Chapter 292 About Everyone's Opinions
The author saw many readers saying that this couple of parents should be whitewashed, so he wanted to explain...
In fact, all the behaviors and logic of this couple of parents from their appearance to now are the same.
Whitewashing means changing the three views of the characters and making them change.
But this couple of parents has not changed.
They just show different appearances in different scenes.
Everyone is complicated, just like everyone, in school, in society, in the family...maybe they are all different, right?
And this couple of parents, the author set is the most common type of parents in our lives.
They actually love their children from the bottom of their hearts, but unfortunately, due to their own abilities, knowledge and other reasons, they love but cannot express it.
The author will not whitewash such behavior.
Not being able to love is a failure as a parent
Having a loving mood but no loving behavior should be criticized.
You can't whitewash everything just because of the sentence "We are all for your own good".
This is the author's attitude.
And the same is true for Susu's parents.
They love Susu in their hearts.
If they didn't love Susu, Susu, as a child born with a disability, might have been abandoned directly.
After all, a poor family with a disabled child... is really adding insult to injury.
But they don't love.
They have been making decisions for Susu based on their own experience - for example, they will use their own experience to judge how to receive Chen Ming.
Although from their standpoint, this is to protect Susu and love Susu.
But for Susu, this behavior not only stifles her growth, but also destroys her plasticity.
This is contradictory, but also complementary.
But this is also the most parents in the world... isn't it?
So the author feels that there is no way to talk about whitewashing.
Their personalities and values have not changed since their debut.
The author will not change them in the future, that is, whitewashing them that everyone dislikes.
Their deep-rooted thoughts will keep them in this state.
From the debut to now.
Because of poverty, the inferiority complex engraved in their bones made them want to control Su Su, and let them vent their unhappiness in life on Su Su.
Because of poverty, they scolded Su Su, and then tried every means to grasp the opportunity to meet Chen Ming this time, and wanted to use the best means they knew - buying Maotai and giving Zhonghua to leave a good impression on the "big boss" Chen Ming.
Because of poverty, they felt that they had to work hard without thinking to get out of the predicament, so they urged Su Su to perform well in front of Chen Ming.
Because of poverty, they took the cigarettes and alcohol they bought for Chen Ming to their neighbors to show off.
It was also because of poverty that they were submissive and servile to Chen Ming.
This is a realistic description of most of their lives.
Poverty robbed them of too much.
It was not until Su Su and the big boss Chen Ming made "extreme" behaviors that their instinctive love for Su Su broke through the shackles of poverty on them.
When writing about them, the author thought of his own parents and the parents in many TV dramas...
They don't need to be whitewashed, and the author won't whitewash them.
The author doesn't want to mix too many personal emotions with them.
The author just wants to present these hateful, abominable, yet pitiful and pathetic parents.
That's all.
Whether their behavior is good or bad, the author will not comment, and is not qualified to comment.
Dear readers, you can judge for yourself.
Anyway, when the author was writing this part, the only sentence that kept circling in his mind was a sentence from "I'm Not the God of Medicine"...
"There is only one disease in the world - poverty."