1065 Unstinting Encouragement And Perfection (3/3)

Chapter 1065 Unstinting Encouragement and Perfection (33)

Dad's question is very easy to answer. If you are not happy playing the game of stacking cups, of course you are happy! Xixi smiled and nodded to her father.

"Then dad described an environment to you, that is, if you were given a room, such as our current bedroom, and you were playing stacking cups in the room alone, would you feel happy, or should we have fun tonight?" Yang Yi said The problem is well described.

However, Xixi still had a big brain, she tilted her little head and asked curiously: "Will Xiner play with me?"

"There is no Xin'er, only you alone." Yang Yi shook his head.

Xixi blinked her eyes, then quickly shook her head, pouted and said, "I don't want to play alone!"

When Xixi was young, she was really lonely, but since she was four years old, she was accompanied by her father at home, and her parents would take her out to play with her when they were on business trips, and she played with her friends in the kindergarten, and there were many, many more. Good friend, this made her a little unaccustomed to being alone!

When Yang Yi mentioned this, he just made a small comparison, and didn't intend to scare Xixi, so he smiled slightly, and then said: "Then do you think that when you play tonight, you stack the cups very well?" Great, and when your parents and younger brother applaud you, you feel a sense of accomplishment?"

Xixi immediately thought of the feeling just now, and suddenly became full of spirits: "Yeah, yes, I'm super happy!"

"So, this is what we try to do, not only for ourselves, but also to be recognized by more people. Praise or encouragement from others is a very strong motivation for each of us. Motivation! Do you feel happier after getting everyone's praise, and hope that you can do better?" Yang Yi clenched his fists and said to Xixi.

Xixi nodded obediently.

"Do you think they are not happy when Dad asks you to join us to applaud mom or younger brother?" Yang Yi then asked another question.

Xixi's eyes lit up, she had something to say about this topic, she happily grabbed her father's hand and said, "Papa, let me tell you, you, me, and brother, after applauding Ma Ma , Ma Ma is willing to play cup stacking, and she doesn't even know that she is also super good!"

Seeing the happy look of the little girl, it seemed that Murphy was also credited for being able to stack cups so well.

Yang Yi was amused by the innocent look of the little girl, he laughed, stretched out his right hand to rub Xixi's slightly damp hair, and said, "Yes, your encouragement is very important!"

"And my younger brother, he also likes to play very much, and when I gave him the thumbs up, he was so happy!" Xixi gestured to her father with her little thumb, and smiled happily.

"Well, that's right, this is the first topic that Dad wants to talk to you tonight. We can't bear to say some words of encouragement to others!" Yang Yi said softly, "You have also seen how powerful the power of encouragement is? Is it someone encouraging you, or you encouraging others, just such a short sentence, such a simple gesture..."

Yang Yi gave a thumbs up and pointed to Xixi: "Things that are easy to do can be given to others, or others can give us more joy and better motivation."

Although Dad was smiling, his attitude became more correct. Xixi also felt it, so she looked at Dad intently and listened carefully.

"Don't underestimate this little encouragement. Although this kind of encouragement is not the key to a person's success, this kind of encouragement can help the other person do one thing better!" Yang Yi said softly, "You Think about it, you are in such a good mood tonight, and you stack the cups quickly and accurately, if you are not in a normal mood without the encouragement of your father, mother, and younger brother, is it possible that you would not be so strong?"

Xixi nodded vigorously, these metaphors from her father are relatively easy to understand. Until now, Xixi listened without much burden, because she was still in a state of ignorance and didn't know where these principles should be used.

"Why did Dad talk to you about this topic?" Yang Yi smiled slightly and said, "Because this evening, when Dad picked you up and Xin Er went home, you and Xin Er were in the car. Little girl?"

Seeing her father suddenly mentioning this matter, Xixi also realized that she might not have done it right. She twisted on the chair nervously and nodded reluctantly.

"Father thinks that your mentality may not be good. Before doing something, we deny the ability of others, which will bring negative energy to the other party and us." Yang Yi smiled, "Dad said this, you may find it hard to understand, that is, let's think about it in a different way. If we didn't look at this problem with this unhappy attitude at the beginning, but just like what Dad said before, go Tell Cao Ruolin, monitor, I believe you will take good care of Xiaoya, you are also a very caring person! Then, she is in a good mood, will she also work hard to take care of Xiaoya?"

Xixi pouted her mouth in disbelief, and said, "But, I hope Xiaoya can come to our house to play!"

"This is the second topic that Dad wants to talk to you tonight. We must have a heart to pursue perfection, but what we want to achieve is not perfection, but perfection! Because not everything in this world, We can all satisfy our own wishes." Yang Yi used what happened tonight as an example again, "For example, tonight, when you are playing stacking cups, do you think you can fold faster than your parents? quick?"

Being exposed the reality, Xixi felt very unhappy, she muttered reluctantly: "Papa and Mama are faster."

"Yes, you didn't do your best, but it doesn't matter! Dad still thinks you performed well tonight, and you are very happy, and we are all very happy, because although you did not do your best, but Dad thinks that you have done a great job. You can do so well on the first day of playing, and you will definitely make better progress in the future! Thinking about it this way, your performance is worthy of praise and joy, you say Isn't it?" Yang Yi said softly.

Xixi listened to what her father said, and after thinking about it carefully, she really did well. No wonder her father and mother were so happy, and her mood got better again. She smiled and said, "That's right!"

"So, we want to be the best, but sometimes, we can't be the best, and it doesn't matter, as long as we put in the effort, make progress, or get the results we should have at this stage, This is already very good!" Yang Yi gave Xixi a thumbs up.

"The reason for inviting Xiaoya to our house as a guest is actually the same. You are very kind. I hope Xiaoya can come to our house and get good care. This idea is very good, but other students also have this idea. It is impossible for everyone to be able to do it." Satisfied. So the teacher also considered this issue. Maybe this weekend, the little girl went to the home of class monitor Cao Ruolin. Next week, maybe the little girl will come to our house. Even if she doesn’t come next week, she may come next week of."

"The teacher believes in you very much. You are all very caring children. No matter whose house the little girl goes to play, she will definitely have a good time." Yang Yi said softly, "If it is next week, the little girl will come to our Come home, will you also entertain it warmly?"

"Of course!" Xixi nodded vigorously, and raised her voice, "I want to give the little girl my room, so that the little boy and the others won't scare the little girl!"

"Look, although Xiaoya didn't come to our house this weekend, it's not perfect, but if she comes in the future, you will still be very happy, won't you?" Yang Yi said softly.

"Yeah!" Xixi nodded faster this time, but she didn't smile this time, she just pursed her lips and tried to accept it.

"Then if, let's not be so low-key, we are happy to congratulate Cao Ruolin and encourage her, and hope that she will take good care of Xiaoya. Next time Xiaoya comes to our house, we will take better care of Xiaoya. You Can you be happy too?" Yang Yi said with a smile.

"Actually, the monitor is actually very good. On Thursday, when she wiped the little girl's stink, she was not afraid, and then bought a lot of rags!" Xixi finally said something fair. Originally, these The discovery was hidden in her heart.