Chapter 1152: Briefing

The rain in the provincial capital in winter is different from the rain in Silicon Valley. It is authentic cold rain. The few homeless dogs on the roadside or those who are out for a stroll have no romantic mentality of candy. They run in panic in the rain with their tails between their legs, just wanting to find a place where no one is and where they can take shelter from the rain.

Feng Yuxuan looked at the gloomy, hazy, and increasingly green world outside the car. Thinking that her parents would be returning home soon, she really couldn't be happy at all.

However, what can be done? Although her brother didn't ask for her opinion before going abroad, she also agreed with it.

She parked the car in front of a three-story building. As soon as she entered the door, a girl came up to her and said, "Mr. Mei, Mr. Cai is still waiting for you on the 16th. Please follow me."

The surname Feng is a bit sensitive in the provincial capital now. She applied for a card here and used her mother's surname.

The sound of the door opening woke up the sleepy Cai Hong. She looked up and asked, "Why are you here now?"

"Don't mention it. The company delayed it for a while. The one tomorrow made many extra requests early in the morning."

With outsiders present, she was still very cautious and did not say that it was the one where the wedding would be held tomorrow.

"Solved? Then hurry up. I feel very comfortable after applying it this time. Oh, I can't speak. You will know if you try it yourself."

She had a thick layer on her face at this time.

"Because these were selected by our boss in Germany. They are all organic and do not contain any compounds," said the little girl standing by.

Germany, organic, etc., for the two of them, it doesn't matter. There are better and more famous cosmetics at home.

The reason why they choose to do their skin care here regularly is because there are indeed a group of very professional waiters and a group of professional equipment here.

Besides, the two of them really need some free time like this now.

Two hours later, they were already sitting in a warm coffee shop in a shopping mall, looking at the matchbox-sized vehicles downstairs and gossiping.

"Actually, I'm not used to this," Feng Yuxuan said, holding the coffee.

"Then don't drink it," Cai Hong said, "it's good to just sit here,"

"You don't know, I rarely have time to spare when I'm at home now. I really don't know how there are so many things to do, anyway, I'm always busy,"

"Then hire another nanny," Feng Yuxuan said.

"I dare not," Cai Hong laughed, "I found one, my dad has said more than once, and besides, hiring two nannies at home is really a bit exaggerated,"

It should be said that all of them are still trying to adapt to their current identities.

"Okay, let's not talk about this, let's talk about you, what do you think of Luo Wei? Don't be impatient, it's not me asking you, it's your uncle who asked me to ask you,"

"Some things he can't ask you, what he means is that if you break up, he will help you find someone else, and he knows that you are busy and don't have time to take care of these things. Today, whether you are annoyed or not, you must give me a definite answer,"

These things are also the time to talk about them.

"Before my brother went abroad, he talked to Luo Wei once," Feng Yuxuan said, "If Luo Wei still can't take the responsibility he should have, then what else can we do? We can only break up,"

"You are still reluctant," Cai Hong sighed.

"It's not that I'm reluctant," Feng Yuxuan said.

She felt that her brother was right. Sometimes, she was really stubborn. When she met someone, she would be devoted to him. As a result, she was very passive now. Therefore, she also felt that the agreement proposed by her brother was really necessary and saved her a lot of trouble in the future.

"Aunt, you and uncle are so happy, I really envy you,"

"This is just about living," Cai Hong thought so, but it was really hard to mention this in front of this niece.

"I have long understood a truth. Getting married is to make yourself live more easily and happily, not to cause yourself extra trouble," Feng Yuxuan said.

When she was alone in the city earlier, she set a principle for herself. No matter what, she must never bow her head in front of her future parents-in-law and never let them manipulate her at will.

"Isn't this what two people are together for?" Caihong said.

"What I see in this regard is different from what you see," Feng Yuxuan said, "After getting married, there are actually a lot of troubles. The consequences of the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in rural areas, I saw and heard a lot of them when I was a child in the surrounding villages,"

"Every day, quarreling, picking each other's parents and scolding each other, that's not uncommon. After quarreling, they really can't live together anymore, and they simply divorce, and there are also some,"

"Even mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law drink pesticides, hang themselves, and jump into the water - of course not diving, but jumping into a pond or reservoir to commit suicide. Such things are really not uncommon,"

"It's not that bad, really don't even want to die for this?" Cai Hong didn't believe it.

"It's true," Feng Yuxuan said, "My cousin Dongzheng's wife, the cousin's wife, you have also seen her, after giving birth to her second child, which was also a daughter, she quarreled with her mother-in-law, that is, the second aunt who you said was a very good person. Later, one noon, she went to a reservoir at the foot of the mountain to commit suicide."

"Really?"

"It's true. Fortunately, everyone was going home from the mountain to eat. When the water just flooded to her waist, she was pulled back by several people,"

"I didn't expect that such a thing still exists now,"

"So, you are happy growing up in the city," Feng Yuxuan said.

"Although my mother and others gossiped privately afterwards and thought that my cousin-in-law was actually just showing off, I think that being forced to do this is actually very helpless and very sad,"

"That's right," Cai Hong nodded, "I really didn't expect it." I didn't know whether she was talking about Dongzheng's wife or Dongzheng's mother.

"I've seen a lot of things like this."

"When I was a child, I often saw married girls running back to their parents' house in the middle of the night or early in the morning, with their hair down, their children, and their eyes swollen, saying that they didn't want to go to their husband's house anymore."

"But in the end, the man came to the house several times, or brought an elder there several times, and finally reluctantly took the child back to his in-laws' house. But the tears when he returned to her in-laws' house were really It’s not the kind that bleeds on the day you get married,”

Cai Hong knows this. Her tears on her wedding day, haha, were really appropriate for the occasion. At least they should be tears of joy.

"Actually, this is not bad. There are also some situations where after returning to your parents' home, your husband's family will ignore you, or they will just find a way to take away the child. In that case, it is your parents' family who will be anxious. In rural areas, Although divorce exists, it is not a commendable thing."

"Especially for girls, how will they live their lives after getting married, having children, and then being kicked out? How will they start a family?

"Parents will take the initiative to persuade their daughters. The usual reason is, 'Just be a child and leave it to others, don't you worry?'"

"In this regard, the situation in provincial cities and rural areas is similar now. It is difficult for divorced women with one child to start a family again," Cai Hong said.

"My brother and younger brother will probably not be happy. They have been married for so many years and then come back. The family life is still like this? Who will take care of the wedding and who will pay for it?"

"It is conceivable that if you take the initiative to go back like this, your life will only be more difficult in the future,"

Hearing this, Cai Hong just nodded. It seemed that there was no difference between the city and the countryside. Even if it fell on her, the eldest brother Cai Lei and the second brother Cai Xin would probably have similar reactions and actions.

"Speaking of which, these are pretty good."

"Is there anything worse?" Even though Cai Hong is a mother, she is actually very simple and doesn't know much about some things.

"There are also some people who, after getting married for a few years, even their parents are not here. It's really hard to say that they don't even have anyone to complain to. The brothers may support her once, but if they want to take the children back to their parents' home, they must agree to it." , my sister-in-law and sister-in-law won’t agree either,”

"As long as you show a little bit of that kind of meaning, all kinds of weird things will kill you,"

When she was a child, her brother seemed to have told her that there was a reason why married daughters were more filial to their parents than girls like them who were not married, because they knew more deeply that if their parents were gone, they would be gone. My mother's family has no support and no way out.

Feng Yuxuan had not escaped from home for several years, which is not to say that she did not have this consideration.

"With all the above, I really would rather be single than end up in that situation. But as you can see, his parents have such a temper, and he has such a temper. If he still doesn't have any due responsibility, Then didn’t I throw myself into the pit of fire?”

"Fortunately, I have a way out now and don't have to rely on my parents and brothers. Of course, this is wrong. It is only because of my parents and brothers that I have the financial foundation I have now. Otherwise, I would just have more choices than those in the countryside. Jumping off buildings, taking sleeping pills, etc. Thousands of years have passed, and we can’t just hang ourselves and drown ourselves. We should also keep pace with the times.”

"What did you say?" Cai Hong couldn't help but hit her on the head, "How did it get to that point?"

"If Luo Wei can change, will you accept it again?" Cai Hong said, "I've even talked to him about it, so how come it has no effect?"

"Let's see how far we can go," Feng Yuxuan said.

As if she heard them talking, her cell phone rang at that moment. Feng Yuxuan looked at it and said, "Luo Jia's."

"Quick pick up, that's probably what I'm talking about," Cai Hong said.

ps: Since everyone is relatively forgetful, I still have to ask for it once. Dear, do you have any tickets? Monthly tickets and recommended tickets are all welcome. Thank you!