Chapter 2549 He Has Been Here!

Everyone has shortcomings, and also has strengths that others can't match.

When we meet someone who is stronger than ourselves, we may be envious, jealous, or ashamed.

However, if there is a kind of person who thinks about his own shortcomings and shortcomings all the time, feels that he is inferior to others or even has no face to meet others, and cannot even lift his head when walking, this is a strong inferiority complex.

People with low self-esteem behave differently.

Liu Sa, as Li Yueqin said, seems to be a bit too much. No matter what others say, he will think of himself, extremely sensitive and fragile.

Ji Feng also heard what Liu Sa said when he came here. He took it for granted that Li Yueqin objected to his sister and his affairs because his family had no money, he was too poor, and even became very emotional. I'm afraid there is still a feeling of being humiliated in my heart.

This is indeed a bit too inferior!

"It's impossible for a person to be without flaws, everyone has them, so I don't have high requirements for your sister to find a boyfriend, as long as he is decent, treats your sister well, and doesn't lead a too hard life."

Li Yueqin sighed: "As for whether the family is rich or not, and how much he will achieve in the future, these are not so important. As long as your sister thinks it is good, the two of them can get along well together, and they can live happily ever after. , is enough. Otherwise, if someone treats your sister badly, so what if you have a million dollars?"

Ji Feng nodded slightly, feeling sorry for the parents of the world.

"But this little Liu is too inferior."

Li Yueqin shook her head and said: "From outsiders, it may seem that he has strong self-esteem, but in fact, many people can't tell the difference between self-esteem and low self-esteem, and this Xiao Liu is one of them. Men can be incapable, but they must not be too arrogant." Inferiority, otherwise you won't even be able to straighten your back! I can't let your sister spend her whole life with such a man!"

Ji Feng said: "Auntie, have you told my sister all these things?"

Li Yueqin nodded and said, "Why didn't you say that?"

Ji Feng asked: "Then can she listen? What does she think about it?"

Li Yueqin shook her head and said: "Her, alas! You should know your sister's character, she is the kind of soft-hearted person, and weak, and this little Liu can coax her again, and if you say a few nice words, you will be sweet all day Yes, don't little girls like these?"

Ji Feng couldn't help laughing.

"Later, after I got in touch with this little Liu a few times, I found that this little Liu was too inferior, so I told your sister, and I think she listened." Li Yueqin said, "But with your sister's character, Where does it say that you can let go if you let it go? I don’t know how uncomfortable it is.”

Ji Feng nodded slowly. For a person who takes relationships seriously, the end of each relationship will be a painful torture. Human beings are emotional animals, and no one can avoid this.

This is true whether it is a sour and somewhat sweet secret love, or a passionate love.

Of course, those who just play around and never know what feelings are, naturally don't have this feeling.

But Li Yantong is obviously not this kind of person, so Ji Feng can completely understand what it would be like for her to feel entangled in breaking up with someone she likes.

Well, it's not incomprehensible to be disconnected.

"Then, does my sister really recognize the essence of Liu Sa, or is she just listening to you?" Ji Feng asked.

"I see, she's probably just trying to listen to me."

Li Yueqin couldn't help shaking her head, and said, "I've lived most of my life, so I can see some things clearly, but after all, your sister has just come into contact with society, how can she distinguish so clearly?"

Ji Feng said: "Then you let her recognize Liu Sa's true nature, wouldn't that be all right?"

Li Yueqin shook her head and said: "How can this be so easy?! This girl might be so dizzy after being coaxed by Xiao Liu with a few words, how can she see clearly?"

Ji Feng smiled and nodded. Indeed, the IQ of people who fall in love will drop sharply. How can they think calmly?

"She will always see clearly." Ji Feng said: "At that time, she will be able to understand your good intentions."

"But it's not a solution for her to procrastinate like this." Li Yueqin said: "What I am most worried about now is your sister's personal problems. She has also reached the age of marriage, and many people her age have children who are already a few years old. ..."

Ji Feng said with a smile: "Auntie, you don't have to worry, my sister is so good, she must find the best one, she, it's because the fate hasn't arrived yet."

"well!"

Li Yueqin couldn't help shaking her head, her fate hadn't arrived yet, she really didn't know when it would arrive.

Li Yantong came back very quickly, and she was very happy to see Ji Feng. Although the two siblings didn't see each other often, the kind of blood relationship that originated from the bottom of their bones made it easy for them to establish a good relationship. So Li Yantong and Ji Feng got along very well.

"Ji Feng, talk to your sister, and persuade her." Li Yueqin gave Ji Feng a wink, and then turned to cook, leaving only Ji Feng secretly wryly smiling.

Let yourself persuade your sister? Frankly speaking, Ji Feng really didn't know how to speak.

It's not that Ji Feng is afraid of his sister's anger, but because he doesn't know that person named Liu Sa at all, so he doesn't want to express his opinions indiscriminately.

If it was Xiao Yu, Ji Feng could say a few words, just like yesterday's situation, Ji Feng could tell at a glance that Ou Hai's intentions were not pure, and pursuing Xiao Yu might not necessarily be the number one in love. Yes, so he can remind Xiaoyu.

But he knew almost nothing about this Liu Sa.

"Xiaofeng, did my mother tell you something?" Li Yantong asked in a low voice.

"I didn't say anything, but Auntie said a few words about that buddy named Liu Sa." Ji Feng said with a smile, "Sister, why didn't you tell me about your relationship?"

"I knew she was talking about this!"

Li Yantong was a little speechless, and said helplessly: "I have already promised her not to associate with Liu Sa, she is not at ease!"

Ji Feng said with a smile: "Sister, don't complain, Auntie is doing this for your own good. Auntie has enough life experience, she must be able to see people more clearly than us, she will not harm you, right?"

Li Yantong said distressedly: "I understand. But when it comes to emotional matters, sometimes you don't have to use reason to judge. Xiaofeng, you should understand what I said. The way the previous generation viewed emotions, It's different from us."

Ji Feng nodded and said: "Well, I agree with that. But what Auntie said is actually not unreasonable, sister, I still agree with Auntie's opinion, you can put some distance away from that Liu Sa, try to use a kind of Look at him with the eyes of a bystander, if you still think he is good at that time, then it is really good."

Li Yantong asked: "Xiaofeng, after hearing what your aunt said, do you also feel that Liu Sa is not good, so you persuade me like this?"

Ji Feng smiled and said: "Okay, you can only know after seeing it from a distance, or after getting along really intimately for a period of time, but I think it's best to distance yourself a little bit, and there's still time to regret it."

Li Yantong naturally understood Ji Feng's implication, she blushed a little, and glared at Ji Feng, "Boy, do you think my sister is so careless?"

Ji Feng just laughed, as long as he understands.

After that, the siblings did not continue this topic, but chatted. After all, this matter is still a matter of personal relationship. Others can give advice, but they cannot make decisions for her, even if they are siblings. .

And Ji Feng came this time because he had other things to talk about, he decided to do the work of his sister first.

"What?"

Li Yantong was a little surprised when she heard the words, she hurriedly lowered her voice, looked back at the kitchen, and found that her mother hadn't noticed in the kitchen, so she asked in a low voice, "Will you attend your cousin's wedding?"

"Yes, the second brother is getting married, and my father wants you and aunt to participate, and he called me specifically."

Ji Feng said, without waiting for Li Yantong to speak, he hurriedly said: "Sister, I know you may be conflicted in your heart, but no matter what, we are always brothers and sisters, and Ji Shaolei is also your cousin, to attend his wedding, It's a matter of course."

Li Yantong fell silent, with a complicated look on her face: "Xiaofeng, this happened so suddenly, I wasn't mentally prepared..."

"I see."

Ji Feng nodded and said: "But, sister, think about it, although your life is very good now, but your father is still there after all, you can't see him forever, and no matter how you reject him, this fact can't be changed , Are you right?"

Li Yantong remained silent.

After a while, she said: "Xiaofeng, can you let me think about it, it's too sudden!"

Ji Feng nodded immediately: "Of course. Sister, we juniors can't change what happened in the past. Since we can't change, then we have to learn to adapt. At least, the most important thing is to live happily. .”

Li Yantong nodded silently. She has a higher level of education than Ji Feng, so why doesn't she understand this truth?

"actually……"

Li Yantong hesitated for a moment, then suddenly said: "He...he came to see me."

"Um?"

Ji Feng was startled: "Who?"

Li Yantong said, "It's... him."

Seeing the somewhat complicated look on his sister's face, Ji Feng suddenly had a flash of light in his mind, and he immediately understood who she was referring to by 'he', and he immediately asked: "Sister, you mean, Dad came to see you?"

Li Yantong nodded: "...um."

When she was speaking, she was still a little unnatural. She still couldn't say the word "Dad" because she had never felt the warmth brought by these two words since she was a child, but her mood at the moment was exceptional. complicated.

Hearing this, Ji Feng couldn't help being very surprised, and asked, "Sister, when did Dad come to see you?"

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