Chapter 73 Moss Flowers Are as Small as Rice, and Bloom Like Peonies
After a bitter cry.
The children's mood improved significantly.
Fang Qiu knew that his method worked, but it was far from enough to stop there. He had to help the children remove the shadow left by this natural disaster in their hearts little by little.
Once this kind of shadow is not completely removed, it will follow a person's life
See everyone stop crying.
Fang Qiu got up, went to the room where supplies were piled up, brought some milk and bread, distributed some to each child, let them eat first.
While eating, he said to the children: "Come on, let's get together and tell our own stories."
Call the kids over.
Fang Qiu smiled and talked about some interesting things about himself when he was a child, which brought up a topic for the children.
Then.
Under Fang Qiu's roll call.
The children, speaking one by one, told their stories.
At the beginning, every child told some very trivial and interesting things. When telling these small things, it would also attract bursts of laughter, and the children who told the story would also laugh heartily.
But.
As we talked, the smiles on the children's faces gradually stopped.
It seemed that he had encountered something terrible and was unwilling to speak out.
"Don't be afraid, I'm here."
Fang Qiu looked at the child whose narration was interrupted suddenly, reached out and touched the child's head, and said, "You can tell me all the terrible things, tell us all, we will always be with you."
heard the words.
The child whose story had been interrupted looked up and looked around.
But I saw that the friends around me were all looking at him, nodding at him, supporting him and believing in him.
"I, I saw the flood."
The child began to tell about the pictures he saw in the disaster, how his relatives disappeared before his eyes,
Every time a word is spoken, the voice becomes hoarse.
The teardrops were also big and big, falling hot to the ground.
Fang Qiu sat next to the child, stretched out his arms and hugged the child's shoulders tightly, trying to give him a sense of security.
he knows.
For children who have suffered a disaster and lost their family members in the disaster, a sense of security is already a luxury, and a sense of insecurity will accompany them throughout their lives.
If you want to change, you can only give him enough sense of security at this time, let him feel the warmth of his relatives again, and let him know that there are many people around him who are watching him and protecting him.
Not just Fang Qiu.
The other children around also joined together one after another.
Everyone stretched out their hands, and everyone hugged each other.
see everyone.
The child who was telling the story immediately raised his head, wiped his tears, and continued to tell everyone the fear in his heart, expressing all the fear in his heart.
The more he talked, the closer everyone became, and the more secure he felt.
soon.
He's done.
"alright."
Fang Qiu patted him on the shoulder and said, "Are you still afraid now? If you are afraid, tell us all about your future wishes."
"Would you like to be a policeman, an athlete or a scientist"
Finding hope in despair can bring a person back to life.
Fang Qiu guided the children step by step.
"Me, I like playing football."
Wiping tears from his face, the kid said: "I told my mum I'm going to be a really great football player when I grow up, but mum isn't here anymore."
"Your mother believed you would do it, didn't you?"
Fang Qiu smiled and said: "We also believe that you will do it, so even if your mother is gone, you must bring the expectations of all of us and your mother to you, and strive to become a great enough athlete"
heard the words.
The child nodded heavily, the tears on his face dried up, and the originally suppressed emotions were completely released.
"next moment."
Fang Qiu turned to the next one.
that's all.
The children told their stories one by one, and after hearing those frightening pictures, the children became more united.
Even without Fang Qiu's guidance, the children began to comfort each other.
psychological counseling.
Invisibly on the right track.
beside.
The three great doctors who have been paying attention to this matter all nodded secretly with great satisfaction.
When it comes to treating diseases and wounds with traditional Chinese medicine, they are absolutely second to none, but when it comes to psychological counseling, they really don't know how to do it.
Although there is a method of treating mental depression with medicinal stones in Chinese medicine, that method is only a supplementary method, and what really works is psychological counseling.
this moment.
In the eyes of the three great doctors, Fang Qiu became more comprehensive again.
the other side.
Several young people who are also Chinese medicine practitioners feel ashamed of Fang Qiu's performance.
At the western medicine side, everyone was also surprised, they didn't expect Fang Qiu to be able to help the children clear their emotions so quickly.
Although surprised.
But there is no doubt about it.
Each of these doctors had a smile on their faces, and they were very happy to see this scene, and they were very grateful to Fang Qiu in their hearts.
The wounded around also focused their eyes on Fang Qiu, carefully watching the interaction between Fang Qiu and the children, and listening to every word Fang Qiu said to the children.
They are also injured.
They also need psychological counseling, they just have a better ability to withstand stress than children.
Some adults, hearing the stories told by the children, couldn't help but their eyes were red, and they also cried along with the children.
here.
Fang Qiu's psychological counseling is not over yet.
Singing songs and confronting fears and expectations for the future are just part of the equation.
Wait for the kids to finish.
Fang Qiu glanced outside the door.
Finding that the torrential rain was still falling, my heart sank immediately.
He originally planned to take the children out for a walk, let the children feel the vastness of the earth, see the bright sunshine, and let them truly feel the beauty of this world.
It's a pity that the weather is not beautiful.
but.
Since I can't get out.
Then it can only come from another direction.
That's the game.
Games that allow children to trust each other build deeper friendships and a sense of security for children.
"alright."
When the last child finished telling his story, Fang Qiu stood up and said, "Children, let's play a game, shall we?"
"good."
The children all nodded.
"Anyone, would you like to play a game with us?"
Fang Qiu asked the surrounding adults.
Soon a few volunteers were recruited.
Under Fang Qiu's arrangement, a few volunteers held the children's hands, let the children hold hands with each other, divided into several small teams, and started to play games.
On the way to play the game.
Fang Qiu stood among the children, playing with the children, and kept telling the children loudly: "Hand in hand, move forward!"
The reason for shouting so.
It is to plant a cause in the hearts of the children, so that the children will firmly remember this sentence. When they encounter difficulties and pain in the future, they will think of this sentence at the first time.
Let them think that there are many people like themselves who are working hard when they are in despair, and that there are still many people around him supporting him.
Let this sentence bring them hope.
give them new life
While everyone is having fun.
Fang Qiu came to the local officials and asked him to find some local volunteers, and carefully explained the current situation of the children to these volunteers.
He also told them how to guide the children.
After all, Fang Qiu's time here is limited.
It is impossible to be around these children every day, and there are still many people waiting for treatment, so Fang Qiu can only pass on his psychological counseling methods to local volunteers, so that these volunteers can go to more to accompany the children.
The more people who are kind to children, the easier it is for children to recover from trauma.
What made Fang Qiu the happiest was.
Among the local people, many female volunteers came.
no doubt.
Their guidance to the children will definitely be more effective.
They all know that the super typhoon is a great misfortune for the Filipinos, but this time the super typhoon disaster can also unite the Filipinos unprecedentedly and connect the Filipinos more closely with the world.
This allows them to see the future and hope.
And these kids.
is the future
soon.
The volunteers started to play with the children.
among the wounded.
Many people laughed with red eyes when they saw this scene.
Not to mention seeing those depressed children, when they finally began to laugh happily, they couldn't help their noses sore, and swallowed the pain in their hearts even harder.
Learn from the children and face the future with a smile
In front of the temporary aid station.
At some point, a few people came, holding cameras, paper and pens, staring at Fang Qiu and the children, with their work IDs hanging in front of them.
I don't know how long these reporters have been here.
perhaps.
The whole process of Fang Qiu's psychological counseling for the children was filmed.
After filming, the reporter walked into the temporary relief station and began to interview and inquire about the situation here.
while asking.
The reporter kept writing on the paper with a pen.
I want to record everything I see.
And here.
Fang Qiu didn't stop.
Under the watchful eyes of many children, Fang Qiu found a small blackboard.
wrote a poem on the blackboard
moss
nowhere during the day;
Youth just comes.
Moss flowers are as small as rice;
I also learn from peonies.
finish writing.
Fang Qiu picked up the blackboard, read the poem to all the volunteers and children, and told the children the meaning of the poem.
Let me tell you that no matter how difficult the situation is, you must learn how the peony blooms
native.
Using Tagalog, he translated all Fang Qiu's words to the children.
The children seemed to understand, but they all memorized the poem.
there.
The reporter finished the interview.
I quickly wrote a report and sent it directly to the Manila headquarters.
That night, the news hit the papers
"the sun is always behind the storm."
The title of the report directly quoted the songs that Fang Qiu taught the children, and the content was about the hard work of the Huaxia Chinese medicine practitioners who worked for 48 hours without rest, and about Fang Qiu's psychological counseling to the children.
Finally, I would like to express my deep gratitude to Huaxia for its assistance to the Philippines.