Chapter 1019
"I just want my mother to help me. You can see my current body..." Yu Tao said while pointing to her bloated figure, "I have seen a doctor and he said that I look like this now. If it is abnormal, it must be properly conditioned.
Just like my mother-in-law said, I will definitely not feel at ease if someone else helps me take care of my children, so I have no choice but to trouble my own mother. I will pay for your mother's share of filial piety! "
"What about me?" Yu Guangjiu stared at his daughter with a dissatisfied look on his face, "Your mother has gone to take care of you, who will take care of me?"
Yu Tao's heart was filled with anger: "My mother is ill, how dare you ask her to take care of you?"
"You also know that your mother is ill, so how can you have the nerve to ask her to help you take care of your children?" Yu Guangjiu replied.
When her father said this, Yu Tao was really speechless. Yes, if you don't let your mother take care of your father, is it possible that you should let your mother take care of your granddaughter?
It seems that using this gentle method really can't solve the problem completely. Does it mean that you have to really fall out? Although that was what she thought at first, she still didn't want to go to this point unless she had to.
Of course, it's not that she's worried that her husband's family will look down on her without the support of her mother's family. As far as the Zhou family is concerned, there is absolutely no such possibility. It's not that she is attached to the Yu family and can't let go of her family, but that she doesn't want her mother to be in trouble.
When I was angry, I wanted to break up with the Yu family, take my mother by my side, and have nothing to do with the Yu family from now on. However, if I think about it carefully, that is unrealistic.
No matter how badly the Yu family treats my mother, this is still the place where my mother has lived for decades. She would definitely not be able to accept it if she was asked to leave him and have no contact with him from now on. Although the eldest brother, the second brother and the younger sister are not good to my mother, it is impossible for my mother not to miss them.
If she didn't know Zhou Xikang at first. If Zhou Xikang hadn't gotten together, wouldn't the Yu family be what it is now? She asked herself this question countless times, but there was no correct answer.
When she was young, her parents didn't get along very well, but their brothers and sisters still got along well, especially between her and her eldest brother. It can be said that at that time, it was definitely her elder brother who helped her vent her anger when she was bullied.
After the eldest brother got married, the relationship between the brother and sister gradually faded due to the eldest sister-in-law, but compared to the other brothers and sisters, they were still the closest until she married into the Zhou family and refused to help her eldest brother change his job. The relationship between the brother and sister really hit a freezing point.
Her sister-in-law, who didn't like her very much in the first place, looked at her with cold eyes every time.
Between the second brother and her,
It's inherently indifferent. I saw that she rejected her eldest brother without even mentioning it, but. The relationship with her is even weaker than before.
As for my younger sister, I have always been compared with her since I was a child. When she married into the Zhou family, her little sister kept blowing wind in her ears. I hope she can help her find a good man. The implication is that when you marry high, you can't just care about yourself.
Over the years, the relationship between her and her family became weaker and weaker. Even if she gave back to the Yu family, which far exceeded what any daughter in the family could give, the family was still dissatisfied.
Because in their view, other people marry into ordinary families and have too much time to take care of themselves. How can they be able to help their natal family? But she was different. After marrying into a wealthy family like the Zhou family, and becoming the eldest mistress of a wealthy family, she naturally had to help her parents' family. Even if she couldn't compete with her husband's family, it would still be hundreds of times better than the average ordinary people's family. .
In fact, talking about things, with the help of the Zhou family over the years, the Yu family has become more than a little bit better than ordinary people. Unfortunately, this is far from satisfying them.
Therefore, under this imbalance between supply and demand, the relationship between the two parties becomes increasingly tense...
She has no feelings for her father. I believe that not only her, but her eldest brother, second brother and younger sister also feel the same about him. In this family, there is no difference at all with or without him. It is even said that without him , they will only live better.
He loves gambling, beats his wife and children, smokes and drinks a lot, this is Yu Guangjiu.
But Yu Guangjiu also has an advantage, that is, filial piety.
What Mr. Yu and Mrs. Yu say, he will carry out without compromise. Because of this, he likes to gamble and beat his wife and children. Mr. Yu not only ignores the old lady, but also often excuses him.
In the past, Mr. Yu and Mrs. Yu lived in different houses in turns. Since she married into the Zhou family and moved her parents to a more spacious house, the old couple have always lived in their house.
In such a family, Cong Qiuying, who was supposed to be the master, has become the outsider with the least status. If ranked in order, in order of status in this family, they are: Mr. Yu, Mrs. Yu, and Yu Guangjiu , Yu Gang (eldest brother), Yu Qiang (second brother), Yu Xiang, Wang Meiyu (eldest sister-in-law), Li Xinlan (second sister-in-law), Yu Mei, Cong Qiuying.
If my second uncle and aunt come over, along with my nieces and nephews, my mother's status will be even further down the line.
It is true that a woman's position in her husband's family is given by her husband, because Yu Guangjiu's contempt for his wife caused everyone in the Yu family, including the younger generation, to disrespect Cong Qiuying.
If it weren't for her mother, Yu Tao would never have asked the Zhou family to help them move such a big house.
Originally, their family lived in a small apartment of 2, but the Zhou family was rehabilitated. When the belongings were returned, the house was compensated to their family. As a result, her parents, brother and sister-in-law moved into this large apartment of more than 100 square meters. inside.
In this era, this kind of house is extremely scarce, and it is definitely not something you can live in if you have money. This is not only a matter of living comfortably, but also a status symbol!
Then the grandparents moved in as a matter of course.
She didn't stop her at that time, because she felt that everyone knew that the person she was closest to was her mother, and she had created this condition for the family. She did not look at the monk's face but the Buddha's face, so everyone should respect her mother more.
At the beginning, everyone did give her this feeling. It was not until two years later, when she had been infertile, that she realized that what she saw was always fake and her mother's true colors were revealed. The so-called higher status than before is just to cooperate with their acting.
She was very angry at the time, but it was easy to invite gods but difficult to send them away. She didn't want her husband's family to know about this kind of family scandal, so in the end, she had to endure it.
Unexpectedly, her patience was rewarded by their intensification.
If this time, I can handle it gently and put it down again...
Suddenly, Yu Tao made up her mind. She looked at Yu Guangjiu with an indifferent expression: "Dad, why did you marry my mother?"
Yu Guangjiu didn't expect his daughter to ask him this question. He was stunned and frowned: "Why else? People should get married when they should get married."
"Why my mother?"
"What's the reason for this?" Yu Guangjiu snorted coldly, "If I had known she had this kind of temperament, I wouldn't have married her even if I begged. She's always known to be a Sangmen star with her elbows turned outward!"
"In other words, you regret marrying my mother?"
Yu Xiang, who had already sensed something was wrong, shouted: "Second sister, parents can handle their own affairs. What's going on with you meddling in here? What if your future child mingles with you and your brother-in-law like this?" Are you happy with your marriage?"
"Mom, do you regret marrying my dad?" Yu Tao looked at Cong Qiuying with a particularly serious expression.
"I..." Sighing, Cong Qiuying smiled bitterly, "What do you regret about this? Isn't this how every woman lives? Marrying a good man is your blessing. Marrying a man who doesn't love you is your own blessing. Men can only blame themselves for their bad luck.
However, Mom doesn’t regret giving birth to you two at all. Mom feels that her life is worth it. Taoer, don’t worry about Mom in the future and live your life well.
You have given enough to your family. From now on, no matter what anyone asks for, you don’t have to agree..." Then she looked at Yu Guangjiu and said, "I know that you have always disliked me.
Back then, if our family didn't ask for a small amount of betrothal gifts and there was no one else to marry you, you wouldn't have married me. After we got married, you always disliked me. No matter what I did, you felt it was wrong. .
You always compare me with other people’s daughters-in-law, and you always think other people’s daughters-in-law are better. I feel really guilty for delaying you for so many years. Let’s go and get divorced. I won’t drag you down in the future. . "
"What a beautiful idea you have!" Yu Guangjiu stared at her with red eyes, "You want to leave me and live a good life with your daughter? What a dream!"
"Yes, in order to let my daughter live a good life, I must divorce you and let her break away from this family. Are you all her relatives?
It’s nothing more than plotting against her, even her man plotting against her. Is this something humans do? Fortunately, Tao'er married an upright man. Otherwise, wouldn't she be so angry with you all?
In the past, I always thought that as time goes by and you get older, you will be different from when you were young. Looking at it now, I am really stupid.
It's not that I never thought about breaking up with you before, but in order to give my children a complete home and to prevent them from being laughed at, I endured it.
Now that the children have grown up, I have nothing to endure anymore. Whether I enjoy the happiness with my daughter or suffer by myself, it is more comfortable than living with you! "
"Mom..." Yu Tao looked at Cong Qiuying with a face of surprise. She didn't want to have a quarrel at first, but she was afraid that her mother would not want to leave this family. Now it seems that she really underestimates her mother!
"Tao'er, mom is weak, but not confused. Mom also knows what you are worried about..." Sighing, Cong Qiuying smiled bitterly, "Mom knows better that you are not willing to let mom suffer alone, but relatively Rather than being dragged down by mom alone and being dragged down by this big family, mom should be selfish for a while." (To be continued...)
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