241: Set Aside Differences for Now (1167 Votes Plus More)
At 20 years old, she was just a sophomore.
After graduating from college, she was only 23 years old. Married at 23? She still has her own career, she even misses her studies, and she may choose to go abroad for further study. These are all things that have not yet been decided. Taking a life for nothing, not enjoying youth arbitrarily, with the experience of a previous life, you must try to go to a higher place, get married early, and be entangled in family trivial matters and relationships?
Xia Xiaolan couldn't help shivering, this was not the life she wanted.
Zhou Cheng felt very puzzled: "Don't you want to marry me? Marriage is when the relationship between the two of us becomes legal, you are my daughter-in-law, you can stay in the army! This will not change anything, I will still treat you. Well, there is even a chance to be better for you... If you are worried that my family will object, I will definitely handle these things, and I will never let you worry about it, and I will not let you feel wronged! "
Isn't it just for the sake of marriage?
When he gets married, he can hug his daughter-in-law openly, kiss her, share a bed, take care of her, dress her and comb her hair, and give her all his money. Zhou Cheng is really looking forward to marrying Xia Xiaolan. He wants to be inseparable from her at all times. His name is written on the marriage certificate. When he grows old, he will be buried in the same tomb. !
Xia Xiaolan looked at him carefully.
This face is really young and beautiful.
From the aspect of the relationship between men and women, Zhou Cheng's heart is not stained with any dust.
He only had Xia Xiaolan in his eyes, and he was full of her.
Does Xia Xiaolan like Zhou Cheng?
like!
But she didn't put the love between men and women in the first place. She felt that the world was too exciting. She wanted to take a look at it with her youth! She and Zhou Cheng's understanding of love is correct, but the pace is inconsistent. Xia Xiaolan never thought of getting married so quickly, especially to be a soldier's wife. She was not ready to be a soldier's wife.
On this issue, Zhou Cheng is a little difficult to communicate.
I can't say who is at fault, it's just that everyone's ideas are different. This is an individual difference. Xia Xiaolan can't rudely classify Zhou Cheng's idea as a mistake.
She thought about it and decided to explain it carefully to Zhou Cheng:
"Zhou Cheng, I may want to apply for the Department of Architecture. If I go to Shanghai to study, I can choose Tongji University. But if you are in Beijing, I want to choose a university in Beijing. The best one is the Department of Architecture of Huaqing University. Of course Huaqing It's more difficult than Tongji, and I'm not completely sure. But you are here, I'm willing to give it a try... But it doesn't mean that we should get married soon, love is love, marriage is marriage, and the two cannot be confused. What I'm thinking about now is to finish college first, let our relationship develop naturally, and then consider whether to change from lovers to husband and wife when it comes naturally."
Xia Xiaolan is very cautious about marriage. Marriage is not only about love, it is more like a contract signed by both men and women after careful consideration. No, saying the contract is too rigid, it is more like a covenant. Once you sign it and then go back on it, it will hurt both sides.
This may be the difference between her and Zhou Cheng.
The influence of origin and growth on a person is more profound than she thought. Her parents passed away early, and she was left behind. Xia Xiaolan had never experienced a healthy and harmonious family atmosphere. She longed for a family, but was also afraid of rashly forming a family.
Zhou Cheng is different. Zhou Cheng's family background is good, and his growth process is extraordinarily confident.
Marriage is easy for Zhou Cheng, and this is his confidence... He is not afraid of changes in the relationship between the two, and is not afraid that the marriage may fail, because he has self-confidence and he can afford to lose!
Thinking like this, it seems unfair to Zhou Cheng, but Xia Xiaolan still decided to tell her true thoughts.
Zhou Cheng obviously did not expect it.
He felt that Xia Xiaolan was thinking too complicated, why should simple things be so complicated?
Others can get married just by seeing each other. He and Xiaolan are not introduced on a blind date. The two like each other. He does not lack money to raise a daughter-in-law.
Zhou Cheng knew that he could not reverse Xia Xiaolan's thoughts for a while, and he and Xiaolan had differences.
Of course he wasn't happy.
But two people can't quarrel, quarrel will make things worse. It's not that Zhou Cheng has no temper at all. He feels that big men can't care about lesbians. Xia Xiaolan's idea didn't convince him, he still wanted to marry his daughter-in-law back home as soon as possible.
Today's timing is too inappropriate, Zhou Yi appeared with Tong Lili and ruined this beautiful night.
Zhou Cheng hugged Xia Xiaolan, "I'll consider what you said, it's different from what I think, you always have to give me time to digest it, right? Be good, let's not quarrel, I'll ask Kang Wei to take me back to the army, The next time we meet may be after your college entrance examination, so I'll take you to eat, okay?"
Zhou Cheng's EQ is not low, doesn't he know what to say on what occasion?
He knows too well!
But he never maliciously spent his energy on other suitors until he met Xia Xiaolan. This is the woman he likes, and he is used to coaxing it, and he likes it!
Kang Wei and Shao Guangrong stood far away and didn't come over. Originally, the two seemed to be quarreling, and the war was extinguished again.
Kang Wei felt hot eyes.
Don't look at Xia Xiaolan's soft voice, it's all an illusion. Kang Wei's intuition is that the person who bows his head must be Zhou Cheng - thinking about how good his brother Chengzi was in the first 20 years, he will be reincarnated. Xia Xiaolan, Gao Leng, who was sitting still in her arms, was all left behind.
Dealing with an object is too terrifying, it will make a person all-faced and unprincipled.
Just as Kang Wei was thinking about it, he heard the two seem to have ended their quarrel, and Zhou Cheng raised his voice:
"
Kangzi, go get your car! "
The group of unsightly people were still in the Jingcheng Hotel, and Zhou Cheng decided to take Xia Xiaolan to another place for a late night snack. It doesn't matter what you eat, I just want to spend more time with Xia Xiaolan.
Shao Guangrong looked at the atmosphere, but did not dare to mention his plans.
The food was fried liver and belly. Although Zhou Cheng and Xia Xiaolan had been eating vegetables, Xia Xiaolan didn't pull her face, and the atmosphere was still a bit strange.
The two have different ideas, and even if they don't mention it, it's a pimple.
After eating, Kang Wei sent Zhou Cheng back to the army. Xia Xiaolan had already decided to return to Shangdu tomorrow. At the entrance of the army, Zhou Cheng hugged her:
"Xiaolan, I like you, so I want to marry you. We can discuss this issue slowly. You can't have a relationship with me because of this, and you can't dislike me because of this. It's too unfair to me."
Xia Xiaolan's heart softened.
Yes, it is too unfair to Zhou Cheng. He just likes her wholeheartedly and wants to marry her back home. Even if it is inconsistent with her thoughts, it cannot be said that this kind of thinking is wrong.
"I'm not angry, my love for you hasn't changed, you work hard, I study hard, and we must all become better! Come on, Zhou Cheng!"
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