Chapter 128 I Haven't Been This Happy for a Long, Long Time

After several weeks of treatment, Xia Fanxing felt that his condition was much better.

Especially, when I left UCAS last time.

Teacher Ning smiled and said to him: "I think you are making progress. Although you still have a lot of homework to complete, you are already on the road of learning. Let's keep working hard, and you will only get better and better in the future." .”

This is the first time Teacher Ning has affirmed his progress so seriously.

That day the consultation ends.

After Xia Fanxing returned home, he felt that he hadn't been this happy for a long, long time.

...

But soon.

New problems arise again.

On Sunday, he plays games at home.

His uncle came unexpectedly and came to see him at home.

When the doorbell rang, he immediately got up and went to open the door.

He knew that when the doorbell rang, nine out of ten it was uncle.

Because of his home, no one will come except the courier brother, delivery man and uncle.

And he just didn't order takeaway, and he didn't have a courier to accept.

Passing through the dark lobby, he opened the door, and through the courtyard door, he saw his uncle standing outside the door.

Seeing him, Mr. Xia said, "It's quick to open the door today."

Xia Fanxing walked over and opened the iron gate, "I just heard it."

After he came in, he locked the courtyard door again.

Xia Dong frowned and looked at him: "Two big men are at home, why do you want to lock the yard? You are too cowardly! You have to get rid of these bad habits!"

Xia Fanxing followed behind him without saying a word.

Xia Dong crossed the courtyard, strode into his house, and asked, "What are you doing?"

Knowing that his uncle annoyed him the most by staying at home and playing games all day long, he didn't say anything, but trotted all the way to keep up with him, and asked, "Why didn't uncle call me in advance when he came?"

When Xia Dong entered his home, he opened the door generously and barged in like his own, "Come to your place, do you still need me to call you in advance to make an appointment?"

After speaking, he began to patrol his home.

It has been a long time since Xia Fanxing's family has invited workers and aunts.

All the household chores such as food, clothing and housing are taken care of by him alone.

Meals are all taken out, cleaning is done by robots, washing machines, and the rest can be moved.

Usually he is alone at home, except for the bedroom and the game hall, he doesn't use it anywhere else, and he doesn't clean it when he doesn't use it. Many places have accumulated thick dust.

He doesn't care, but uncle does.

So Mr. Xia went around the living room of his house for a few times and found that he could not find a clean place for him to sit down. Severely accused and criticized.

Standing by the side helplessly accepting his uncle's criticism and lessons, Xia Fanxing naturally began to feel angry, but after the anger passed, he felt deep sadness again.

Such him is undoubtedly hypocritical in Xia Dong's eyes.

He looked at him with the look of "contemptuousness" that he had seen countless times in his father's body: "You are still being hypocritical, you really should go out and have a look, look at the people around you, or my house, or go to Li Xing, Take a look at Wu Hao's house and see who among them like you likes to live in the garbage dump and be a garbage man."

Li Xing and Wu Hao are Xia Fanxing's younger siblings, and they are also the younger generation of Xia Fanxing's family.

Before Xia Fanxing was autistic, he often played with them.

After self-isolation, there has been no contact for a long time.

After scolding Xia Fanxing, Chairman Xia began to care about his treatment again.

This allowed Xia Fanxing to temporarily withdraw from the negative emotions.

Xia Fanxing suppressed his anger and sadness, pulled himself together and replied, "Ms. Ning is different from ordinary counselors, I think she is pretty good."

Xia Dong felt very good about finding a good psychiatrist for his nephew.

The originally serious face also began to become kind and kind, and he told his nephew the purpose of meeting him this time in a good voice, "I have already found such a good teacher for you, since you think she is very good, then Quickly cheer up, find a few people to come back and tidy up the house, and tidy up yourself to go to work in the company. If you don’t want to go to work, you can write me a resignation letter so that I can show it to the board of directors and let them Knowing that you don't want to be a member of the company's board of directors, I will replace you as a member of the company's board of directors."

Hearing this, Xia Fanxing was completely upset.

He was so angry.

How could uncle let him write a letter of resignation and kick him out of the board?

Although he hasn't gone to work in the company these years, it doesn't mean that he doesn't want to continue to be a member of the board of directors of the family company. This is the position and shares left to him by his father. Why should his uncle replace him when he says he wants to replace him? take it all away? !

Xia Fanxing, who was used to obeying his elders, no matter how dissatisfied he was, he couldn't immediately refute his uncle.

But she also didn't want to listen to him like before.

So he whispered, "Uncle, I will go to Teacher Ning for treatment."

His uncle seemed to have not heard what he said, and asked impatiently, "Do you want to write a resignation letter?"

If it was Xia Fanxing who didn't ask Mr. Ning to be a case, he might be forced by his uncle's authority and because he was not interested in anything, he would write a resignation letter very quickly and hand it to his uncle.

And he will also feel very grateful to his uncle who helped him take over the heavy responsibility.

But now he is not.

After recalling some of the recent times he had communicated with Teacher Ning, he mustered up the courage to look up, "Uncle, I think I still like being a member of this board of directors, and I'm also seeing a doctor at Teacher Ning now, can you help me?" Can't you give me some time to think about my future work?"

...

On Wednesday, be on time for appointments.

Xia Fanxing is already very familiar with Mr. Ning's simple and clean office.

There was no need for Ning Youguang to greet him, so he sat down on the chair in the middle of Ning Youguang's office, and then angrily and speechlessly explained in detail what happened when his uncle came to the house last time.

Ning Youguang sat opposite, and after listening quietly, he said, "So your uncle is not a psychological counselor, he is an elder, and he is used to acting as a teacher."

After the uncle's story was finished, the two continued to consult with each other on the unfinished content last time.

After a period of treatment, he is gradually returning to life, with some flesh growing on his face, and he looks better.

"I want to analyze the source of my emotions and how to not be troubled by them."

"This is a topic worthy of our exploration. As a basic emotion of human beings, emotion is not produced on its own initiative, it is produced for other reasons, and it is dependent on it. So, if you want to know yourself The source of emotions requires self-awareness, what are you thinking before emotions arise, this requires you to think with your brain and rationality."

"To be honest, Teacher Ning, it's a little difficult."

"Why is it difficult?"

"I read that people who are caught in emotions are irrational. In this case, you still want me to be aware of why I have emotions when they happen. Isn't it difficult for others?"

"It's really difficult, but don't you want to figure out the source of your emotions?"

"Do I have to do this?" Xia Fanxing asked in embarrassment, "Is there an easier way?"

"That's the easiest way."

Xia Fanxing was silent.

He looked at Ning Youguang quietly, pondering, and was waiting for her to come up with a second method.

However, no matter how seriously he looked at her, she still calmly waited for him to make a choice.

Xia Fanxing was discouraged and gave up competing with her.

He also realized that he was really sick. How could he be more patient than a psychological counselor? !

He could only sigh and said, "Then please tell me, how should I perceive it?"

Ning Youguang smiled, and said in a gentle voice: "First of all, you have to learn to control your emotions so that they don't come out immediately, and then, during this buffer period, carefully observe your inner needs. Normally, one The source of a person's emotions is that his inner needs have not been met. When you observe your true inner needs, you can use a more moderate way to meet your needs, whether it is self-satisfaction or self-satisfaction. It doesn't matter if someone satisfies you, once your needs are met, your emotional problems will naturally be solved. In this way, you will not continue to use emotions to solve the problem, making the problem more difficult, yourself and others. more uncomfortable."

Got it, got it, you're saying that I only lose my temper indiscriminately and make trouble for no reason.

Xia Fanxing felt that he was being laughed at severely, but he didn't dare to say it.

So, after thinking for a while, I replied: "It seems to be like this. Every time I am in a bad mood, it is because someone said something that made me uncomfortable, did something that I didn't like, or I did it myself. When what you do is not what you want, when what you do is not what others want.”

"That's it, so if you want to stop being led by emotions, you have to learn to understand what emotions are. There are no good or bad emotions. The key lies in how a person uses them when they arise. If it’s not good, it will hurt others and yourself, and if it’s used well, it’s a very good tool that can help people see what they need in their hearts.”

"After discussing for so long, I understand." Xia Fanxing said angrily, "You mean that emotions are not the problem, but I am the problem, right?"

"You interpreted it correctly." Teacher Ning, with a gentle and beautiful face, got up from the chair and said unemotionally, "Okay, it's time for today's consultation. If you have any questions, go back and sort them out. Save it and ask me next time.”

After finishing speaking, she stuffed a bottle of water into his hand, "See you next time."

Xia Fanxing was almost pushed out of her office by Ning Youguang.

Moreover, after stepping out of her office door, she walked less than two meters.

He heard a "bang", and the door behind him was closed coldly.

Xia Fanxing turned his head, staring at the door in disbelief.

He felt that he was really sick!

I would actually feel reluctance to leave a psychological counselor in a cold office. 1314