Chapter 524 Loss Aversion

Because at this time women have entered the early stage of the "brain madness period".

Regardless of men or women, once they enter the "brain madness period", they will not listen to the advice of others and their partners. Even if the third party is not perfect, men and women in the brain madness period will only see the advantages of each other, and magnify them to comfort and convince themselves, so as to rationalize their cheating.

Generally speaking, there are the following manifestations: indifference to the family, verbal and behavioral harm, various dislikes of the partner, etc., or sudden guilt, double care and compensation for the family and the other half.

The scumbag said to the woman during this period:

"I know you are a good mother and a good daughter, and I don't want to embarrass my family. If I put pressure on you because of me, I am willing to disappear in your eyes, because I don't want to see you suffer. Even for me, please take care of yourself. As long as you are well, I am willing to do anything."

Look, it sounds so selfless, and I would rather leave the pain to myself than embarrass the woman.

But the scumbag didn't say to the woman that you are a good wife, because the definition of a good wife will not have such a thing, and it will never reach this stage.

What do women usually think when they hear this?

Naturally, they think that this man is really too good, and he chooses to suffer alone in order not to embarrass himself.

And the scumbag's behavior at this time is generally to leave the woman as he said.

But at this time, the woman has become accustomed to the scumbag's concern and care, and has no idea how many things she has imagined.

Seeing the man leave, she may feel very disappointed, and after feeling disappointed, she thinks that this is good, and she picks up her mood and returns to family life.

But within a few days, the withdrawal reaction will occur, also known as the "loss aversion" psychology.

In short, it is the fear of losing something important, which will make women crazy and want to grab it desperately.

If the woman does not take the initiative to find the scumbag, then the scumbag will create encounters and other plots.

The psychology of losing and regaining, and the fear of losing again, will make the woman completely sink.

The reason why the scumbag is a scumbag is often based on physical conditions. Once compared with her daily life, the woman is completely lost.

After that, she will not care about the family at all. If the woman's husband expresses dissatisfaction with his wife's abnormal behavior, the woman will even think that you are preventing her from pursuing true love.

If these methods are not clever, you may even find them ridiculous. Then congratulations, you are an upright person.

You can only sigh: people are different after all. The dinner you delivered in the wind and rain is not as good as someone else's good night.

You should know that women are very fond of this. Think about the cases of married women cheating that you know. Are they all similar?

Women think they have met true love, but they don't know that you are just one of their many targets. For fun, forget it.

As for men cheating, it can be said that as long as they are not poor or ugly, there is a high probability that they will cheat. The difference is that most men are absolutely unwilling to break up their families.

This is nature.

Males naturally have stronger aggression and possessiveness.

Look at the male-oriented cool novels. The routine is often that I want to be the one who makes the rules, and then defeat the villain with an overwhelming advantage. The classic line is: "What bullshit rules, I am the rules."

Female-oriented cool novels are about rules and fighting under the rules. Classic lines: "You lose, you don't follow the rules."

This is a bit far-fetched, but this set of strategies...

Pah, it's a strategy to prevent scumbags, I sincerely hope it will be helpful to all book friends. )

Back to the main text.

Yang Lingyue carefully read the corresponding itinerary arrangements, and discussed with Liu Xiaoli from time to time, always calling her "Auntie" and "You".

Yang Lingyue will fly to Shanghai tomorrow afternoon, and then stay for a day. She will meet people from Shanghai TV station and visit Xu Zheng (filming in Shanghai), but Liu Xiaoli doesn't know about this.

She will fly to the United States the day after tomorrow morning, and Liu Xiaoli will not go with Yang Lingyue tomorrow.

She took it for granted that Yang Lingyue went to Shanghai for someone, and she felt bad just thinking about it, let alone going with him.

Yang Lingyue persuaded: "Auntie, you should come with me. If you don't want to take a private plane, will you take another civil flight?"

Liu Xiaoli said: "No, I have something to do the day after tomorrow, and I have already made an appointment."

Yang Lingyue shook his head and said: "What can't be postponed? If so, Xixi will blame me, or it will be troublesome to change the domestic route and I can't go back to Beijing to pick you up."

Liu Xiaoli said impatiently: "Thank you for your thoughtfulness. No, it's only two hours, not tiring."

Seeing this, Yang Lingyue said no more and changed the subject. His trip to the United States is summarized as follows:

Arrived in the United States on October 24, stayed in New York for a day, had a meal with the employees of Carrie Bank, met with Yang Lan and Mr. Wu and other Chinese people, and formally signed the equity agreement;

On October 25, flew to Georgia to select a plane at Gulfstream;

Then went to Silicon Valley in Northern California, that is, San Francisco, to discuss investment and cooperation with Lao Ma.

Now is a very good time, because Tesla is on the verge of bankruptcy, and Charles Munger rejected Ma's request for financing, saying that Tesla would not succeed. This has made Wall Street lose confidence in Tesla.

Who is Charles Munger?

He is naturally Buffett's golden partner, and his accurate vision is recognized by the global financial investment community.

So, when Kerry came into contact with Tesla, Ma did not hesitate at all and immediately issued an invitation for a visit.

I was a little hesitant when I learned that the real owner was Chinese, but when I learned that this Chinese was one of the dozen or so customers who bought his first electric car, I became excited again. This is a bosom friend.

Then I went to Southern California, that is, Los Angeles.

Then I discussed the cooperation of "The Martian" with 20th Century Fox and Columbia Pictures.

"The Martian" officially topped the annual sales of Amazon's e-book section. It took more than two months, which was much faster than Yang Lingyue's prediction.

At first, 20th Century took a fancy to "The Martian" and immediately contacted Su Ping's assistant to express the idea of ​​purchasing the film and television adaptation rights. Naturally, it would not be sold, but it could cooperate, so this meeting took place.

And Yang Lingyue naturally couldn't hang on a tree. As the former Asia-Pacific director of Columbia, Chen Guofu could help Huayi after leaving the job, and naturally he could also help Huajuan.

There was no trip to Facebook headquarters because Yang Lingyue felt that his previous ideas were a bit whimsical. He simply invested and waited for the investment, and cashed out at the high point and left. He didn't want to participate too much.

Returned to China on October 28.

What to do after returning to China? Naturally, rest for a day or two, and then go to Qingdao to join the crew of "The Sound of Wind" to do the finishing work.