Chapter 133 The Best Mother in the World

Ning Youguang came out of the kitchen with Ming Jinxin.

When the two came out, they saw Zhou Tang entering the door.

White T-shirt and black shorts, dressed in a very simple and casual way, with two bottles of wine in hand, one red and one white.

"It's just a casual meal, why are you delivering seafood and getting wine?" Ming Jinxin laughed when he saw him.

Speaking of which, Zhou Tang is a few years older than her son.

But it may be because he is in the entertainment circle, and his daily clothes are young and fashionable. Every time she sees him, she always feels younger than her own son, and she can't help but take care of him more.

"How can there be no wine for a big meal?" He secretly brought these two bottles of wine to Xiaoqian while he was squatting in the pit.

When Zhou Tang approached, several people in the room noticed that his hair was wet, and there was still a thin layer of water vapor on his skin, and his body was full of fragrance.

I don't know if it's the shower scent left after I just took a shower, or the perfume he sprayed on it specially.

...

When everyone is here, we can have dinner.

At the dinner table, Ming Jinxin asked Ning Youyu: "Do you want to drink soup before meals or after meals?"

"I want to drink soup while eating." Ning Youyu thought for a while and replied.

Ming Jinxin looked at his youngest son's serious face, and smiled: "Okay, then I'll put some soup on it for you, and you can drink it if you want."

Ning Youyu nodded happily: "Okay, thank you, Mom."

Seeing him so happy, Ming Jin secretly heaved a sigh of relief.

Fortunately, I listened carefully to my daughter's analysis and immediately corrected the way I got along with my youngest son.

After serving Ning Youyu the soup, she gratefully looked at Ning Youguang beside her, and picked up a prawn for her.

"Thank you, Auntie." Ning Youguang secretly gave her a thumbs up and gave her a thumbs up.

With the double approval of his son and daughter, Ming Jinxin was even happier, so he told Ning Youyu: "Xiaoyu, eat well today, and mom and sister will take you to the zoo next week."

Ning Youyu was stunned.

After reacting, she happily jumped up from her seat and hugged Ming Jinxin, "Mom, you are the best mother in the world."

The soft and waxy voice is full of joy and love.

Ming Jinxin was so moved that her throat choked up.

She had never seen her youngest son so satisfied and happy, holding her was like owning the whole world.

In the past, even if she bought him more limited editions and took him to eat delicious food, there was nothing.

But today, she witnessed it.

Witness the deep joy of seeing the youngest son completely satisfied.

She finally understood why her daughter said that for a child, it is more important to simply satisfy him than to give him better material, life, etc. according to worldly standards.

fortunately……

The pure love between Ming Jinxin's mother and son not only made them feel very happy and happy, but also infected the people around them.

Both Ming Chao and Zhao Sui unconsciously set their sights on Ning Youguang.

Zhao Sui's eyes were full of novelty and inquiry.

Ming Chao's eyes were full of joy and gratitude.

They had heard the two siblings chatting on the sofa before.

Although Ning Youyu consciously whispered to his sister, his voice was not low.

After Zhao Sui and Ming Chao paid a little attention, they listened to the entire chat between the two of them.

The reason for Ming Jinxin's change of attitude towards his youngest son is clear at a glance.

Zhou Tang came later, and did not hear the conversations between the Ning family siblings, but this did not prevent him from being moved by the pure love between Ming Jinxin and Ning Xiaoyu.

Ning Yi also had a deep smile on his face.

With a backhand, Ming Jinxin picked up a piece of food with chopsticks.

After Ming Jin smiled heartily and ate up all the dishes her husband had put in, she asked Ning Youguang with an attitude of wanting to learn: "Can you tell me why you feel that meeting the needs of children is more important than everything else? "

"There is a white professor in the Department of Psychology of the University of Washington in the United States who has studied the self all his life. He once put forward a point of view, which I agree with. He believes that a person's self-esteem comes from two main aspects: one is 'love', and the other is 'Achievement'. If children live with their parents in the early stage, if they experience a lot of love and understanding, then the children will see a lovely and valuable self in the eyes of their parents. This sense of value is only about 'I am a person worthy of being Loved person'. Afterwards, children will slowly internalize this understanding and form a positive understanding of themselves."

"What about the other way around?" Ming Jin thought.

"On the contrary, parents don't care about their children's inner needs, and have to forcefully arrange everything for their children according to their own will. Then, what the children experience will be a deep sense of deficiency, and they will feel that they are inherently inferior. He is not worthy of being loved, so of course he cannot see the value of himself as a 'natural person'. Just ask, how can a person who feels that he is not worthy of being loved from the bottom of his heart have self-confidence from the heart?"

Ning Youguang's words made everyone present enter into a state of deep thought.

Zhou Tang thought for a while and asked back: "I also found that many people who were not liked by their parents in the early years seem to be quite confident when they grow up. At least they look like this on the outside. What is the reason?"

Ning Youguang replied: "This involves our sense of value as a 'social person', which is mainly derived from our recognition of our own abilities and achievements. That is to say, even if we did not feel unconditional from our parents when we were young love, but I saw my ability and the results I achieved, and I also experienced a sense of value. For example, I have good academic performance, for example, I can make a lot of money, for example, I have a high social status... a person who believes in his own ability , in his field of expertise, he is naturally confident. However, deep down in his heart, he may still have a sense of lack. The lack of love and dissatisfaction are just hidden by him so deeply that it is difficult for outsiders to see. Of course, everyone I hope that I can have both. I have been loved or loved, and I also have my own abilities and achievements. This state can truly enable a person to achieve a state of fullness and integration, to achieve the state of accepting oneself and accepting the world. The most authentic confidence."

Zhao Sui also raised a question, "Aren't many parents worried about spoiling their children now? A child who fully accepts and understands and meets the needs of the child is not spoiling the child?"

Ning Youguang shook his head, "Doting is not love, doting is hurting."

Zhao Sui sighed, "Then the scale in this is too difficult to grasp."

Ning Youguang smiled, "So giving birth to a child requires careful consideration, and educating children is even more important. However, fate has its own arrangements, and everything needs to be viewed with a positive and multi-angle perspective."

After hearing the first half of her sentence, everyone's heart tensed up, and after hearing the second half of her sentence, their hearts relaxed again.

Ming Jinxin looked at Ning Youguang, and seemed to sigh with emotion, "Youyou will definitely be a very good mother in the future."

At this moment, Ning Youyu, who was eating food quietly, suddenly extended his thumb to Ning Youguang and nodded heavily, "My sister is the best sister in the world, and she must be the best mother in the world."

His childish words made all the adults present laugh.

Ning Youguang smiled and asked back, "Why does Xiaoyu say that my sister is the best sister in the world?"

Ning Youyu replied loudly, "Because my sister takes good care of me and always stays with me."

Everyone laughed.

After laughing, Ning Youguang said to Ming Jinxin, "If I have a child in the future, I will definitely be able to educate him well."

This is her confidence in her ability and wisdom, but the premise is that she has children.

Ming Jinxin didn't hear the deep meaning in her words, but followed her words and suggested, "Then if you get married in the future, you must have more children. The children who can come to you must be very lucky children."

As soon as she said this, there was a moment of silence.

Ning Youguang smiled, but did not speak.

According to her habitual thinking, Ning Yi believed that her daughter's silence was because she didn't like being "produced."

So he said, "Some are still young, don't worry about these issues."

In fact, it was the other three adult men who were really afraid of being forced to marry.

"Yeah yeah."

...

After eating, Ning Youguang sat with his family and planned to drive back to school.

Seeing that she was about to leave, Zhou Tang got up immediately: "You Guang, let me see you off."

As soon as he said this, Ning Yi and Ming Chao's deep eyes fell on him.

He sneered, and added, "My driver is waiting downstairs. I just happen to be going there for business. It's very convenient to drop by."

When he said this, he touched the tip of his nose.

Ning Youguang refused with a smile, "It's more convenient for me to drive by myself, so I don't need Brother Zhou to give you the tickets. Thank you for the tickets."

"Will you come to my concert?" When Zhou Tang looked at Ning Youguang seriously, his eyes were dark and deep, glowing with charming luster.

After all, he is a handsome and extraordinary male star, with a pair of peach blossom eyes, when he looks at people seriously, he has the magic power that makes people fall into it easily if they are not careful.

No wonder those girls on the Internet call Zhou Tang Husband every day.

Ning Youguang finished with emotion, and sighed with a smile, "How lucky I am, to receive the concert tickets presented by Tangtang himself, wouldn't it be a pity not to go?"

"Tang Tang" is Zhou Tang's fans' nickname for him.

In fact, she is not a fan of Zhou Tang, and she rarely listens to pop music.

But, she knows someone likes it very much.

Every detail of the face in front of me is full of slenderness, softness, and exquisiteness... the eyes are like autumn water, the lips are red and the nose is beautiful, it can't be described too much.

How could a girl grow so good-looking, so that she could step on his aesthetic points everywhere...

Both of Zhou Tang's thick eyebrows rippled softly.

"Okay, I'll wait for you." 1314

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