1154. What to Do if Parents Favor Sons over Daughters 1

Ming'an City's Second Experimental High School, Zhou Zekai sat in his seat and looked out the window. As the top-ranked Second Experimental High School in Ming'an City, the teachers here are not only the best in Ming'an City, they are also among the best in Ming'an City. The best in high school.

Of course, all the classmates in Zhou Zekai's class were busy at this time. Only Zhou Zekai was not doing his homework and looking outside. Many of you know that Zhou Zekai was stuffed in. This year's second experimental high school's score line, Zhou Zekai has no chance. It has not been achieved. To put it bluntly, they are students who come in through the back door. Such people are generally looked down upon by serious students.

However, Zhou Zekai was very calm. Thinking of his current family and what was about to happen, his mind was a little confused.

Why is there some confusion? Because Zhou Zekai really doesn't understand why there are so many people in this world who favor sons over daughters. It's okay for men to favor sons over daughters, but sometimes, women even favor sons over daughters.

The wishing man grew up in such a family. As a boy, he was loved by his family. It was not until he was six or seven years old that he found out that he had an older sister, who had been left behind. She lived with her grandparents in the village and never met each other on weekdays. The wish-maker only found out after seeing her during the New Year and festivals that she had a sister named Zhou Siqi.

Because he has been used to having only one child at home for a long time, the wisher has never thought about what it would be like to have a sister. Every time he is contacted by Zhou Siqi, who is two years older, he is like an outsider. He doesn’t quite understand the meaning of a sister, because he has grown up since he was a child. Big, he is the only one in his home.

The wish-maker had never thought before that his parents were also patriarchal people. As the wish-maker got older, he had understood that his sister was his biological sister and wanted his parents to take his sister back, but The parents always made a lot of excuses and never listened to the wisher. Although the couple doted on the wisher, they never allowed the wisher to have any thoughts of his own. They had to listen to these two people for everything, as if this was the only way. , to be able to raise the son in their hearts.

The source of the matter was that my grandpa passed away. Grandma passed away two years ago. When my grandpa passed away, he gave the old house at home to the wish-maker’s sister Zhou Siqi. At that time, Zhou’s father and Zhou’s mother had not thought about what to do, but later I heard that After talking about the demolition of my hometown, I started to go back and want to rob the house. I didn’t want to raise my daughter, but I wanted to rob the house. It was obviously for my own selfish reasons, but I talked about buying a house for my son to get married in the future. Later, With great difficulty, he snatched the house from Zhou Siqi.

But after bringing Zhou Siqi to the house, the sister could not bear the family and chose to commit suicide. The first person who discovered that her sister had committed suicide was the wish-maker. This incident caused great irritation to him, even for a long time. Over time, I fell into depression and began to fear my parents, thinking that my parents had forced my sister to death.

But the more this happens, after Zhou's father and Zhou's mother see that their daughter is dead, they have to tell the wish-maker that the house is for the wish-maker to buy a house for marriage in the future, etc. In short, it makes the wish-maker think that if it were not for him, his sister would not die.

After high school, Wishmaker's grades were very poor. He repeated his studies for a year and applied for the school farthest from home. After leaving home, Wishmaker never went back. He looked for a part-time job in school. After graduating from college, he found his At work, he was afraid to go home, afraid to face his parents, and afraid to think of his former sister.

Later, the wish-maker also had a family of his own. He took good care of his wife and did not favor boys over girls. He loved the children his wife gave birth to and even worked hard to make money to buy houses for both children. His parents once said that His purchase of a house was as if it never happened. He became an unfilial son. Apart from giving two thousand yuan to two old people every month, he never came home.

Because he didn't want to go back, to that home full of pain.

Later, this soul met Zhou Zekai, and he made a wish, no matter what. He no longer wanted to be a puppet in the hands of his parents, but wanted to keep his sister alive. He didn't care about the house at all, and he didn't want his sister to be forced to death! ! ! If possible, he wants to take his sister to escape from this place. He wants to let her feel freedom, just like he did in his previous life!

The time period that Zhou Zekai was in now was just before his grandfather passed away. His grandfather passed away suddenly. He had physical problems because of a fall. Zhou Zekai's sister also went to high school in Ming'an City, but her grades were not that good. Naturally, her father and mother would not buy her a good high school. She went to No. 1 High School in Ming'an City and is in her third year of high school this year.

It was in the second half of this year that my grandfather passed away, and my sister started a tug-of-war with her parents, and then her sister died...

Thinking of his parents in his memory, Zhou Zekai felt a little helpless. Not only did this couple favor boys over girls, they were also unfilial to their parents. They didn't see their grandparents much during the holidays, and the same was true for their grandparents. After giving birth to a son, they asked their elders for one. A lot of money, and then he used his son to do a lot of things and controlled his son to do a lot of things he didn't want to do.

For children, the scariest thing is the words from adults: "I am doing this for your own good."

Father Zhou and Mother Zhou are like this. They used me for your own good. They built a cage and wrapped the wishing person tightly in it. They did not let the wishing person play with other people since he was a child because he was afraid that the wishing person would be hurt. When making a wish When I was in elementary school, I finally met a good friend. One day, the two of them got into trouble and started fighting. As a result, when Zhou's father and Zhou's mother found out about this, they started a fight with his friend's parents and insisted on making them pay for it. …

At this point, the wishing person had no friends in elementary school... The same was true in junior high school. His son was not allowed to live in the school and was watched like a prisoner every day, which made the wishing person very lonely. When he entered high school, it was because his son had poor grades. , he insisted on buying into the experimental high school regardless of it, but in such an experimental high school, the wish-maker simply couldn't keep up.

The ridicule from the people around him and the drop in grades made the wish-maker inevitably feel a little resentful. Once what happened to Zhou Siqi, the wish-maker would suffer from depression. Even after the wish-maker left home, Zhou Zekai was sure that his depression The disease is definitely not cured, otherwise, I wouldn’t have made such a wish when I met myself.

Ordinary children would probably make a wish to keep their sister alive and the family to be happy.

But what about the wish-maker? He wanted his sister to be free, he wanted to take his sister to freedom, and he didn't mention his parents at all. He seemed to have forgotten his parents.

Such people are undoubtedly selfish, but this point proves that the wish-maker's illness has not yet recovered. He is afraid of being controlled by his parents in his childhood, is afraid of seeing his sister die when he is at his weakest, and is also afraid of following him later. The compromise he made after his parents got along was precisely because of these pressures and fears that made him want to take his sister away instead of letting her go home or get along well with his parents.

Because the wish-maker has determined from the bottom of his heart that he can no longer get along with his parents.

It is precisely because I cannot get along with my parents that I have such a wish.

Zhou Zekai understood his feelings. To be honest, after reading the memory of the wish-maker, he really couldn't get along with such parents. After all, the other party hurt him in the name of love.

No matter how precious a boy is, you can't take care of everything, right? Even if he is not allowed to socialize with others, even when he is at home, he will be restricted from playing games within a certain period of time. He cannot lock the door when taking a shower for fear of drowning. He cannot even lock the door when going to the toilet because Zhou's father Zhou My mother read on the news that it was not safe to go to the toilet alone.

All the rules and regulations in life put a yoke on the wish-maker's mind, making him unwilling to wear this yoke on himself after escaping.

By looking at the memory of the person who made the wish, Zhou Zekai understood why Zhou's father and Zhou's mother would do this. Generally speaking, some parents have more control over their children, while Zhou's father and Zhou's mother over-control their children, causing a rebound, and even Let the child see with his own eyes that they forced another biological child to death. Under such circumstances, the person making the wish will naturally be frightened and frightened. In addition, the parents are not filial to the elderly, which has a physical impact on the child, making the person making the wish I also don’t have the concept of caring for the couple in their old age...

In short, parents are their children's best mentors. This sentence is correct, because if the parents are good, the children will definitely be well educated. But if the parents are not good, then if the children want to do well, they must rely on their self-control ability. .

Am I going to abandon my parents and leave this time? Zhou Zekai didn't know how to solve this matter for a while. His grandfather would pass away in two months, and the house would be given to his sister by then. There would be no news of demolition in another six months... Zhou Zekai still had a long time to think about this matter. .

But before that, Zhou Zekai planned to cultivate a relationship with his sister first. What should I say? Zhou Siqi still liked her brother very much, but she didn't expect her parents to be so cruel. Zhou Zekai decided that since the wisher wanted freedom, then he would give Zhou Siqi freedom.

Of course, as for the wish-maker's two parents who want to control their son, they must always recognize some facts.

For example...children are not their parents' playthings, and they can be dealt with as they wish.

If all the children in the world are obedient and well-behaved, is that possible?