Chapter 427 What's the Point of Living a Hip-Pull Life?
"The bustling city exhausts you and me. Gentle fingertips pick up the lost beauty. Dear listeners, this is the music station "Song for You". I am your friend Huang Tang."
Feng Yi hugged his laptop and sat in the back seat of the taxi, quietly listening to the beautiful melody coming from the car radio.
But the enthusiastic uncle driver couldn't understand that Feng Yi just wanted to be alone quietly, but started talking to Feng Yi enthusiastically.
"Little girl, are you going home after graduation? I see you have so much luggage, you can't move it by yourself, have you been notified by your family? It's not too safe to carry so much luggage by yourself at night. , but you must ask your family to come out to pick you up!"
Feng Yi smiled: "Thank you for your concern."
The driver didn't feel Feng Yi's indifference, or he didn't care if he felt it. Sometimes when he talked to the passengers, he didn't have to ask the passengers to answer him, but just to have someone to talk to and refresh himself, otherwise he would run for a day After getting out of the car, it would be really uncomfortable if no one spoke to me all the time.
"My daughter is about the same age as you. She is studying in a university in other places, and she is arguing that she will take the postgraduate entrance examination after graduation. Well, let me tell you, what's the use of that thing? It's better to graduate early and find a job earlier. Get married and have children earlier, and while I can do it, her mother and I can still bring her children!
Otherwise, after she finishes the exam, she will study for a few more years, and it will be difficult to find a job when she comes out, and it may be difficult to find a partner. Moreover, if you study for a few more years, the salary will not be much higher than that of the students who work directly in the same class..."
Hearing this, Feng Yi couldn't help distinguishing: "You can't just look at this. If you limit your eyes to the salary level after graduation, it would be too narrow. It is not only salary that determines our quality of life... "
The driver seemed a little surprised by Feng Yi's excitement, and the surprised eyes made Feng Yi's voice lower and lower, so low that the driver couldn't hear her voice in the same car.
The atmosphere was awkward for a second, and was broken by the enthusiasm of the driver: "Hey! That's what I said, in fact, my daughter can do whatever she wants, as long as she thinks about it, she doesn't regret it, she read more It's too late for me to be happy with the book for a few years!
Don't be fooled by those brats! It's really not possible, it's not like I can't afford a daughter! Why bother to get married and be angry with others? It’s good to read more, I can do any job in the future, unlike me, I can only drive a taxi! "
The driver's lenient attitude made Feng Yi's embarrassment disappear, and he was willing to take the initiative to take the initiative: "Uncle, don't think like this. You work seriously and earn money to support your family. There is nothing shameful about it."
The driver was happy: "Yes,
You're right, my niece told me that too! "
Feng Yi couldn't help laughing for a while, but soon, the smile disappeared again.
The driver glanced at Feng Yi from the rearview mirror: "Little girl, is there something unhappy about you? Why don't you tell me? Let me tell you, you really can't hold back your unhappiness. , holding it in for a long time will become a disease."
Feng Yi hesitated for a moment, and then opened his mouth after deliberation: "Actually, it's nothing, but, in fact, I also plan to take the postgraduate entrance examination..."
The driver was a little embarrassed: "Ahaha, isn't it? It's good to take the postgraduate entrance examination! Girls just need to study more. The more you study, the more you know, and you won't be easily bullied..."
Seeing the driver try hard to find love, the depression in Feng Yi's heart dissipated a lot: "But my boyfriend doesn't agree."
If you want to comfort me, the driver opened his mouth and said, "Hey, it's probably for your own good that the family disagrees. You have to communicate with them...Wait a minute, who doesn't agree?"
"My boyfriend."
The driver didn't understand: "Why didn't he agree? No, why should he agree to your postgraduate entrance examination?"
Feng Yi could hear the doubt and bewilderment in the uncle driver's tone, as well as a trace of resentment towards the "pig who pushed the cabbage", coupled with Feng Yi's inner grievance, the two of them felt a sense of common hatred at this moment. a feeling of.
"My grades have always been very good, and the possibility of passing the entrance examination is very high. However, my boyfriend may have the same idea as what you said just now, uncle. Maybe it is useless to pass the entrance examination. It is a waste of time Not to mention the three years, the salary after graduation may not be comparable to those students who work as soon as they graduate..."
Moreover, maybe the students have made a breakthrough in the past three years, all have their own careers, or become famous, or have a happy family, and I can only start all over again.
"Ahem, I just said it casually, don't take it seriously!" The driver comforted: "But didn't you say it just now, salary can't determine everything!"
Feng Yi smiled bitterly: "But money is really important."
The driver stopped talking. No one understands the hardships of life and the importance of money better than a man who has two families on his shoulders.
However, the driver master still asked that sentence: "But, what does this have to do with your boyfriend?"
Feng Yi was stunned for a moment: "But, I want to spend the rest of my life with him! I have to think about our future..."
"Confused!"
The driver was so angry that he just wanted to smash the steering wheel, but he restrained himself, "If you say that you gave up the postgraduate entrance examination to reduce the burden on your family, then I have to say you are filial! But for your boyfriend...
To put it bluntly, you are not married yet, so you should consider him first, and put others before yourself! Your parents raised you up so much for you to study and understand the truth, so that you can dedicate yourself to others? Is it to make you sacrifice your own future just to please others? "
Feng Yi is a little wronged, you asked me to say it, but after I said it, you still scolded me, I can't talk today!
The driver master was still a little angry: "You are only an adult now, and you are being managed like this by your boyfriend. Wouldn't it be even less free to speak of when you get married in the future? Don't even think about how angry and sad your parents should be, don't you?" Think about your parents, what kind of boyfriend do you think about?
If my daughter said something like that to me, I would! I beat that man to death! My daughter, I haven't said anything yet, it's your turn to chirp? What is it called? According to you young people, what is it called? PUAs? Or PAU?"
Feng Yi looked at the inexplicably angry driver, and his parents seemed to appear in front of him. If he let them know that he gave up the postgraduate entrance examination because his boyfriend disagreed, would he be as angry and sad as this uncle? ?
Probably yes, after all, my parents love me so much, and they have always been proud of their achievements.
However, Feng Yi cared very much about her boyfriend's opinion. If her boyfriend firmly disagreed, even if Feng Yi didn't give up, it would affect her mood and test preparation.
Feng Yi was extremely irritable.
The driver master said to Feng Yi earnestly: "Little girl, listen to uncle's persuasion. Ask yourself, do you really want to give up your decision for others? Ask yourself again, if you give up this time, what about next time?" What about next time? A lifetime is so long, are you sure you can compromise every time? Live your whole life with such grievances? Besides, can you and your boyfriend finally become... cough cough!"
The driver master really wants to say something directly, such a man, why don't you kick him early, is he still waiting for the New Year?
To love someone, you need to achieve each other, make each other better, and give each other a better future. If he disagrees with you today when you take the postgraduate entrance examination, will you disagree in various ways when you choose a job tomorrow?
From another perspective, if a woman is persuading her boyfriend not to take the postgraduate entrance examination and not to sprint for a higher position, what will happen in the future?
Build each other up, not hold each other down.
What's the point of living a hip-pull life?
But as the old saying goes, persuasion is not persuasion, and the driver is only limited to making suggestions, and will not persuade Feng Yi to make a decision.
After all, there are some things that only you can decide for yourself.
The master driver stopped talking and let Feng Yi think for himself. At the same time, in order to avoid embarrassment, he turned up the volume of the car radio a little bit.
On the radio, the host's familiar voice came: "The next thing I will present to you is a new song by Lin Fan, a talented musician. I hope that everyone can look up at the moment of confusion in their lives and find that song." One of my own, "The Brightest Star in the Night Sky."
"the brightest star in the night sky
can you hear me clearly
the one who looks up
The loneliness and sighs in my heart..."