Chapter 226 Do You Know How Xu You Died?
Du Fei smiled and said, "It's a good idea. I'll let that kid go to work after the Chinese New Year."
Xu Damao chuckled and said, "Just watch it! I've already said hello to the transportation department, so I have to comb and comb the grandson."
Du Fei smiled, but didn't take it too seriously, and then asked, "Brother Mao, when will you be able to finish your work?"
Xu Damao became even more excited when he mentioned this, "It's coming soon, Deputy Director Li said, we can be here as soon as the year before."
Du Fei said, "Then you have to strengthen your studies, transfer to cadre status, and be promoted to deputy section chief. In the future, you will no longer be an ordinary member of the public. You must actively demand progress."
Xu Damao scratched his head and said with a smile, "That's right, that's right."
Du Fei asked again, "By the way, Brother Mao, have you joined the party?"
Xu Damao was stunned for a moment and shook his head.
Du Fei said, "Hurry up and write an application after the New Year, and ask your section chief to be your introducer."
Xu Damao's eyes rolled, and he had an idea and said, "Hey, brother, what do you think... I'll hand the application form directly to Deputy Director Li?"
Du Fei glanced at Xu Damao expressionlessly and said calmly, "Brother Mao, you haven't become the deputy section chief yet, do you already look down on your section chief?"
Xu Damao smiled coquettishly, acquiescing to his inner thoughts.
Du Fei was not too surprised. He had known that Xu Damao was frivolous and easily got carried away. He said calmly, "Then do you think Deputy Director Li will accept your application?"
"This...should be possible, right?" Xu Damao looked at Du Fei's eyes. He originally thought it was natural, but he was a little unsure.
Du Fei said, "If you ask me, he will definitely not accept it, and will take the opportunity to beat you hard."
Xu Damao licked his lips, frowned and said, "This... we just gave it to him..."
He said holding out two fingers.
Of course Du Fei understood what he wanted to express. He stretched out his hand and pressed his two fingers back and said, "Brother Mao, that's the problem! Did you feel that I gave you two large yellow croakers? Deputy Factory Director Li gave them to you." Doing things is a matter of course?”
Xu Damao grinned and said nothing, but his thoughts were already written on his pig kidney face.
Du Fei sneered, "You~ still haven't figured it out yet. Do you know "The Romance of the Three Kingdoms"?"
Xu Damao nodded quickly, "I've heard of storytelling."
Du Fei said, "There is Xu You inside, how did he die?"
Xu Damao tried hard to recall, and muttered uncertainly, "Is it true that there was such a person in the Guandu Battle?"
"I also know about the Battle of Guandu. It seems that the storytelling was not in vain!" Du Fei said with a smile, and did not continue to talk about it. "Xu You was originally a counselor under Yuan Shao's account. During the Battle of Guandu, he betrayed Yuan Shao and joined Cao Cao. His subordinates offered advice to help Cao Cao, sneak attack on Yuan Shao's grain road, and win the battle of Guandu. Isn't this a great achievement? Isn't it better than how many gifts you give him? Cao Cao is also very grateful, but Xu You always thinks of his merits. If you talk about this, you will tell people that Cao Cao's success depends on him. If you were Cao Cao, would you be annoyed by this person? "
Xu Damao nodded blankly.
Du Fei patted him on the shoulder and said, "So, later Cao Cao found an excuse and killed Xu You."
Xu Damao subconsciously shrank his neck and realized his problem.
Du Fei said, "Brother Mao, the same principle applies to giving gifts. After you give something away, you have to forget about it and just pretend it didn't happen. Don't always think about what you gave away. Think more about it."
Send something back. Leaders know this well and will never forget you at critical times. "
Xu Damao licked his lips and unknowingly there was a layer of sweat on his forehead.
He was not bold in the first place, but when Du Fei said this, he understood that he had violated a taboo, and he couldn't help but regret it.
Seeing him like this, Du Fei secretly laughed in his heart, took a sip of tea, and then continued, "Also, even in the office, you must abide by the rules at all times, follow the steps, and you cannot skip levels. If you think you have a good relationship with Deputy Director Li, just If you cross your section chief, you are not following the rules. Not only will your section chief be upset, but Deputy Factory Director Li may not be happy either, because you are causing him trouble."
Xu Damao swallowed and turned pale. He looked at Du Fei and smiled as if he was crying, "No~ I didn't know there were so many details!"
Du Fei said, "If you don't know, just learn slowly. Why, throughout the ages, have officials had to study first..."
More than ten minutes later.
Xu Damao returned home with a frown on his face. As soon as he entered the room, he sighed and sat down on the chair.
Lou Xiao'e was surprised. She was in high spirits when she left, but why did she come back like an eggplant beaten by frost?
But before she could ask, Xu Damao sighed and said, "Ezi, tell me, am I not the material to be a leader at all?"
Lou Xiao'e asked in confusion, "What's wrong with you? What did Xiao Du tell you?"
Xu Damao listlessly repeated what Du Fei told him just now, and finally said with emotion, "You said, I am almost thirty, how come I can't even understand this little bit of human nature? And let Xiao Du'er take the lead?" of."
After hearing this, Lou Xiao'e laughed and said, "Hey, what do I think it's about?"
Xu Damao was a little unhappy, "No, Ezi, I'm like this, how can you still laugh?"
Lou Xiao'e walked over and said, "Let me tell you, you don't know how to be blessed even though you are blessed! Do you think Du Fei is an ordinary person? What are those girls and boys of his age doing now?"
Xu Damao thinks about it too.
Not to mention Yan Jiefang and Liu Guangtian, even Yan Jiecheng is two or three years older than Du Fei, and there is no comparison with Du Fei.
Lou Xiao'e continued, "Let me tell you, after my dad met Du Fei last time, he spoke very highly of him!"
Xu Damao turned his eyes left and right in thought.
Lou Xiao'e continued, "If you think about it carefully, what a blessing it is to have a person like Xiao Du click on you at a critical moment and save you from many detours? You still feel sorry for yourself."
Xu Damao blinked his eyes, his worries turned into joy, he patted his thigh, held Lou Xiao'e's hand with his backhand and said, "That's right! Wife, it has to be you, why didn't I think of it!"
"What a fool~" Lou Xiao'e squeaked, and then said seriously, "Last time I went back, my mother told me to guard against arrogance and impetuosity, and don't rush for quick success! You have to remember this."
Xu Damao curled his lips and snorted softly.
Lou Xiao'e glared at him and said, "Don't be unconvinced! Do you know why our father and mother were never willing to use their connections to help you?"
Xu Damao became more energetic. He had always wanted to know, so he quickly asked, "Why?"
Lou Xiao'e rolled her eyes at him and said, "Our dad said that you are smart, but you are frivolous, your willpower is not strong enough, and you are not ruthless. You tend to respond when things get tough. You are not suitable for an official career at all."
When Xu Damao heard this, he gave up a little, but when he opened his mouth, he realized that what his father-in-law said... was so right! Du Fei smiled and said, "It's a good idea. I'll let that kid go to work after the Chinese New Year."
Xu Damao chuckled and said, "Just watch it! I've already said hello to the transportation department, so I have to comb and comb the grandson."
Du Fei smiled, but didn't take it too seriously, and then asked, "Brother Mao, when will you be able to finish your work?"
Xu Damao became even more excited when he mentioned this, "It's coming soon, Deputy Director Li said, we can be here as soon as the year before."
Du Fei said, "Then you have to strengthen your studies, transfer to cadre status, and be promoted to deputy section chief. In the future, you will no longer be an ordinary member of the public. You must actively demand progress."
Xu Damao scratched his head and said with a smile, "That's right, that's right."
Du Fei asked again, "By the way, Brother Mao, have you joined the party?"
Xu Damao was stunned for a moment and shook his head.
Du Fei said, "Hurry up and write an application after the New Year, and ask your section chief to be your introducer."
Xu Damao's eyes rolled, and he had an idea and said, "Hey, brother, what do you think... I'll hand the application form directly to Deputy Director Li?"
Du Fei glanced at Xu Damao expressionlessly and said calmly, "Brother Mao, you haven't become the deputy section chief yet, do you already look down on your section chief?"
Xu Damao smiled coquettishly, acquiescing to his inner thoughts.
Du Fei was not too surprised. He had known that Xu Damao was frivolous and easily got carried away. He said calmly, "Then do you think Deputy Director Li will accept your application?"
"This...should be possible, right?" Xu Damao looked at Du Fei's eyes. He originally thought it was natural, but he was a little unsure.
Du Fei said, "If you ask me, he will definitely not accept it, and will take the opportunity to beat you hard."
Xu Damao licked his lips, frowned and said, "This... we just gave it to him..."
He said holding out two fingers.
Of course Du Fei understood what he wanted to express. He stretched out his hand and pressed his two fingers back and said, "Brother Mao, that's the problem! Did you feel that I gave you two large yellow croakers? Deputy Factory Director Li gave them to you." Doing things is a matter of course?”
Xu Damao grinned and said nothing, but his thoughts were already written on his pig kidney face.
Du Fei sneered, "You~ still haven't figured it out yet. Do you know "The Romance of the Three Kingdoms"?"
Xu Damao nodded quickly, "I've heard of storytelling."
Du Fei said, "There is Xu You inside, how did he die?"
Xu Damao tried hard to recall, and muttered uncertainly, "Is it true that there was such a person in the Guandu Battle?"
"I also know about the Battle of Guandu. It seems that the storytelling was not in vain!" Du Fei said with a smile, and did not continue to talk about it. "Xu You was originally a counselor under Yuan Shao's account. During the Battle of Guandu, he betrayed Yuan Shao and joined Cao Cao. His subordinates offered advice to help Cao Cao, sneak attack on Yuan Shao's grain road, and win the battle of Guandu. Isn't this a great achievement? Isn't it better than how many gifts you give him? Cao Cao is also very grateful, but Xu You always thinks of his merits. If you talk about this, you will tell people that Cao Cao's success depends on Xu You. If you were Cao Cao, wouldn't you be annoyed by this person? "
Xu Damao nodded blankly.
Du Fei patted him on the shoulder and said, "So, later Cao Cao found an excuse and killed Xu You."
Xu Damao subconsciously shrank his neck and realized his problem.
Du Fei said, "Brother Mao, the same principle applies to giving gifts. After you give something away, you have to forget about it and just pretend it didn't happen. Don't always think about what you gave away. Think more about it."
Send something back. Leaders know this well and will never forget you at critical times. "
Xu Damao licked his lips and unknowingly there was a layer of sweat on his forehead.
He was not bold in the first place, but when Du Fei said this, he understood that he had violated a taboo, and he couldn't help but regret it.
Seeing him like this, Du Fei secretly laughed in his heart, took a sip of tea, and then continued, "Also, even in the office, you must abide by the rules at all times, follow the steps, and you cannot skip levels. If you think you have a good relationship with Deputy Director Li, just If you cross your section chief, you are not following the rules. Not only will your section chief be upset, but Deputy Factory Director Li may not be happy either, because you are causing trouble for him."
Xu Damao swallowed and turned pale. He looked at Du Fei and smiled as if he was crying, "No~ I didn't know there were so many details!"
Du Fei said, "If you don't know, just learn slowly. Why, throughout the ages, have officials had to study first..."
More than ten minutes later.
Xu Damao returned home with a frown on his face. As soon as he entered the room, he sighed and sat down on the chair.
Lou Xiao'e was puzzled. She was so happy when she left, but she looked like a frost-bitten eggplant when she came back.
But before she could ask, Xu Damao sighed and said, "Ezi, tell me, am I not the material to be a leader?"
Lou Xiao'e asked in confusion, "What's wrong with you? What did Xiao Du say to you?"
Xu Damao repeated what Du Fei had said to him listlessly, and finally said with emotion, "You said, I'm almost thirty years old, how come I can't even figure out this little bit of worldly wisdom? And I need Xiao Du to lecture me."
After listening to this, Lou Xiao'e laughed and said, "Oh, I don't think it's a big deal!"
Xu Damao was a little unhappy, "No, Ezi, I'm like this, how can you still laugh?"
Lou Xiao'e walked over and said, "If you ask me, you are just not grateful for what you have! Do you think Du Fei is an ordinary person? What are those girls and boys of his age doing now?"
Xu Damao thought about it and agreed.
Let alone Yan Jiefang and Liu Guangtian, even Yan Jiecheng is two or three years older than Du Fei, and he is no match for Du Fei.
Lou Xiaoe continued, "Let me tell you, my dad spoke highly of Du Fei the last time he met him!"
Xu Damao turned his eyes left and right in thought.
Lou Xiaoe continued, "Think about it carefully. It is such a blessing to have someone like Xiao Du, who can point you out at a critical moment and help you avoid many detours. Why are you complaining about yourself?"
Xu Damao blinked his eyes, turned his worry into joy, slapped his thigh, and held Lou Xiaoe's hand with his backhand, saying, "Yes! Wife, it has to be you. Why didn't I think of it!"
"Silly~" Lou Xiaoe said coquettishly, and then said seriously, "Last time I went back, my mother told me to be modest and not to be eager for quick success! You must remember it."
Xu Damao pouted and snorted.
Lou Xiao'e glared at him and said, "Don't be unconvinced! Do you know why our parents were always unwilling to use their connections to help you?"
Xu Damao became excited. He always wanted to know, so he asked, "Why?"
Lou Xiao'e rolled her eyes at him and said, "Dad said that you are smart, but frivolous, not strong-willed, and not ruthless. You often give up when faced with difficulties. You are not suitable for a career in politics at all."
Xu Damao was a little dissatisfied when he heard this, but when he opened his mouth, he found that what his father-in-law said was... so damn right!