didn't mind using it more.
Qi Ma suddenly had a strange feeling.
Anyway, it feels not bad. ...